How to get your husband back is a question you may have started asking yourself as soon as he walked out the door. You may have asked your friends, talked to your family, and even paged through the articles of things like Cosmo looking for direction on what to do. And, now, you've found yourself where everyone who's looking for anything finds themselves – the internet.
While the question of how to get your husband back can't be answered by the World Wide Web – at least not in terms of a black and white answer – it may at least propel you in the right direction. So, if you want to reclaim your marriage, consider following these arrows:
Figuring out why he left: Some relationships end for super obvious reasons, reasons that may as well be neon lights flashing over a closed highway. Other relationships come to a halting end with little to no warning. These ones can leave the person left behind scratching their head, utterly confused as to why things happened the way that they did.
If your husband left for a reason you know, then great (not great that he left, but great that you know why). If your husband left for a reason to which you have no clue, then you must find out why. Before you learn this answer, you can never know how to get your husband back for good. It's important you have a sit down with him, or a call where you come to the table for the specific purpose of LISTENING. He may have withheld this information because he felt like it would cause a massive fight, or he anticipated you getting extremely defensive. Whatever the case, you must make it safe for him to be honest with you.
Fixing what went wrong: After you know why your husband left, you must remedy the situation. Depending on your individual circumstance, this can be incredibly easy or incredibly difficult. If he left because you worked too much or spent too much time going out to the bars, simply changing your behavior might be enough to change your mind. But, if he left because the flame that once lit your marriage was extinguished years ago, you (and him) will likely have your work cut out for you. The relationship didn't end overnight, so rekindling that fire may take persistance and vision on your part.
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