How to love ur husband till death

How to love ur husband till death

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HOW TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND

1. Harden his penis, don't make his life hard

2. Praise him, don't praise other men

3. Cover his shame, don't cover up your mistakes

4. Hide in his arms, don't hide your sweet vagina from him

5.Buy him an expensive cologne, don't buy into the cheap rumors being spread about him

6. Lengthen the size of his penis as you arouse it erect from its relaxed size, don't lengthen his sorrows

7. Strengthen his character, don't strengthen his enemies by attacking him

8. Rub your butt on him, don't rub his failures to his face when he makes a mess

9. Let him marvel at the earings dangling from your pierced ears, don't pierce his heart

10. Shout out his goodness for the world to hear, don't shout at him

11. Push his penis deeper inside you when making love, don't push him away

12. Send him sweet messages, don't send gossip about him to your girlfriends

13. Give birth to his baby, don't order him around like a baby

14. Feed him good food, don't feed him lies

15. Empty his burden, don't empty his wallet

16. Address his fears, don't undress for another man

17. Build him up, don't build a wall between you and him

18. Ask him how his day has been, don't ask for things you know he can't currently give

19. Record his achievements, don't keep a record of his wrongs

20. Set a loving mood at home, don't become draining and moody

21. Be his number one fan, not his harshest critic

22. Challenge him to grow, don't challenge his position as head of the home

©Bpdidy
 
LEARN TO CONQUER YOUR SEXUAL ORGAN

Think about it. A lot of the confusion and pain in the world is brought about by that small part between our legs. Gentleman, lady; learn to control your sexual urges. The sexual organ when not controlled leads to the following...

1. KEEPS PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS THEY SHOULD NOT BE IN
You know the person is not good for you but you stay because the sex is too good

2. BLINDS LEADERS, KILLS VISIONS
Nations and companies fall, the heart of leaders get corrupted; because the leader at the top is at the mercy of the sex from a foreigner

3. WASTES YOUR YOUTH
Instead of the youth spending their energy and time studying, advancing, debating about issues; they search for sex buddies, search for sex online, they follow booty socialites, they spend hours watching twerk videos, they cling to sponsors, the young ladies destroy the marriages of elderly couples, they look for sex in clubs, in getting high and strip clubs

4. LEADS MANY INTO PAINFUL ABORTIONS
Some find it difficult to heal from the guilt of abortion. They don't know why they keep having sex with people who are not serious about a future with them. Lack of self-control has led to irresponsible fathers who impregnate women and run away

5. LEADS MEN TO SEE WOMEN AS SEX OBJECTS
If a man has no control of his sexual organ, his view of women becomes warped. He rapes women, demeans women, stalks women, sexually abuses women, touches women inappropriately; he becomes a pervert

6. LEADS TO LOVE OF MONEY
The media fueled by peer pressure has led many to believe that the more money you have, the more women you get to sleep with. It has led women to cheapen themselves, bought sexually to the highest or any bidder. It has made men desire wealth simply to get women and the highest priced sex

7. DESTROYS CAREERS AND DESTINIES
So many great people or people who have had great potential have been brought down by sex scandals. If not, they spend the rest of their lives rising up from the damage of being caught in improper sexual relations

8. LEADS PEOPLE AWAY FROM GOD
One of the easiest ways to drive yourself away from God is when you engage in sexual activity that you know is wrong. Your conscience convicts you but you deliberately rebel; the greater your rebellion, the further you move from God. So many know that the one thing they need to do in order to be at peace with God is to have self control in matters of sex; but they choose to disobey

9. REDUCES THE MEANING OF GOOD RELATIONSHIPS
A lot of people in young relationships that could have matured into something deep and lasting; feel that their relationship has become empty and motivated only by sex because they engaged in sex too early. Now sex has started and they don't know how to undo it; deep down, each feels if they stop having sex, the other will think they are no longer loved

10. BLINDS US FROM THE MORE IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE
Our society has become over sexualized. So many social issues need our attention, so much to do to take Africa forward, so many visions to accomplish, so many lives crying for help, so many souls hurting; but instead of allocating adequate time to address those meaningful things, we chase after sex. There are few meaningful friendships. Once our hearts become consumed with lust, we become lesser people. We are having so much sex, but very little intimacy and human connections

11. TURNS YOU INTO A SLAVE
Some are getting jobs and promotions by sleeping with people in power. They do this using sex as a short cut. Not knowing that when someone gives you benefits, a job or promotions in exchange for your sexual favours, you become their slave; they have dominated you

12. TRAPS YOU IN ADDICTIONS
With alcohol, easily comes more casual sex; people do sexual things that they end up regretting and blaming it on the bottle. Lack of sexual control has trapped others in pornography; destroying their self esteem and wasting their time and money constantly chasing after a new sexual thrill with images and videos

13. BLINDS JUDGEMENT
The more we lack self-control, the more our judgement becomes impaired. We make decisions thinking with our vagina and penis. We keep wondering why we mess up

14. DESTROYS MARRIAGES AND HOMES
Unfaithfulness is the surest way to destroy your marriage. It cuts deep to know the one you call husband/wife can get naked with another and sex another. Completely forgetting about you and your marriage vows and gets hard and wet for another, and allows another man inside them or enters inside another woman. If that spouse can disrespect you and reject you sexually, their heart is saying you are no good, of no value

If only we learn to control our sexual urges, less people would hurt, marriages would stand, we would think clearly and have more meaningful interactions. Don't let your penis or vagina lead you, lead your penis and vagina. If you have been guilty of being sexually mislead, it's time to take control of your sexuality. You have no right to call yourself a grown adult if you cannot control that small part of your body that is between your legs.

© bpdidy
 
I HATE THAT YOU'RE ALWAYS BUSY

Mom, dad; I love you
But you both have a problem
You two rarely have time for me
I hate that you are always busy

Monday to Friday, sometimes Saturday
I hardly ever connect with you
You leave home in the morning
And come home late, tired and grumpy

On the weekends, you ignore me
You've bought for me lots of things to keep me busy
So that you have more time away from me
That is, if you are ever at home

Any time you are not working
Dad, you're out with your friends
Mom you're out with your girls
Either at the bar, at the chama, or even in church

You give orders to the house help
But did you know the house help knows me more than you do?
I am growing right under your nose
But you are too caught up being "adults" to see it

I need advise. So many things I don't understand
In school I am being bullied
My attention in class has gone down
Some organs of mine are growing, should I have sex?

What is sex? Should I try out the drugs my friends do?
Someone is trying to recruit me into a group
They say it will make me money
The media calls them terrorists? Should I join?

Mom, dad. The world is getting bigger
I am confused
I was hoping you two would be near to guide me
But alas! You are ever busy

You pay my school fees but you don't teach me about life
You buy me rich food but you don't nourish me with truth
You clothe me with fashion but you don't clothe me with wisdom
You drive me in your fancy car but you don't steer me to my future

Dad, mom; where are you?
We live in the same house but we rarely talk
Unless you're shouting at me for my poor grades
Or screaming at me as if you know me

I don't want ATM parents
Absent Through Materialism
I want ADM parents
Attention Driven Mentoring

I want laughter with you two
Your touch, your hug, your devotion
Your eye contact, your encouragement, your advise
Your love, your answers, your steady hand

I know you are busy
All I am asking is a fraction of your time
Am I not your child?
What's the point of working hard to provide for me, if you won't spend time with me?

Look at you now, we are out on a holiday
I thought this would be family time
But instead you are busy on your phones and tablets
You can't even notice my desperate cry for attention

Watch out mom and dad
I am growing very fast
One day it will be time for me to move out as an adult
What a shame if I move out as an adult who had a lonely childhood

© bpdidy
 
mmmmmmmmmmmh kupenda mpaka kifo hakuna darasa la kumfundisha mtu
 
Too good to be true. Yaani akitokea bi-dada ameshika vizuri huo msaafu wako, nadhani ataipa wakati mgumu sana michepuko
 
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