Can You Marry A Jobless Man?

tracy said:

Thats not bad my dear,but hata kuweza kufanikisha what you are saying it needs being smart kidogo,.you might give him capital but akamisuse..partnership itaexcell pale ambapo you all know what you are doing,mko focused,hata mtu akiteleza you can easily bring him o her back,.

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There are people who are just hard workers..., give them a plan and they will complete it...., Now you can be the creator/imaginative yaani you find all the projects and plan everything... you just tell him what to do and lay down the plans for him...,you dont give him capital but you invest the capital and he just look after the minor details. After all the investments in Tanzania are just routine and you dont need to be a rocket scientist to manage them...., So even a dumb person you can put him under your wing and manage him so long as he does what he is told..

bacha said:

well said LD,
mtoto wa kichaga utamjua tu!

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Haha haha haha habari yake bacha bwana!!
Eti bacha can you marry a jobless woman??

If yes Why?? And if no why too?

Husninyo said:

wewe muoaji ndio uangalie kama ni fair au lah. Inawezekana job sio kigezo kwako. Na wewe ukiwa kama kichwa inabidi uwe umejipanga bwana.
Hata hivyo mwanamke ambaye hana kazi au hajaelimika au amezubaa zubaa tu hata hajishughulishi nae ni mzigo kwakweli.

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hapo umesema ukweli kabisa...kwa hiyo ile status ya baadhi ya wanawake kuitwa...Mama wa nyumbani'' haifai? maana kuna akina mama wao kazi kupika na kuoga na kusubiri mwanaume alete kila kitu mpaka hela ya ped...this is dangerous...

Yes i can but,he should follow my rules.

Mtego wa Noti said:

hapo umesema ukweli kabisa...kwa hiyo ile status ya baadhi ya wanawake kuitwa...Mama wa nyumbani'' haifai? maana kuna akina mama wao kazi kupika na kuoga na kusubiri mwanaume alete kila kitu mpaka hela ya ped...this is dangerous...

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umama wa nyumbani haufai kabisa. Maisha kusaidiana kwa kweli.
Ila na wewe kama mume unaweza kumfungulia hata biashara.
Akikaa kaa tu idle atanenepa hadi kucha.

It depend na mwanamme gani we are talking about..............some of our men are willing to cope but wanakuwa wanaforciwa na wenzao utasikia.......utaishije kwa mwanamke wewe?? utalishwaje na mwanamke??


But for me It doesnt matter whether the guy is employed or not as long as WE LOVE EACH OTHER and there is a source of income at that time..........................I am willing

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