Je ingekuaje kama watu wangekuwa wanaonyesha CV zako kabla ya kuoana?

Hakuna anayependa kuwa na CV mbaya hata siku moja ni situation mbali mbali zinazopelekea kuchafua CV hizo,
Yaliyopita hayanihusu,Naanzia nilipopakuta,
Sitaki kuidhulumu nafsi yangu kwa hukumu ya mambo yaliyopita nikiwa sipo,
Hata yesu enzi zake aliwaambia anayejijua hana dhambi na ni msafi na awe wa kwanza kumpiga na mawe yule mama mzinzi,wote waliinamisha vichwa vyao na kuondoka zao.
So binafsi sion umuhimu wa kujua CV ya mtu,cha msingi yuko single,tumependana,tunaenda kupima,analipa mahari,tunasheki well bifoo uzi then ndoa na burudani zinaendelea..

The Finest said:

It really shouldn't matter, the past is the past. You can't change it

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Hata wale kina cameroon?? Kuna utata kidogo, bora hata wakike wanaweza kubadilishwa!

sijui nini said:

sasa utajuaje kama ameshabadilika...!? si mpaka umkubali awe mpenzi wako sasa!?

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kwanini nimchukue mwenye tabia mbovu! Kwani wazuri wameisha?

The Finest said:

It really shouldn't matter, the past is the past. You can't change it

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ina matter sana kwangu. Hivi wale wanaotafuta wake wa kuoa na tabia njema kuwa kigezo cha kwanza huwa wanaangalia tabia ipi kama sio past?

nyumba kubwa said:

. Hata waajiri watakubali, waweza kuta mtu ana CV ya nguvu lakini unampa kazi perfomance zeroooo.
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kwahiyo kama una cv za watu 5 utachagua cv mbaya kwa kuhofia mwenye cv nzuri atakuwa hajui kazi?

Husninyo said:

ina matter sana kwangu. Hivi wale wanaotafuta wake wa kuoa na tabia njema kuwa kigezo cha kwanza huwa wanaangalia tabia ipi kama sio past?

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Nope...I dont think so kama wote huwa wanaangalia past za watu vinginevyo tungekuwa na ndoa chache sana

Halafu hiyo past unayoangalia kwa mwenzako ni ipi??

Husninyo said:

kwahiyo kama una cv za watu 5 utachagua cv mbaya kwa kuhofia mwenye cv nzuri atakuwa hajui kazi?

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And how would you know huyu mtu CV yake ni nzuri?

The Finest said:

Hivi unapochunguza CV ya mwenzako what about yours is it clean???

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inawezekana ya kwako pia isiwe clean lakini mabadiliko yanaanza na wewe mwenyewe. Inawezekana ulikuwa mchafu na umeamua kubadilika bila shinikizo la mtu. Ni ngumu kumbadilisha mtu hasa anapokuwa hana utayari wa kubadilika.

Husninyo said:

inawezekana ya kwako pia isiwe clean lakini mabadiliko yanaanza na wewe mwenyewe. Inawezekana ulikuwa mchafu na umeamua kubadilika bila shinikizo la mtu. Ni ngumu kumbadilisha mtu hasa anapokuwa hana utayari wa kubadilika.

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I know that I would think it unfair if anybody judged me about my past.

miye cv yangu chafu,ya demu wangu chafu....hila tunapendana balaa

The Finest said:

And how would you know huyu mtu CV yake ni nzuri?

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kwa kusoma contents za cv na kuiapreciate.

The Finest said:

Nope...I dont think so kama wote huwa wanaangalia past za watu vinginevyo tungekuwa na ndoa chache sana

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na wote wangekuwa hawaangalii past makahaba na micharuko yote ya mjini ingekuwa ishaolewa.

Hivi kuna duka la kununua mke ambako unapewa katalogi kuangalia ubora???
Naongelea present nikijua watu ambao wako serious hawawezi kukutana na mtu ndani ya miezi sita wakatangaza ndoa, huo ni uzembe!

Nikisema present namaana ya experience yako kwake kwa maana mmepima wote mko powa mna date kwa muda wa kutosha ndani ya dating ndo unajua kama huyu ni husb au wife material na wala si past yake ukiona analeta gozi gozi piga chini. Sasa ukutane na mtu ndani ya three months unaingia kweny commitment za ndoa kisa ana CV nzuri; mbona utajuuuta.

Nna ndugu yangu aliolewa na mseminary, well mume katulia lakini ana ndoa ambayo si happy, they are different in all aspects; yeye alizuzuka na utulivu wa kijana na elimu kuuubwa.
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Husninyo said:

ina matter sana kwangu. Hivi wale wanaotafuta wake wa kuoa na tabia njema kuwa kigezo cha kwanza huwa wanaangalia tabia ipi kama sio past?

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wale hawaolewi si sababu ya past; ni sababu hata present zao ni mule mule.
si waaminifu; nani atawaoa?

Husninyo said:

na wote wangekuwa hawaangalii past makahaba na micharuko yote ya mjini ingekuwa ishaolewa.

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Husninyo said:

na wote wangekuwa hawaangalii past makahaba na micharuko yote ya mjini ingekuwa ishaolewa.

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Kuondoa makahaba ambao tunajua fika biashara yao hao micharuko unaowasema wewe mimi nawajua zaidi ya kumi na wameolewa wote na watu wakabaki kushangaa pamoja na kuwa past zao watu walizizungumzia sana

Mie ningeonyesha tu, maana kama kuna kitu nimefeli, ni kubadilika.......... i am still the same dude!!
still loving life, still loving sex, still outgoing, still explorative, still crazy

Kwangu past inamata as wel coz it helps in getting a strong or weak foundations in love relation......in a way yaweza kukueleza why the present is in the state it is hata ku predict the future but the most important ni kwamba huoi au kuolewa na CV but the owner........

Beauty of the wrapper does not necessarily reflects the value of the gift in it..........

Byeeeee

CV zingekuwa zinasema kila kitu basi employers wasingeweka probation na freshers wasingepata kazi. :A S-coffee:

Kuna watu wanaamini kwamba mtu akikubali kuolewa/kuoa mbasi ndo mwisho wa kila kitu. Watu wa aina hiyo wanathubutu kufanya lolote ikiwemo kuazima magari, nguo, hata uhusika tofauti kabisa katika mwanzo wa mapenzi. Baada ya ndoa ndo wanavaa uhalisia wao ambao huwa ni surprises kwa wapendwa wao na matokeo yake ndoa zenye migogoro hadi kuvunjika. kwa hiyo swala la kufoji lipo sana kwenye mapenzi na matokeo yake ni ndo zenye migogoro. Jiweke wewe kama wewe ili unayetaka kuishi naye akujue na kukuzoea.