cheaters need love too

acid katoa kauli kwamba hao wanaoitwa "wasaliti"
wanahitaji upendo pia. jambo ambalo nami naliafiki kwani
nao ni binadamu kama wengine.




Kaka Tajiri nakubaliana nawe but swali langu ni kuwa kama ni cheaters it means tayari wana love somewhere but they are not satisified thats why they cheat.........and they say once a cheater is a cheater so no matter how much love you give a cheater s/he will always cheat...........then why bother??
 
Unless we define what love do they need............the one from the cheated one or that from the one s/he cheats with..................
 
It might be true,do they seek that LOVE outside the people they love? To err is human,we do not call that love but LUST,because they have love from the ones they are attached to,what takes them out is called LUST! :ban:
 

Someone can walk into your life and it is not until after they walk out that you realize that they were even there
 
inawezekanaa kabisa huko kunakotegemewa kwamba lipo pendo
hakuna upendo ndio maana wanaishiaa kulitafuta kwengine.
aidha inawezekana pendo alipatalo halimtoshelezi au limemkinai

 

...MwanajamiiOne, the definition 'may fall' into four categories;

a] Security Love - ...Cared and nurtured

b] Friendship Love - ...Open and comfortable

c] Romantic Love - ...Lustful

d] Unconditional Love - ...Sincere love

Acid, ni upendo gani unaoutafuta bro?

Wanaume 'wengi' ni "predators," wana crave romantic love, ...'uchu' ukimshika atafanya kila hila akidhi fantasies zake.
Wanawake 'wengi', ...being "Preys," wana crave security, ndio maana utakuta hata advocates wa "chungu na mafiga matatu" hawaoni tabu kuyajadili haya siku hizi kwenye hizo Kitchen Party zao.

Almuradi kwenye haya maisha ya kisasa kuporomoka kwa maadili kunakochangiwa na ugumu wa maisha, na uchu wa kujirahisishia maisha haraka haraka kunaongeza maradufu infidelities.

Exposures na technolojia pia zimewezesha kwa wenye mioyo myepesi kushawishika ku cheat, hata kwa wale walio katika unhappy relationships, lakini hawataki kuvunja ndoa zao.
Mbaya zaidi, kila anaye cheat ana sababu yake 'ya maana' tu...!

"an optimistic would say a glass is half full, while a pessimist would say it is half empty."
 
acid katoa kauli kwamba hao wanaoitwa "wasaliti"
wanahitaji upendo pia. jambo ambalo nami naliafiki kwani
nao ni binadamu kama wengine.



Thanks mkuu.... Umenielewa vyema. Hapa najaribu kuwakilisha feelings za cheaters, probably i am one of them...
 
Kamanda.... Cheaters need love, whether they get or not its another stuff... Tell me, how do we feel when cheat
 
I agree, people do it not bcoz they r lonely or need to fill a void, they do it bcoz they get a kick out of it, the very fact thts its cheating add to the excitement, the planning and all that

What they need is to put themselves in their partners' perspective, how hurt they will be if they will be on the other side,

So the love they need they can get from their respective others, the only guys that I don't call cheaters are those who do it openly and don't care less for their partner's feelings, these aint cheaters! No sir these are simply animals
 

Does that mean they cheat because they do not receive enough love and attention from their partners?? Kuna watu ni sex maniacs hata umuachie atembee nayo mfukoni bado ata-cheat
 
Does that mean they cheat because they do not receive enough love and attention from their partners?? Kuna watu ni sex maniacs hata umuachie atembee nayo mfukoni bado ata-cheat



Dah, very nice avatar Darlingtone...!
"What the eye does not admire the heart does not desire."
 
all of us need love too, dont matter a cheater or hitter.
you never know alichofanya huenda kimemuuma, na unapomuonyesha au kumpa love unamcomfort.:hug:it show how much u care(even if....)
 
Thanks mkuu.... Umenielewa vyema. Hapa najaribu kuwakilisha feelings za cheaters, probably i am one of them...
Owkey then....Basi tukubaliane kwamba na wao wanahitaji..but they sure don't DESERVE it!Not before they learn to respect their partners feelings!
 
ivi naomba kuuliza naweza pata maana ya neno LOVE maana naona huwa sielewi maana yake huwa linanichanganya
 
sijakuelewa lizzy in maana cheaters hawana feelings au?umeshawahi kujiuliza kwanini wanacheat

Owkey then....Basi tukubaliane kwamba na wao wanahitaji..but they sure don't DESERVE it!Not before they learn to respect their partners feelings!
 
in maana cheaters hawana feelings au?umeshawahi kujiuliza kwanini wanacheat
Tatizo sio kwamba wao hawana tatizo ni hawajali za wengine!Naamini visingizio wanavyotumia hamna hata kimoja kisichozuilika! Wangekua wanajali wenza wao k.m kama kuna kitu hawapati kwenye mahusiano yao wangesema na kujaribu kutatua tatizo!Ikitokea huyo mwenza akashindwa kabisa kuelewa na hicho kitu ni muhimu sana kwake(Cheater) aondoke mazima!Hamna sababu inayompa mtu kibali cha kucheat!
 
It might be true,do they seek that LOVE outside the people they love? To err is human,we do not call that love but LUST,because they have love from the ones they are attached to,what takes them out is called LUST! :ban:
its love and not lust sweetheart.... we visit killers in teh jail cells, we greet fisadis everyday, then we also need to share our passion and love with cheaters too... they are one of us

its just denials that delienate us from cheaters, while we are one and the same thing
 
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