Is this happening in our daily life?

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This topic needs honest comments from you guys.

Men can live/survive with his girlfriend/wife for a long time if she lost her job before she get another or even she doesn’t have a job at all, men still will keep on taking care of her.
But this is quite different to a lady, she can’t survive it or if she can, just only for a year otherwise she will walk way period!

Guys, what is your honest opinion about this
 

Its because hehind any succesfull man there is a woman, but behind any succesful woman there is no man!...lol!
 
PakaJimmy said:
Its because hehind any succesfull man there is a woman, but behind any succesful woman there is no man!...lol!
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How true!
Its a common phenomenon to see men supporting their not-so-successful women iwe ni mke au girlfriend.Wanakuwa comfortable na mwanamke ambaye yuko chini au katikati kimapato au kicheo.Hawapendi wenye extreme successes au wasiokuwa na kitu kabisa.
Sijui inakuwaje.
I guess its natural for men to feel insecure kuona mke anajimudu.Na hapo ndipo msemo wako unaingia squarely.There is no man behind any successful woman.
 
Man kama mume au Man kama mwanamume mwingine tu! maana mbona kuna successifull woman wengi tu wamehongwa sana ndo wakawa successifull?
 
Niseme kiukweli, mi nilifulia miaka miwili sina kazi. Then nikaamua kupiga shule kwa miaka mitatu, halafu nikakaa miezi sita baada ya hapo lakini my darling wife hakunitosa. Hapa labda tuwe wazi kuwa si wanawake wote wenye tabia hii. Na ukweli inategemea mwanamke wako alikupendea nini. Kama ni fedha itakula kwako, lakini kama ni malavidavi, kama ilivyokuwa kwangu, aaaaaaah, asepe aende wapi bana wakati mjengo unaomfikisha ninao mimi?
 
Chrispin said:
Niseme kiukweli, mi nilifulia miaka miwili sina kazi. Then nikaamua kupiga shule kwa miaka mitatu, halafu nikakaa miezi sita baada ya hapo lakini my darling wife hakunitosa.
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Mkuu

mtoa mada amesema:

...she can’t survive it or if she can, just only for a year (It can not be forever)otherwise she will walk way period!
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Wewe ulikaa bila mawasiliano mazuri na Benki MIAKA mitano na miezi sita ... na isitoshe matumaini yalikuwa makubwa maana ulikuwa unapiga shule which means hata baada ya 4 years ungenza kuwa na maudhurio mazuri kwenye ATM!

Mwanamke (Wife, Concubine, GirlFriend (not sure what that mean)) hawezi kuishi na Mwanamume kama yuko vibaya ki-fedha kwa muda mrefu!

Amen Iwe nawe
 

There is no man behind any successful woman? for real? any? thats a pretty strong word, not even the father?

On a slightly different aspect of the same issue.Kwa nini wanawake wengi hawataki mwanamme mfupi zaidi yao? Wanawake karibu wote wanataka mwanamme aliye mrefu zaidi yao, at the very least same height.

Wanawake wana insecurity kuhusu kuwa leaders/ ahead/ taller?
 

I guess some say if a man is shorter than them then the man will be insecure. Some say a taller man is more attractive. Bottomline is they want a taller man for purely vanity reasons for insecurity has no boundaries.
 

Aaamennnni,iwe nawe pia.

Ni ukweli usio pingika wanawake walio wengi hawawezi kuvumilia pale inapotokea umefutwa kazi na yeye bado yuko kwa kazi.Hivyo utaona kuna vijivisa visa vya hapa na pale kuwa anakereka kwanini wewe hupati kazi/ATM haicheki.Na kama atakuvumilia basi mwaka mwingi.kinyume na hapo utakuta mabadiliko meeengi na mambo yote yatakuwa mwemwele mwemweleee!!!
 
Julius said:
I guess some say if a man is shorter than them then the man will be insecure. Some say a taller man is more attractive. Bottomline is they want a taller man for purely vanity reasons for insecurity has no boundaries.
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Thanks for this!
I guess thats how it has been.
 

Mkuu,
Strong as it may be... huo ndio ukweli in general terms katika mahusiano - ukiachilia mbali father/brother figure.
Mama/dada hawawezi kukutosa unapofulia, watakusaidia - again this is the general rule - exceptions hazikosekani.
La wanawake kupenda wanaume warefu nadhani Julius kalisemea vizuri sana.Kuna wanaume wafupi wengi tu wana wake/gfs warefu tena warembo sana.Ni mapenzi ya mtu kufuatana anachokipata kwa mhusika.
 
Sio wanawake wote wanatosa wanaume kama hawana pesa, hii inategemea. Kama upendo ulikuwa wa pesa hapo kweli unaweza kumtosa, ila mkiwa na pendo la dhati hamuwezi kuachana hata mpite katika milima na mabonde.
 

J, What about Hillary Clinton or our own successful woman Asha Migiro!?
 
PakaJimmy said:
Its because hehind any succesfull man there is a woman, but behind any succesful woman there is no man!...lol!
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du heee hii ya kwako naifikiria ninaweza kusema kuna ukweli na pia ninaweza sema inawezekana pia kwa mwanamke kumlinda na kumvumilia mwenzie kwa hali na mali mpaka pale atakaporudi barabarani tena ,,Muhimu pale ni mapenzi na maelewano yenu
Ila kwa sisi wanawake wengi sijajua ni kwa nini tunashindwa kumtunza au kumuhudumia mwenza katika kipindi kigumu anachopitia
sijajua kwa nini tunakata tamaa mapema ,au ndio hiyo toka katika biblia asili yetu tumetoka katika ubavu wenu na asili yetu sisi ni tegemezi

lakini nadhani tunahitaji sana kubadilika hasa pale tunapodai haki sawa ...
Nini maana ya haki sawa???
 
Kwa cc tuliokwisha zisoma alama za nyakati hivi viumbe havitusumbui,we cant call em bitches,but they are unstable creatures,tunajaribu kuwahandle kadri ya uwezo wetu,na time ikifika ya kufulia we just let em go,as there is a good number of em and they are nearly the same,they are vulnerables needs our good care!!
 
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