It is not a secret, everyone dreams of being in a relationship in their lives. We want the love, compassion, attention and feelings of being needed or wanted.
There are times when you will "settle" for anyone that comes along, they will promise you that mansion on the hill, bed of roses and a life of never wanting for anything. Do you ever stop to do a little research on this person? Your own private eye investigation?
Falling in love with a stranger seems to be what most people do. You see everything from the outside. The good looks, the body and the material things, you listen to the soft kind words, promises and the feel of their flesh. But do you know this person from the inside? What makes this person tick, how their mind works, what kind of emotional roller coaster have they been on?
Next thing you know you are in a relationship with them, good or bad you feel stuck, afraid to move.
Living in a Bullying relationship takes every ounce of energy you have to continue day to day task.
Your mind is always fearing the fact you may do something wrong to create an outburst of either physical or mental abuse.
You are on demand for their needs
No matter what you try to do it is wrong
You disconnect yourself from society, afraid they may find out how you are treated
You live a life of silence, wanting nothing more than to laugh again
You want to leave but feel you don't have the strength to take care of yourself
You are scared to be alone
It is time to take the step. You are your own person. Being alone does not necessarily mean you will be lonely or that you will never love again.
You have to learn to be by yourself and that is hard for some, understanding you made a mistake and learning from that experience, builds your internal power.
Go out there and build your dream, the whole world is waiting for you!
Source:ereporter
There are times when you will "settle" for anyone that comes along, they will promise you that mansion on the hill, bed of roses and a life of never wanting for anything. Do you ever stop to do a little research on this person? Your own private eye investigation?
Falling in love with a stranger seems to be what most people do. You see everything from the outside. The good looks, the body and the material things, you listen to the soft kind words, promises and the feel of their flesh. But do you know this person from the inside? What makes this person tick, how their mind works, what kind of emotional roller coaster have they been on?
Next thing you know you are in a relationship with them, good or bad you feel stuck, afraid to move.
Living in a Bullying relationship takes every ounce of energy you have to continue day to day task.
Your mind is always fearing the fact you may do something wrong to create an outburst of either physical or mental abuse.
You are on demand for their needs
No matter what you try to do it is wrong
You disconnect yourself from society, afraid they may find out how you are treated
You live a life of silence, wanting nothing more than to laugh again
You want to leave but feel you don't have the strength to take care of yourself
You are scared to be alone
It is time to take the step. You are your own person. Being alone does not necessarily mean you will be lonely or that you will never love again.
You have to learn to be by yourself and that is hard for some, understanding you made a mistake and learning from that experience, builds your internal power.
Go out there and build your dream, the whole world is waiting for you!
Source:ereporter