How to respect yourself

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HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF

(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

(2) Stop begging.

(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.

(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.

(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.

(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.

(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.

(12) Respect your time.

(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.

(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.

(15) Be scarce sometimes.

(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.

(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.

(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.

(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.

(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.

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The power of Step by step

Don't focus on going from 0 to 100.
Focus on going from 0 to 10. Then 10 to 20. Then 20 to 40. And so on and so on until you get to 100. Trust the process, enjoy the process. Step by step. You will be there for sure.
 
Do unto people as u would like them do unto you!
 
Good advice. ๐Ÿ‘†
 
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Ngumu kuifuata, ila tukiweza hata 75% yake tume punchy! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ‘
 
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Number 7 (invest in yourself) and 13 (walk away from disrespect) are key.
 
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