Hivi tunakosa basic decency kabisa jamani?

Mama said:

Hapo ni katika kuendelezea hiyo mienendo ambayo inarekebishwa na kina punch na hayo magazeti ya udaku. Tukiangalia kwa upande wa pili wanaume (most of them) ndio wana mienendo michafu na mibaya sana na wanahitaji huduma ya ziada ya kuwarekebisha iwe punch, magazeti ya udaku au hata kudhalilishwa kama wanavyofanya kuwadhalilisha hao wasichana.

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UFUNUO WA YOHANA said:

Pundit,

Ukosefu wa maadili miongoni mwa jamii yetu unachangiwa sana na uovu huu mbaya unoendelea sasa. Science na teke linalokujia ndiyo ame acceralate uovu huu. Watu wanshindwa kuitumia hii fulsa ya kuwa na Mtandao na kuanza kuitumia kwa nia isiyokusudiwa kabisa. Lakini haya tufanyeje maana mtu huyu anayefanya haya ni jibaba au jimama lizima kabisa na heshima zake nyingi tena linaaminiwa mpaka linafanya kazi nyeti za benki. WanaJF yafaa kujua kuwa Ibilisi anatumia watu bila kujali wadhifa, heshima wala umuhimu wake kwa jamii. Hizi ni kazi za ibilisi kuanzia yule anayekubali kupigwa picha akiwa uchi mpaka kwa yule anayesambaza na kufurahia. Kwani wapo watu wanaofurahia kupigwa picha wakiwa uchi na wakifurahi picha zao kusambazwa ktk mitandao. Lakini pia fulsa hiyo pia imetumika kama kukomoana miongoni mwetu na hizi ni kazi za Ibilisi zote, na hawa watu wanaofanya hivyo ni agent wa ibilisi.

Hii kuikabili ni ngumu kwa hali ya kawaida bali ni kwa wahusika kujithamini wao kuwa wameumbwa kwa mfano wa Mungu hawatakiwi kuuzalilisha uumbaji wa Mungu. Na wale wanaodhalilisha wenzao kwa kusambaza picha hizi wajue wandhalilisha uumbaji wa Mungu. Wanatakiwa wajirudi waombe rehema mbele za Mungu ili awasamehe na kuacha kabisa biashara hiyo.

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Mama said:

sijaelewa unazungumzia kina nani hao wasio na heshima

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Pundit said:

Wikiendi hii nilienda kuwacheki masela, mabaharia na machizi basi hapo ndani ya Upper West Side ya Soweto, six degrees north of nowhere -ruptured from the fabric of spacetime continuum if you get my drift-.Si unajua tena kijua kinatoka watu hawachelewi ma barbq na matoto ya kikunjani kutoka UCT na Wit yameshuka, ilmuradi kuondoa machungu ya boxes and what not.Picha zinapatikana nitumie bank account number yako kwenye PM, lol!

Basi story story na wewe, overregulated watered down beers that taste like orange juice, political and social punditry, whats new in town, watoto wakali wako wapi and all that good stuff.

Mara si playa mmoja akaingia mtandaoni kutuonyesha picha za watoto wazuri za kwenye social networking sites and who is who for some of us hermits with networking challenges.

Basi mara playa akafungua email ikatokea picha kubwa unaambiwa, wenyewe wanaita TIGO aka bumper aka junk in the trunk liko kitandani mdada yuko kwenye kitanda anajivinjari huku akiangalia vituz kwenye laptop.

Basi mimi kwa utashi wa kirijali, almost by reflext action nikamuomba mshashi aniforwardie ile email.

Najuta najuta.Maaana wamempiga picha huyu mdada wakamuuua kisawa sawa.Naona vibaya kwa upande mmoja kuandika hivi kwa sababu inaweza ku fuel interest na akaendelea kuwa exposed, lakini kwa upande mwingine imenigusa nikashindwa kujizuia.Zamani kidogo nilishawahi ku forwardiwa picha nyingine ya jamaa aliyefumaniwa Tabata akakimbizwa barabarani utupu wa mnyama.

Ninachojiuliza ni hivi inakuwaje mpaka mtu ukaamua kumpiga picha binti wa watu, regardless ya yuko loose kiasi gani au mchafu kiasi gani, even if that is the case, how low does a man have to be to be involved in that kind of shyt? Yaani in some aspects hii exposure ni kama rape fulani hivi mbaya sana kwa sababu huyu dada wamemuandika mpaka anapofanya kazi na jina lake na familia yake yote.

I hope this rather emotional and uncharacteristic post of mine will appeal to those amongst us who entertained such barbaric tendencies to adopt a higher standard of morality and denounce all and any such overly chauvinistic, masochist and purely ignorant tactics.Kama unakorofishana na demu unamdrop tu, haina haja ya kumuumbua kama hivi kwenye mitandao, mwishowe unaweza kusikia kiumbe wa watu kajinywea midonge bure aikatishe safari yake hapa duniani.The same applies kama ni mademu mmechukuliana mabwana, inasikitisha sana kuona watu wanafanya entertainment katika uchafu na aibu ya mtu mwingine.

Halafu mpuuzi mwenyewe aliyeandika anafanya kazi benki ya Standard Chartered YA 1 Aldermanbury Square, kwa upuuzi wake jina lake lipo na hata hakuondoa lile li liability disclaimer reeefu.Nina uhakika email policy ya Standard Chartered hairuhusu kutumia baruapepe ya kazini kutuma chains za emails za derogatory obscene photos with malicious intent.Huyu mjinga siyo tu anaweza kufukuzwa kazi, bali pia anaweza kuface charges na hata kuwa involve Standard Chartered katika litigation isiyo na msingi.

Tujue kwamba unapopiga picha uwe na hakika kwamba hutaionea hiyo picha aibu hata kama itawekwa kwenye homepage ya google for all the world to see.

Tujue kwamba huwezi kumuamini mtu kirahisi hata kama ni boyfriend/girfriend, unaweza kuwa nae leo kesho ikawa blackmail na vendetta issue.

It is just not cool to expose people like this, everyone has a vulnerable point, admittedly some are more vulnerable than others but to prey on some chick's gullibility and then promote one's own masochistic or she-male chauvinistic tendencies (and then women say men are the opressing sex...) camouflaged in righteous and judgemental anti-promiscuity tone (whether the promiscuity is real or manufactured in a personal vendetta is not known and immaterial) may be argued to be lower than the alleged promiscuity itself.

I just felt like airing some people out.Now do not ask me for that email, for reasons stated above the distribution of such materials is just beneath me.

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