Ashie
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- Aug 14, 2021
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Sometimes life comes and hits you right on your face and it's quite overwhelming. You suddenly start evaluating every life choice you've made whether it was the right one or not especially once things go side ways. Situations like those really make you understand why there is the saying that "nothing is permanent" because nothing really ever is. Business wise we have the business life cycle at the end of a certain period every product is bound to decline, well so is life!
We need to enjoy the high moments, and truly enjoy them because your time here on earth, the people you love, your finances are not meant to last for ever, nothing is. Think of it like this, when we go to the park and we pay for the ticket and go on that roller coaster, yes we scream when go down but we scream for joy and excitement and all that is good. Let's take our limited time here on earth to just enjoy everything, the good, the bad, the ugly and the beautiful.
We need to be hopeful during the bad times because firstly, it is not permanent. Secondly, if you hit rock bottom there is no other way but up. Thirdly, you've gained lessons and you know for sure that the next time you won't hit rock bottom instead you will just trip and keep walking.
After being through so much in life, I have come to understand that I have power over my feelings. Not to say that, I don't get sad, I do and a lot! But I feel it at the moment and then tomorrow if necessary but my main goal is to let it go and I only focus on that goal even if we have to fake it until make it.
Here is a quick evaluation question you can ask yourself, "When you fall down in life are you learning? or are you focus on the feeling of loss and sadness?" One thing is if you are not learning, you definitely are suffering and your recovery process will be short because your not giving yourself room to feel other things that will ease the situation.
Let life come with joy, even a sprinkle of joy during the sad times, let it in. I have met people who might be in bad situation and feel guilty to laugh. Another silly question, "If you are at the funeral of someone very close to you, and someone did some funny thing like extremely funny. Would you hold your laughter because you feel guilty to laugh in a situation that does not require you to laugh or smile Or will you just laugh to ease the pain?" I understand that a funeral is something not to be joked upon because it is a loss of life but why drain in so much sadness and deny a little sprinkle of joy to fill the room and ease the atmosphere.
Life is a roller coaster, smile through the good, give room to acknowledge the sadness and tell it "I see you! I feel you! But I am good! If my God is good, I am good! "
We need to enjoy the high moments, and truly enjoy them because your time here on earth, the people you love, your finances are not meant to last for ever, nothing is. Think of it like this, when we go to the park and we pay for the ticket and go on that roller coaster, yes we scream when go down but we scream for joy and excitement and all that is good. Let's take our limited time here on earth to just enjoy everything, the good, the bad, the ugly and the beautiful.
We need to be hopeful during the bad times because firstly, it is not permanent. Secondly, if you hit rock bottom there is no other way but up. Thirdly, you've gained lessons and you know for sure that the next time you won't hit rock bottom instead you will just trip and keep walking.
After being through so much in life, I have come to understand that I have power over my feelings. Not to say that, I don't get sad, I do and a lot! But I feel it at the moment and then tomorrow if necessary but my main goal is to let it go and I only focus on that goal even if we have to fake it until make it.
Here is a quick evaluation question you can ask yourself, "When you fall down in life are you learning? or are you focus on the feeling of loss and sadness?" One thing is if you are not learning, you definitely are suffering and your recovery process will be short because your not giving yourself room to feel other things that will ease the situation.
Let life come with joy, even a sprinkle of joy during the sad times, let it in. I have met people who might be in bad situation and feel guilty to laugh. Another silly question, "If you are at the funeral of someone very close to you, and someone did some funny thing like extremely funny. Would you hold your laughter because you feel guilty to laugh in a situation that does not require you to laugh or smile Or will you just laugh to ease the pain?" I understand that a funeral is something not to be joked upon because it is a loss of life but why drain in so much sadness and deny a little sprinkle of joy to fill the room and ease the atmosphere.
Life is a roller coaster, smile through the good, give room to acknowledge the sadness and tell it "I see you! I feel you! But I am good! If my God is good, I am good! "
