Gwamahala
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- Jul 29, 2009
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The first time I saw her,something TOLD me that she is the one.I felt a very different FEELING which was very extreme. The third day I went to meet her and told her that am INTERESTED in her and that eventually my interest would develop LOVE! She told me that she just came to TZ to visit her uncle and in three days time she will be departing back home...I said to her its OK! I asked her to give me her postal address and she responded...the same night when I got home I wrote to her a ten-page letter to the address she gave me,aiming the letter to reach her when she arrives to her country!By then TZ hatuna cellulars wala internet (emails).
She was 19yrs and I was 25yrs.Both of us are first born(s) to our families. When I got employed,my first annual leave I went visiting her but we did not officialize it to her parents. I just booked a hotel and everyday before she went home from college she would pass there and spent with me some hours.After 10 solid years of distant friendship (country to country),my INTEREST resulted into love and we got married.You write a letter and you wait for a month or so get a reply.You see each other after a year or two. We did not commit sex until the day of our honeymoon.(Ila mimi huku nilikuwa nachapa kama kawaida kwa wengine-But now I regret it sana).
I thank God coz am one of the FEW people who are enjoying NDOA! We are blessed with three kids...Darlene (2000),Junior (2003) and Warren (2006). It is difficult but I encourage you folks out there if possible maintaine your emotions mpaka muoane,kuna raha yake! Na ukiona kijana anataka ngono kabla ya ndoa ujue kabisa HAKUPENDI coz kama kweli ana nia ya kukuoa, haraka ya nini??! Si asubiri mpaka ndoa...STUKA!!! Wanasema akikupenda atakulinda!
Mungu Ibariki Tanzania,
Mungu wabariki vijana wa Tanzania,
Mungu walaani mafisadi na JK wao!
She was 19yrs and I was 25yrs.Both of us are first born(s) to our families. When I got employed,my first annual leave I went visiting her but we did not officialize it to her parents. I just booked a hotel and everyday before she went home from college she would pass there and spent with me some hours.After 10 solid years of distant friendship (country to country),my INTEREST resulted into love and we got married.You write a letter and you wait for a month or so get a reply.You see each other after a year or two. We did not commit sex until the day of our honeymoon.(Ila mimi huku nilikuwa nachapa kama kawaida kwa wengine-But now I regret it sana).
I thank God coz am one of the FEW people who are enjoying NDOA! We are blessed with three kids...Darlene (2000),Junior (2003) and Warren (2006). It is difficult but I encourage you folks out there if possible maintaine your emotions mpaka muoane,kuna raha yake! Na ukiona kijana anataka ngono kabla ya ndoa ujue kabisa HAKUPENDI coz kama kweli ana nia ya kukuoa, haraka ya nini??! Si asubiri mpaka ndoa...STUKA!!! Wanasema akikupenda atakulinda!
Mungu Ibariki Tanzania,
Mungu wabariki vijana wa Tanzania,
Mungu walaani mafisadi na JK wao!