Forgiveness is a process

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WHY MEN FINDS IT DIFFICULT TO FORGIVE A CHEATING PARTNER:

EMOTIONAL REASONS:_

1. Betrayal of trust: Feeling deceived and lied to.
2. Hurt and pain: Emotional distress and heartache.
3. Sense of rejection: Feeling unwanted or inadequate.
4. Loss of self-esteem: Questioning own worth and value.
5. Anger and resentment: Difficulty managing emotions.

PSYCHOLOGICAL REASONS:_

1. Evolutionary instincts: Protecting territory and mate.
2. Ego and pride: Feeling emasculated or humiliated.
3. Fear of vulnerability: Difficulty opening up again.
4. Lack of control: Feeling powerless and helpless.
5. Memory triggers: Constant reminders of infidelity.

SOCIAL AND CULTURAL REASONS:_

1. Societal expectations: Men expected to be strong and stoic.
2. Masculinity and ego: Difficulty showing vulnerability.
3. Peer pressure: Friends and family influencing opinions.
4. Cultural norms: Infidelity viewed as unacceptable.
5. Media representation: Portrayal of cheating in media.

PERSONAL REASONS:_

1. Past experiences: Previous traumas or betrayals.
2. Attachment issues: Difficulty with intimacy and trust.
3. Low self-esteem: Struggling with self-worth.
4. Fear of abandonment: Fear of partner leaving.
5. Lack of communication: Unaddressed relationship issues.

HEALING AND FORGIVENESS :_

1. Communication and honesty
2. Counseling and therapy
3. Self-reflection and growth
4. Rebuilding trust and intimacy
5. Time and patience

REMEMBER:

1. Forgiveness is a process.
2. Communication is key.
3. Healing takes time.
4. Self-reflection is essential.
5. Rebuilding trust requires effort.

Note: Every individual's experience is unique, and these reasons may vary from person to person.

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tuelekeze ulipoitoa hii mada ili nasisi tukatoe majibu hukohuko kama walivyomjibu kwa kiingereza ili nasi tuyalete hayo majibu hapa ngoma iwe droo!
 
Vingi sana....yaan sana mkuu
Mkuu achilia moyo wakoo mpendwa
Maisha ya sasa sio ya kubeba kitu moyoni

Zaman wazazi walibeba mizigo wakafa na shinikizo la....

Leo tunabeba mambo moyon yanaitwa pressure

Samehee mkuu
 
Mkuu achilia moyo wakoo mpendwa
Maisha ya sasa sio ya kubeba kitu moyoni

Zaman wazazi walibeba mizigo wakafa na shinikizo la....

Leo tunabeba mambo moyon yanaitwa pressure

Samehee mkuu
Hujapitia wewe....but sawa mkuu
 
John 14:1
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me.
 
Matthew 24:42 Niv
“Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come.
 
Most of the time we do not even 'need' to forgive.

Just strive to understand sht and you will needn't forgive nobody in your life.

The problem is, while forgiving require guts, understanding requires a well functioning brain.

Why do you think they said anger resides in the bossoms of fools. These guys find hard to understand, they do not even struggle to. So they either hate or forgive. Understanding people will just understand.
 
Hakuna lolote...kuishi ni kuishi tu.Muda mrefu unataka ugundue nini!?
Dunia ya sasa ni uwanja wa vita.... unafanya makosa kimakusudi kuniumiza afu unasingizia maisha marefu
Mkuu usiposamehe, unaisupport evil circle iendelee kutenda daily ktk maisha yako.

Msamaha unayarahisisha sana maisha na kukuepusha na maumivu yasiyo na ulazima

Mimi ukinizingua sana nakusamehe then nakupuuza, sitaki kubeba makasiriko yasiyoleta tija kwangu zaidi ya maumivu.
 
Mungu anisaidie mkuu, pekeyangu siwezi....Yaan ninapomwona mtu aliyenikosea kwa makusudi moyo unauma inakuwa kanakwamba ndo kanikosea muda huo
 
 
Mungu anisaidie mkuu, pekeyangu siwezi....Yaan ninapomwona mtu aliyenikosea kwa makusudi moyo unauma inakuwa kanakwamba ndo kanikosea muda huo
Pole mkuu, jifunze kusamehe hali hiyo haitakutesa tena. wengi tumepitia ktk hali kama yako bt tulikubali kujifunza kusamehe.

Mkuu maisha yetu ni mafupi na yamejawa changamoto nyingi bt ukitaka kuyaishi kwa wepesi samehe.
 
Mimi ukinizingua sana nakusamehe then nakupuuza, sitaki kubeba makasiriko yasiyoleta tija kwangu zaidi ya maumivu
Hapo sawa,nikikusamehe,sio lazima niendelee kuwa na wewe!
 
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