"learn to love" hivi hii kitu inawezekana?

Tasia I · Apr 8, 2011

hawayuu JF!
jamani naomben tushee experience kidogo. hivi kile kinachoitwa learn to love (kujifunza kupenda) kama nimepatia kiinglish, ni kitu ambacho kinawezekana kweli??
me nimepata hii doubt baada ya kujikuta nimedevelop friendship nawadada tofauti ambao wanasifa za kua wake wazuritu ila hua sikufall kwa hata mmoja.

hata hivyo nimekua na shaka ya kumweka yeyote kati ya hao katikamahusiano rasmi kwa kua bado sijazihakiki feelings zangu kwake.
hapa ndipo kiini cha swali langu kua inawezekana nikawa na mtu just kwasabab anasifa chanya na nikajifunza kumpenda kadri tutakavyo kua pamoja??

Rose1980 · Apr 8, 2011

mchukue mmoja mweke ndani
akishaanza kula vyako na wewe kula vyake ndo itakuwa ground nzur ya kuanza kupenda /kupendana na km ikiwa anafanya vle we wapenda na wala hakuboi utampenda tu

nawasilisha

Dr Justice · Apr 8, 2011

kwa mwanaume nadhani ni ngumu kujifunza lkn kwa mwanamke inawezekana though not sure,,,,,,

Tasia I · Apr 8, 2011

Rose1980 said:
mchukue mmoja mweke ndani
akishaanza kula vyako na wewe kula vyake ndo itakuwa ground nzur ya kuanza kupenda /kupendana na km ikiwa anafanya vle we wapenda na wala hakuboi utampenda tu

nawasilisha

dah! rose swali linakuaja kua "Je kama hutompenda"?? kumbuka ushamweka ndani.
ushamwahidi mengi, mmefuata formalities zote, mbaya zaidi labda yeye anakupenda truly!!
Naogopa mno kumuumiza mtu kimapenzi.

Mtende · Apr 8, 2011

i just give u my experience,i had a boy alikua ananipenda sana na alikua ananipa kila ninachotaka pia naweza kusema ana sifa ya kupandwa na mwanamke yeyote kuanzia tabia,mpaka vingine,he knows how to care,how to love,he was so commited lakini nlilikuwa simpendi,nikajipa moyo kuwa ntajifunza kumpenda two years in relationship na most of times tulikua pamoja lakini nlilijikuta inakuwa ngumu sana kumpenda,kilia nilipojaribu kujifunza kumpenda i aproved failure then i become to realize kwamba you can not learn to love someone coz love is naturaly and automaticaly,na lama ukiulazimisha moyo you will suffer for the rest of your life,kilichotokea nilimwacha yule kaka nilimwambia ukweli kwamba nimeshindwa kujifunza kumpenda,nilimwonea huruma coz nilimpotezea muda mwingi na aliweka malengo na matumaini yake yote kwangu,i just warn you,pls dont try to play with peoples feelings,if u don love them find the one u love

Rose1980 · Apr 8, 2011

Tasia I said:
dah! rose swali linakuaja kua "Je kama hutompenda"?? kumbuka ushamweka ndani.
ushamwahidi mengi, mmefuata formalities zote, mbaya zaidi labda yeye anakupenda truly!!
Naogopa mno kumuumiza mtu kimapenzi.

ndo ivo ukikaaa nae ndan utampenda km ukitaka kumpenda

Rose1980 · Apr 8, 2011

Wit said:
kwa mwanaume nadhani ni ngumu kujifunza lkn kwa mwanamke inawezekana though not sure,,,,,,

ni kwel kdg...asi unajua enz zile bnt unapelekwa tu kwa mzee abdala anakuwa mmeo bt afta mda unampenda tu namambo yanasimama tu

Mtende · Apr 8, 2011

Rose1980 said:
ndo ivo ukikaaa nae ndan utampenda km ukitaka kumpenda

rose inategemea its hard to learn love,u know love is naturaly its something which u can not force dia

FirstLady1 · Apr 8, 2011

Haiwezekani kujifunza kumpenda mtu mkiwa ndani ya nyumba ..haya ni maneno tu

Kbd · Apr 8, 2011

honestly, i dont believe that. its either you are in or out.

Tasia I · Apr 8, 2011

Mtende said:
i just give u my experience,i had a boy alikua ananipenda sana na alikua ananipa kila ninachotaka pia naweza kusema ana sifa ya kupandwa na mwanamke yeyote kuanzia tabia,mpaka vingine,he knows how to care,how to love,he was so commited lakini nlilikuwa simpendi,nikajipa moyo kuwa ntajifunza kumpenda two years in relationship na most of times tulikua pamoja lakini nlilijikuta inakuwa ngumu sana kumpenda,kilia nilipojaribu kujifunza kumpenda i aproved failure then i become to realize kwamba you can not learn to love someone coz love is naturaly and automaticaly,na lama ukiulazimisha moyo you will suffer for the rest of your life,kilichotokea nilimwacha yule kaka nilimwambia ukweli kwamba nimeshindwa kujifunza kumpenda,nilimwonea huruma coz nilimpotezea muda mwingi na aliweka malengo na matumaini yake yote kwangu,i just warn you,pls dont try to play with peoples feelings,if u don love them find the one u love

Mtende
me nakubaliana na wewe, mpaka nafikia kuweka hi thread hapa ni akua nimejitahidikumpenda mtu lakini nimeshindwa kabisa.lakini hua nasikia kuhusu kijifunza kupenda, so nikawa najiuliza kwa nini haikufunction kwangu??

I hate hurting others romantically.kamwe sitarudia kosa ili as nimemuumiza sana mhusika kwani nilipojiachia kujairib kumpenda yeye ndo ailiweka tiki kua amenipata.things ziliposhindikana kabisa imekua merse kwake.

Mtende · Apr 8, 2011

Tasia I said:
Mtende
me nakubaliana na wewe, mpaka nafikia kuweka hi thread hapa ni akua nimejitahidikumpenda mtu lakini nimeshindwa kabisa.lakini hua nasikia kuhusu kijifunza kupenda, so nikawa najiuliza kwa nini haikufunction kwangu??

I hate hurting others romantically.kamwe sitarudia kosa ili as nimemuumiza sana mhusika kwani nilipojiachia kujairib kumpenda yeye ndo ailiweka tiki kua amenipata.things ziliposhindikana kabisa imekua merse kwake.

sasa kumbe umejaribu umeshindwa,usisikilize maneno ya watu in my experience u can never learn how to love,just believe or not

BlackBerry · Apr 8, 2011

Mtende said:
i just give u my experience,i had a boy alikua ananipenda sana na alikua ananipa kila ninachotaka pia naweza kusema ana sifa ya kupandwa na mwanamke yeyote kuanzia tabia,mpaka vingine,he knows how to care,how to love,he was so commited lakini nlilikuwa simpendi,nikajipa moyo kuwa ntajifunza kumpenda two years in relationship na most of times tulikua pamoja lakini nlilijikuta inakuwa ngumu sana kumpenda,kilia nilipojaribu kujifunza kumpenda i aproved failure then i become to realize kwamba you can not learn to love someone coz love is naturaly and automaticaly,na lama ukiulazimisha moyo you will suffer for the rest of your life,kilichotokea nilimwacha yule kaka nilimwambia ukweli kwamba nimeshindwa kujifunza kumpenda,nilimwonea huruma coz nilimpotezea muda mwingi na aliweka malengo na matumaini yake yote kwangu,i just warn you,pls dont try to play with peoples feelings,if u don love them find the one u love

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BlackBerry · Apr 8, 2011

Tasia I said:
Mtende
me nakubaliana na wewe, mpaka nafikia kuweka hi thread hapa ni akua nimejitahidikumpenda mtu lakini nimeshindwa kabisa.lakini hua nasikia kuhusu kijifunza kupenda, so nikawa najiuliza kwa nini haikufunction kwangu??

I hate hurting others romantically.kamwe sitarudia kosa ili as nimemuumiza sana mhusika kwani nilipojiachia kujairib kumpenda yeye ndo ailiweka tiki kua amenipata.things ziliposhindikana kabisa imekua merse kwake.

Hakuna cha kujifunza bwana kwa nini ujifunze wakati ukitulia wa kwako uliyeandikiwa na Mungu atatokea tu?????

Husninyo · Apr 9, 2011

Unaweza kujifunza kupenda. Mi mwenyewe nipo kwenye hiyo course.
Nikigraduate nitaleta ushuhuda hapa.

Husninyo · Apr 9, 2011

BlackBerry said:
Hakuna cha kujifunza bwana kwa nini ujifunze wakati ukitulia wa kwako uliyeandikiwa na Mungu atatokea tu?????

dah! Utulie tuuu.
Ukifa kabla hujaletewa?

bigbumper · Apr 9, 2011

jamani ubishi utawafanya mfe na utamu wenu kwani ngono ndo skukuu ya kwel dunian amna cha paska idi wa xmas kufakunoga anatambua hilo

Yahemovich · Apr 9, 2011

Never ever'! Hakuna hata mahakama ya mpenzi sembuse hiyo tuition!

bigbumper · Apr 9, 2011

kiukwel upo sawa broda mwanadada amefunguka sema vp apo kat

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