I thought I am out of place as Tanzanian woman approachng 30yrs leaving alone without even a house girl, family hawanielewi ila coz of their unconditional love they have accepted it kwa shingo upande, sina mpango wa kuzaa kabisa unless Mr right showing up at my doorstep. I am not terrified by age kabisa, I feel so well with my life, I work 10 hrs a day, go to gym n coming home to a glass of wine and 30 munites TV time. Sometimes my swt young ananiambia unaishi maisha ya kitamthilia zaidi kuliko uhalisia as standards nilizoweka for a man hazifikiki! Naamini katika to get on what I want n love as me so if hazitafikiwa well n good will keep leaving as I am. I have many friends whom we hang out weekends n hplidays, I have one special visitor whom we meet once in while for sex that is it. Nikiwaambia watu am about to reach 30 wanakataa kabisa! wengi wanadhani ni wanafunzi wa chuo n gym nalipa subscription ya mwanafunzi coz wamejichanganya. Sikumbuki last time kukasirika n kuna watu wanaiambia hivi kuna siku unachukia M? I just laugh.
It didnt come overnight I had abusive relationship the day I gat guts to walk out I have never had any serious relationship ila I av a single man ambaye tunaelewana kuwa we are for fun n enjoying life once that stops n relationship inaishia hapo, friends wonder why we are nt getting married the answer is simple he is my company n simuoni ni mume to my standards. I have planned my life as myself n I know what I will do till old days though I have nt closed doors for ' a compliment' in my life.