Is It Possible For a man & woman To be just Friends and Not Lovers for Appr. 5 years?

mkuu its possible but depends with circumstances and why the broke up in the first place, if the break up was mutual they can be friends although if one of them still have some feelings it might end up in complications..,

People in relationship share much more than bed time, therefore if the bed time issue is gone you can still have some friendship and seek each others help, kama mliishi vizuri before it will be madness for one of you to let the sexual urges destroy your friendship.

I know a girl I used to date, now she is married but whenever she has problems I will be the first one to help and we will never even think about cheating (our friendship is much more valuable than that) which is based in kuheshimiana.

It's not complicated it's very possible depending on circumstances surrounding the whole issue. Me personally I have women friends ambao we respect each other to the fullest, and we do a lot of business together.

It all depends on the mind set and so many things altogether.

FirstLady1 said:

Kama wote mmeamua inawezekana

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FirstLady1, kuelewana ktk context ipi?

saragossa said:

It's not complicated it's very possible depending on circumstances surrounding the whole issue. Me personally I have women friends ambao we respect each other to the fullest, and we do a lot of business together.

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You say it's not complicated....

It all depends on the mind set and so many things altogether.

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But here you say it all depends on the mindset and "so many things altogether"......

yah inawezekana kama kuna mipango thabiti na heshima ila kiuswahili haiwezekani, mie kuna mdada mwanzo nilikua nampenda nikataka kumtokea wakati tulikua na wiki tu chuoni ya kujuana , baadae nikagundua ni mke wa mtu, afta kunionesha picha ya mwanawe ambae ni wa miaka mi2 , na signs nyengine, but now nimeamua kuwa rafiki nae tuu na sasa tuna miaka miwili, nae nashea nae kila darsani na twasaidiana sana tuu, naenda kwake akiniita, ila mumewe hayupo yuko masomoni abroad , nampenda ila kwa sasa tumeamua kuwa kaka na dada wa hiari.
Its from Pemba Island

Nyani Ngabu said:

You say it's not complicated....



But here you say it all depends on the mindset and "so many things altogether"......

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Mkuu it depends on the context of the word COMPLICATED in this thread....... Otherwise no big deal....

Msinidanganye, mkishazaa mnakuwa kama makande hata kama mmeachana.

Mnakulana siku mkikumbukana hata kama baada ya miaka 60.

Mzazi mwenzangu, nimbanie ya nini, haiachi hata alama na wala haisaidii hata kuosha vyombo lol

For sure this issue is complictated.
Ili huo uhusiano uwepo inabidi ujengwe/ujengeke katita hali tofauti tofauti ikiwemo nidhamu ya "woga", pia kunaweza kuwa na sababu nyingine kama mtu kuwa occupied na couple nyingine na mambo mengine mengi tu ila kwa watu walio single inakuwa more complicated.

ingekua bf and gf walioachana then ghafla wakawa just friends, ningekupinga, lazima wangekumbushiana. lakini waliowahi kua mke na mume wakaachana then wabakie kua friends, its very possible. nina experience juu ya hilo siongei kwa kudhani.

Ikumbukwe kuwa hawa watalaka wana watoto takribani watatu ktk ndoa yao kabla Things Fall apart.

Hiyo inawezekana, lakini iwe tu kama rafiki yako wa kike hakuvutii kimapenzi.

Iselamagazi said:

Hi! wana JF!

Hivi kuna uwezekano wa mwanaume na mwanamke kuwa ktk uhusiano wa kawaida kabisa kama marafiki tu bila kuwa wapenzi?
Kuna mkasa mmoja ambao naufahamu wa mwanaume na mwanamke ambao waliishi ktk ndoa kama mume na mke kwa takribani miaka 12 na baadae kulitokea kutoelewana kwa wana ndoa hawa na kupelekea kutalikiana kwa miaka mitano (5) sasa!

Wawili hawa nafanya nao kazi ktk ofisi mmoja. Kitu cha ajabu ni kuwa wana ushirikiano mzuri sana ktk masuala ya kazi na huwezi kujua kama kuna tofauti za kuachana kama tulivyo zoea ktk jamii zetu kuwa bibi na bwana wakishatengana ni nadra sana kukuta jambo kama hili. Si ofisini tu, ushikiano wao upo hata katika masuala ya kijamii mathalani, utawakuta wakiwa pamoja ktk misiba, harusi n.k.

Kurizuka rumours pale kibaruani kwetu kuwa hawa wawili wana kula mshedede kwa siri sana! Jamaa mmoja pale kibaruani alishawahi kumtania yule bwana mtalaka kuwa bado wanaendeleza kale kamchezo; yule bwana mtalaka alikataa kata kata kwamba yeye na mtalaka wake wamebaki kuwa marafiki tu wa kawaida na kwenye masuala ya kale kamchezo kila mtu kivyake na kwamba kama ana wasiwasi afanye uchunguzi anaojua yeye. Ilikuja thibitika baadaye kuwa ni kweli wawili hawa wamebaki kuwa marafiki tu.

Is it entirely possible for a man and woman to be friends and not be romantically interested for some reason?

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Haya mambo ni magumu sn,otherwise neema ya mungu inahitajika zaidi kusaidia kukotroo mioyo na miili pia!

........inawezekana sana tu, without a doubt. Kuna swali wengi wetu hatusemi ukwli idadi ya ex- es wetu, Jiulize, miongoni mwao(kwa idadi yoyote ulonayo)....je, waweza fanya nae/nao hako kamchezo tena? Hawa walioishi miaka 12 kisha wakaachana hawana exceptions.

Sioni ugumu wowote. . . labda kama wewe ni penda penda.

Yes, I do believe it's possible for men & women to have Platonic relationship; however... It takes maturity on both parties, and therein lies the problem. I also think that it's just plain NATURAL to want to pursue a romantic relationship once with your friends with the opposite sex.

Inawezekana sana tu ingawa wanaume wengi hii inawashinda.

Of course it is. It is a natural human desire to produce and thus, sex often enters the equation when thinking about relationships. This doesn't rule out the possibility though.
It is possible and in fact for a man/woman combo who are of conflicting sexualities to be just friends.

Inawezekana Mkuu kabisa Mimi nina rafiki yangu Anaitwa Anna tulianza urafiki mda tu 2002 2po form1 hadi leo tukamaliza chuo pamoja ni marafiki tu na tupo kitaa sahizi tunafait maajira ila marafiki hadi hakuna!