Sorry wapendwa kwa kumjibia Michelle!!! Mi nimemwelewa hivi, sio tusiwasikilize wala wasiwe na malengo ya mbele hapana!! Ila tuwe waangalifu/makini..... Ni kweli kabisa kuna wanaume wanajua kabisa msichana huyu nikimuingia kwa gia ya kutaka tunda, kustarehe nk nk tu basi hatakubali, anakuja na gia ya kutaka kuoa, anaongelea ndoa, anakujengea picha ya maisha yenu, anakuteka in way kwamba akili yako inaona mnaishi kwenye ndoa kabisa....atakuita mke wangu, mama watoto wangu...ataanza kukuambia mtoto wetu ataitwa Paka Mweusi, yani basi tu ilimradi amefanikiwa kuiteka nafsi yako na akili yako. Mwisho wa yote anakuvuta anakufanyia alichokuwa anakitaka/kilenga anakubwaga hapo. Ule ushetani wake unaanza kuuona sasa hadi utajuta kupenda...wakati huo maisha yako yote umeyafungia kwake.....kwa hiyo hao watu wapo na wapo sana tuuuuuu!!!
Pamoja na makorobwezo na mavipodozi yote hayo, anasisitiza mjuane vizuri maana wapo wanaoweza wakatumia same style lakin hawana nia ya kwli
Nafikiri umechagua kutokunielewa....sijasema wanaume wasitoe ahadi...kila kitu kina nafasi yake na muda wake....na sijasema kila nilichosema kina apply kwa kila mwanaume na mwanamke....waweza kuwa exception.....maana yangu ni kuwa wapo wanaume wanaokuja na ahadi za uongo.....ili mradi tu apate anachokitaka aondoke.....nimetaja sifa za naadhi yao hapo..... na kushauri tuchukue muda kuwafahamu wanaume na ahadi zao na si ukishaahidiwa ndoa wewe ushapanua miguu yako......hakuna niliposema wasitambulishe,ila its insanity kumuamini mtu uliyekutana nae juzi akienda kukutambulisha kwa rafiki na ndugu zake while hata unachofanya hakijui.....ni mtazamo,tuliokutanan nayo tunaelewa.
Kweli Boss sometimes it happenshalafu msisahau love comes when u are not looking for it.....
ha ha ha ha ha......kweli?can i really stop looking for something i do not have and which i need.....??
Nimecheka kweli hapoha ha ha ha ha......kweli?can i really stop looking for something i do not have and which i need.....??
Aisee mimi nimecheka kweli haya mambo banaa hayana formula unaweza kusubiri weee mpaka ukachina kama samaki l.o.l, by the way i am done with that issue all went wellmi nahisi huwa tunapumzika au kujipa muda but sidhani kuwa tunaacha kutafuta love....ok,let me stop looking for it maybe atakuja....l.o.l:hand:
waulize wenzio.
wengi hupata love wakiwa wamesha give up kabisa...
Aisee mimi nimecheka kweli haya mambo banaa hayana formula unaweza kusubiri weee mpaka ukachina kama samaki l.o.l, by the way i am done with that issue all went well
kuna tofauti ya ku-give up na ku stop looking for love? giving up means you have lost hope but you will appreciate if it happens you get what you were looking for......not looking means you are not at all interested in love....
exactly ..
walipata love walipokuwa hawana interest kabisa....very true and possible...
Leo niko hovyo dearest...ngoja nifikirie!asante dearest.....u wapi leo? tusaidie type nyingine ya wanaume basi tuwajue....ha aha haaaaaa....l.o.l
mke wangu kamPM invisibo jamani . . .
Michelle katika hii mada wanaume unawahukumu bure tukinamama mnachotakiwa mkifahamu na ikibidi mkikubali ni kwamba at that particular moment mwanamme anapokuwa anatoa ahadi za ndoa/kuzaa/likizo kila mwaka/kujenga nyumba etc huwa mara nyingi anamaanisha hivyo kweli.Sincerely speaking mara nyingi at that time anapokutamkia anataka kukuoa kweli huwa anataka kukuoa(at that particular time). Tatizo ni kwamba katika maisha ya mwanadamu huwa hakuna condition ambayo ni constant na ndo maana hisia ya mapenzi unayoweza kuwa nayo leo wewe kwangu kesho inaweza kubadilika (emotions are fluidy). My point is wanaume (walio wengi) huwa hawatoi ahadi wakijua purposely kuwa ni ya uongo ili wapewe uroda, la hasha, on the contrary conditions ndo huwa zina change na kusababisha uone 'ala kumbe alikuwa ananilaghai'. Yanayoweza kusababisha baadhi ya mabadiliko haya wanaume tunayajua wenyewe!