At first when you see actually you get "attracted" in a positive way (if only in the end it will bring the so called "love at first sight").This positivity makes you to explore about the person,here its not necessary by asking other people about him/her...it can be by introducing yourself to the person in a way which is "acceptable". In most cases this "exploration" brings either TRUSTING or kinume chake na hapo ndo utaamua uendelee au lah! Na kama ukiendelea na ukafanikiwa,then hapo hiyo "process" yote ndo inakuwa considered as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT.
Tukumbuke kuwa "love at first sight" sio kile kitendo cha wewe kumuona mdada/mkaka then hapo hapo ukamtongoza na akakubali afu fasta mkaenda kuvunja amri....NO! Hiyo siyo cause you got "attracted" in a negative way ndo maana umemchukulia kama changudoa tu...I mean hujafanya "exlporation" ili ujue "the other beauties" of the person concerned. Kuna mtu alizungumzia the "inner beauty",this is extremely important cause ndo utapata kujua mambo mengi ambayo ni tofauti na "physical beauty".
Kwa maoni yangu love at first sight ipo only if you let it be,na mimi binafsi ilinitokea mnamo tarehe 07/10/2001 (Ten years ago)!