mzushi flani
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nna gf 6 hapa , unaniambia nna familia 6?.
nna gf 6 hapa , unaniambia nna familia 6?.Girlfriend ni familia yako tarajiwa so kumpa huduma ndogondogo ni vzuri kunakuandaa kuja kutake over kuhudumia familia. unaanza kujua changamoto za kuwa na watu wanaokutegemea. Pia inaimarisha mapenzi yenu.
Sio Kila mahusiano lazima yahusishe UPENDO ndani yake.Ila wengi husema hapa hawawezi mpa mwnaamke yeyote pesa.
Na kama mtu hujampenda upo nae wanini ?
That's too bad ila nmeshaelewa kua msipotupenda hamtuhudumii. Wanawake wenzangu mmewasikia hawa wanafanya ubahili sababu hawatupendi kwahio na sie tusilazimishe tukiona hali hizi tukimbie kwa miguu yote. Nashukuru mungu nilifanya maamuzi sahihi kumuacha.Sio Kila mahusiano lazima yahusishe UPENDO ndani yake.
Unaweza kua na mahusiano na mwanamke, ili mradi TU mambo yako kazini yaende sawia( Kama Ni boss).
Unaweza kua na mwanamke kimahusiano, kwa sababu marafiki au Ndugu zako au wazazi wako wanapenda kukuona nae.
Kwaiyo Utakua nae kuwaridhisha watu flan flan.
Unaweza kua na mwanamke kimahusiano, kwasababu TU anajua kukata kiuno kitandani, unafurahia Sana huduma yake kunako 6×6.
Ila hauna Upendo nae kabisa.
Unaweza kua na mwanamke kimahusiano, kwasababu TU unamuonea huruma, anakupenda Sana kias kwamba ukimuacha anaweza kujiua.
Kwaiyo unakua nae TU Kama daktari wa vichaa anavoishi na wagonjw wake.
Unaweza kua na mwanamke ili mradi TU mambo yako flan flan yaende sawa, wanaita "KUTREND" au "KIKI".
Hii inatokea Sana kwa wasanii,
Mimi Ni underground, ila najua nikitoka kimapenzi na WEMA SEPETU ntakua maarufu na mziki wangu Utakua.
Hii imetoke pia hata kwa HARMONIZE alipodate na WOLPER, au Diamond kwa WEMA au ZALI
Unaweza kua na mwanamke kimahusiano ili mradi TU lengo lako na wewe UONJE utamu wake.
Hii inawatokea Sana wale wadada maarufu,
Watu wanataka TU kuacha sahii kwamba na Mimi nliwahi kupita pale.
HITIMISHO:
Omba Sana mungu akupe chaguo lako,
Wanaume tuna Siri nyingi Sana vifuani vyetu tunapokuja kuwatongoza.
DahSio Kila mahusiano lazima yahusishe UPENDO ndani yake.
Unaweza kua na mahusiano na mwanamke, ili mradi TU mambo yako kazini yaende sawia( Kama Ni boss).
Unaweza kua na mwanamke kimahusiano, kwa sababu marafiki au Ndugu zako au wazazi wako wanapenda kukuona nae.
Kwaiyo Utakua nae kuwaridhisha watu flan flan.
Unaweza kua na mwanamke kimahusiano, kwasababu TU anajua kukata kiuno kitandani, unafurahia Sana huduma yake kunako 6×6.
Ila hauna Upendo nae kabisa.
Unaweza kua na mwanamke kimahusiano, kwasababu TU unamuonea huruma, anakupenda Sana kias kwamba ukimuacha anaweza kujiua.
Kwaiyo unakua nae TU Kama daktari wa vichaa anavoishi na wagonjw wake.
Unaweza kua na mwanamke ili mradi TU mambo yako flan flan yaende sawa, wanaita "KUTREND" au "KIKI".
Hii inatokea Sana kwa wasanii,
Mimi Ni underground, ila najua nikitoka kimapenzi na WEMA SEPETU ntakua maarufu na mziki wangu Utakua.
Hii imetoke pia hata kwa HARMONIZE alipodate na WOLPER, au Diamond kwa WEMA au ZALI
Unaweza kua na mwanamke kimahusiano ili mradi TU lengo lako na wewe UONJE utamu wake.
Hii inawatokea Sana wale wadada maarufu,
Watu wanataka TU kuacha sahii kwamba na Mimi nliwahi kupita pale.
HITIMISHO:
Omba Sana mungu akupe chaguo lako,
Wanaume tuna Siri nyingi Sana vifuani vyetu tunapokuja kuwatongoza.
hapana kabisa.. hela ni ngumu aisee isihusishwe na mapenzi.Exactly mzushi flani una familia 6. Kuna watu wana wake wanne na kuendelea.So you are on the right truck hudumia familia zako.
Sex/love in exchange for money or gift is prostitution. Mtangaze bei kabisa tujue kuliko kujenga hoja za kujistify ukahaba, haki ya mwanamke kupewa hela na zawadi tu!!!! Mkiambiwa mfue na kupika mnasema ni mambo ya kizamani na utumwa sasa haki sawa, haki sawa iwe ktk hela pia, wanaume tuamke na makahaba wanaojificha ktk kichaka cha mapenzi. Kama kuitwa bahili wacha uitwe usipoteze hela kwa makahaba siku ukifilisika ndiyo utajua hakukuwa na mapenzi utakimbiwa.First of all I'm not a gold digger and never will i be.To make it more clearly I will share my life a little bit. I met my husband when he was broke and we dated for years before he got a job.We were in college plus two years of job searching I was there with him. I stayed with him because I got to understand he is so generous,selfless and caring despite being broke. He tried his best whenever he got some money and thank God I was a little bit comfortable i didn't ask him for a thing.He never told me of his situation either but I knew it my ways. Now that we both earn for a living we still free with each other money.
Before him I was dating a stingy man, through him I was able to know these stingy men behaviour. And I saw a lot of them here very proud with their behaviour.Let me tell you this, women feel safe and comfortable around a caring man.If a man help you in any way you feel loved and appreciated and if he is keeping distance that means he don't value you.
I will use my stingy ex as case study here.He was a doctor and worked in different region from mine.I never received money or gift from him until we broke up.
I learned these few characters of stingy men from him.
* They hate strong communication like talking ,texting he used to text me when horny and talk about sex only. Due to this kind of communication I never get to know him better. It was not possible to share our life like our struggle,achievement as we know through these stories you may find out my spouse need help( not only money it may be a piece of advise).
*They pretend not to be jealousy. They don't seem to be jealousy because they know they provide nothing even if he will see you driving a new car while you are jobless he will only congratulate you without questioning.
*They try to justify their act by saying it's weak for a real man to take care of their girlfriend (They talk this with other people) . Which is not true and most men old enough, like married men knows this and hope they will agree with me here. That's why there are some girls dating old men/married men because men their age don't take responsibility(Although I don't support the habit).
*They don't feel ashamed to split the bill while you two are out. I was so surprised when my ex asked me to add the remaining amount of money for the bill.I did pay the money but I decided to broke up with him.I strongly believe a closed fist is a closed heart.
* They don't share they are hardiship with you even if you ask them, because they want you to do the same.They are not ready to help.
* They don't seem to dominate the relationship.Its true if you have money you become powerful at some ways.This too happen in relationship if you want to own your woman you have to be responsible for her. If you are not responsible you won't feel the ownership.
* They assume you have enough money even if you don't work. I remember this ex texting me every weekend showing me pics of how he is enjoying out on hotels,clubs etc. I was replying kiunyonge
"Hope you are having funny" hapo sina mia nina kakifurush tu cha chuo (university Offer).
He will say " yes it's funny here ..unajua inabid mtu kutoka mara nyingi kupumzisha ubongo"
I be like yeah it's true.
yeye atasema sasa "Why are you staying indoors it's weekend, you should go out "
I will just tell him "i will do next time".There after i will loose my sleep and start to evaluate him like is he okay or what.It is so heartbreaking to be struggling financially while in relationship with a man who is stable.
To shorten the story we broke up later due to his stingy behaviour.Five years later now, he still not married on his late 30.
So guys here don't entertain that habit it real turns off majority of women who are not even after man money.We just need to be pampered like kids by our boyfriend/husband .We like someone who is selfless and caring. Thank you and hope that you people change and start to act as responsible men to your relationship and see how things turn out to be beautiful.
NB: I want to apologize to any grammar , spelling mistakes made here because I'm learning this language..I will gladly receive corrections to those mistakes for my improvement.View attachment 1621489View attachment 1621490
Kwahio wewe mkikutana mnasex na kuhave funny tuu..shida na matatizo yake hayakuhusu. Wewe upo nae kwaajili ya raha tu umemaliza.Sex/love in exchange for money or gift is prostitution. Mtangaze bei kabisa tujue kuliko kujenga hoja za kujistify ukahaba, haki ya mwanamke kupewa hela na zawadi tu!!!! Mkiambiwa mfue na kupika mnasema ni mambo ya kizamani na utumwa sasa haki sawa, haki sawa iwe ktk hela pia, wanaume tuamke na makahaba wanaojificha ktk kichaka cha mapenzi. Kama kuitwa bahili wacha uitwe usipoteze hela kwa makahaba siku ukifilisika ndiyo utajua hakukuwa na mapenzi utakimbiwa.
Ni kweli kabisa ila sema wanaume wengi wameshaamua kutawaliwa na wanawake hivyo hawana misimamo yao wanabaki kuendeshwa na kupelekeshwa na akili za wanawakeSex/love in exchange for money or gift is prostitution. Mtangaze bei kabisa tujue kuliko kujenga hoja za kujistify ukahaba, haki ya mwanamke kupewa hela na zawadi tu!!!! Mkiambiwa mfue na kupika mnasema ni mambo ya kizamani na utumwa sasa haki sawa, haki sawa iwe ktk hela pia, wanaume tuamke na makahaba wanaojificha ktk kichaka cha mapenzi. Kama kuitwa bahili wacha uitwe usipoteze hela kwa makahaba siku ukifilisika ndiyo utajua hakukuwa na mapenzi utakimbiwa.
Kwani nyie huwa hamuoni vitu vizuri huko vya kutuletea....?Kwahio wewe mkikutana mnasex na kuhave funny tuu..shida na matatizo yake hayakuhusu. Wewe upo nae kwaajili ya raha tu umemaliza.
Hata ukiona kiatu kizuri na unajua kitampendeza huwezi mchukulia. Yeye kujiweka vizuri nywele, mavazi akiumwa ni juu yake hayakuhusu. What a selfish man. I feel sory for your girl.
Akili kubwa sana [emoji817][emoji110]Mwanaume timamu kabisa atagharamikia mwanamke kama tu
1.Sio bahili
2.ana malengo nae
3.mwanamke sio Malaya
4 .Hajajileta[emoji23][emoji23]
Kuna wimbi kubwa la wanaume bahili linaloambatana na wanawake malaya.
Sina malengo na wewe why investing?
Case study ni Mimi mwenyewe binafsi katika maisha yangu ya kawaida Mimi sio bahili,hela zangu washikaji wanakula sana tu sasa siwezi kushindwa kumgharamikia mwanamke ninayemlala.Nipo kwenye wanaume ambao sio bahili.
Sasa hata mwanaume bahili anatoa hela kwa mwanamke ambaye Ana malengo nae(anayempenda) japo kwa kusuasua lkn zinatoka.
Sasa mwanamke malaya ambaye ndo siku hizi naona tunashindana siku hizi wanaume na wanawake.Huyo hastahili kula hata sh kumi ya mwanaume timamu unless km kajipanga Barabarani yaani ni official business.
Na huku kutongoza kwenu wanaume!!!!! ni kazi sana kuhudumiwà km unajitongozesha..
Men are investors,we tend to calculate risks b4 decide to invest,Understand this,you understand men.Is it worth spending my money to keep this woman.Will it pay me in future?
All in all, Mwanaume kuhudumia ni nature yetu inakuja tu automatically km huongwi na umejipima unaona unastahili basi haraka sana tena toka nduki sana.Kwenye vipimo vyake wewe huna thamani,okoa mda wako.
Serious relationship Inakuwa na element zipi ...Yan kitu gan kitakuonyesha this is a serious relationship...Hivi girlfriend wako ambae upo nae kwenye serious relationship utasema unamuhonga?
Kigezo kipi kitakuaminisha kuwa ww ni official girlfriend...Mnatumia neno kuhonga ili kuhalalisha kua ni jambo baya. Official girlfriend hahongwi ni kama mke tu huwez sema namuhonga mke wangu.
Msaada kivp wakati raha mnapata wote ..mbona mnai overrate sex kiasi hichoTena kama unafanya mapenzi na mwanamke kwaajili ya kupunguza hamu na humpendi inabidi umlipe kabisa, maana anakufanyia msaada mkubwa.