The Farmer
JF-Expert Member
- Jan 7, 2009
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Kwani wewe hufahamu kuwa wanawake/wasichana wengi huwa wanafanya maamuzi ya mahusiano kutokana na feelings!!! kwa hiyo demu/wife wako aki-cheat elewa kuwa amekusudia na sio bahati mbaya.
Nooo...just say what's on your mind. It's true though...the male ego is just too big...a man will take it so hard if his woman cheats on him than a woman would if she catches her man two timing on her. For a man, if his woman cheats on him it's like a violation of his manhood. That he wasn't man enough for her until she went and cheated on him with another man. It is so hard for men to forgive their women when it comes to cheating.
Self-Preservation - What you do not know will not hurt you.
Or as some say, ignorance is bliss huh?
Hapa kaka naona kama umepima angle vibaya....kwanza wewe ni me au ke kabla cjaendelea?She was doing the same to you! She was sure you wont find out. So she was ready if you do the same to her!! That's loud and clear man!
Yah it does...kama ungekuwa mwanamke ningesema labda na wewe huwa unafanya hivyo lakini kwa kuwa ni mwanaume inabidi tu nikwambie kuwa wanawake wengi sana wa Bongo wanajua kuwa waume zao wana-cheat na wanaona sawa tu kwa hyo siyo lazima sana kuwa huyo demu wa NN alikuwa anacheat bali inawezekana ni ile hulka tu ya wanawake wa Tz.Mme, does it matter??
An old flame of mine once told me that she didn't care if I cheated on her so long as she doesn't find out about it or I don't do it to her face. I was taken aback by it. I didn't know what to think...but later on came to think about it and realized that she really wasn't into me like that..it's that she had such a low self esteem. She didn't think highly of herself no matter what. She was beautiful and all but she thought she had so many imperfections. What do you all think her problem was? Do you think she loved me so much that she wasn't ready to leave me no matter what I did to her?