Marafiki ni sehemu muhimu sana kwenye maisha ya kila mmoja wetu. Kila siku tunashauriana ishu za mapenzi..tunapeana tahadhari na kushauriana pia kufarijiana ila nadhani swala la urafiki hatulipi uzito ipasavyo!!!
Kama tunavyolipa umuhimu swala la kuchagua nani anafaa kua mpenzi wako ndivyo ilivyo muhimu kuchagua marafiki pia.Kuna aina za marafiki ambao wakati mwingine inabidi tukae mbali nao....marafiki wagomvi, waongo,wafitini, wachonganishi,wambea,wenye wivu kiasi cha kutopenda maendeleo yako, wasio na heshima n.k
Ndani ya wiki mbili nimeshuhudia
.....wasichana wawili wanaoitana marafiki, wanaochekeana wakiwa pamoja wameharibiana mambo yao vibaya sana.
.....Mwingine alikua na tatizo na mwenzake kama watu wazima badala ya kuyamaliza wenyewe akafikisha mpaka taarifa ambazo hazikupaswa kwa mzazi wa mwenzake.Hao ni watu wazima ila bado wanakua kama watoto!!!
.....Mwingine amembeza mwenzake kwamba hana busara.
Kwenye makundi yote hayo matatu hamna heshima ya kweli, urafiki uliojaa mapenzi ya ukweli wala ukomavu wa akili.Siku zote sio vizuri kua rafiki na mtu ambae hajakomaa kiakili sawa na wewe kwasababu ni rahisi sana kutokuelewana nayo inaweza kupelekea chuki inayoweza kuharibu kabisa utu wa mtu....mkaishia kuchukiana maisha!!
Kitu kingine ni kwamba mara nyingi watu unaoonekana nao wanakudefine ulivyo...inawezekana kabisa sivyo ila kama mtu hakufahamu anachukulia kile anachoona au kusikia kuhusu kundi lile la wadada/wakaka kama tabia yako binafsi...kwahiyo kaa mbali na watu usiopenda kuhusishwa nao!
Nwyz nimeona tu tukumbushane umuhimu wa kuchagua marafiki.Kua rafiki na mtu unaeelewana nae lugha...heshimianeni na mpendane.Ukishamwita mtu rafiki yako then unakua na jukumu la kulinda hadhi/sifa ya mwenzako badala ya kuiharibu, kumpa moyo badala ya kumvunja, kumpa faraja badala ya kumpa wakati mgumu, kumheshimu badala ya kumdaharau, kumtunzia siri badala ya kuivujisha n.k.
Tupendane!!
Nawakilisha!!!
Pengine tujiulize yafuatayo kwanza, je nini definition ya RAFIKI???
Je watu unaokutana nao makazini na maofisini na mnafanya kazi pamoja ni automatically marafiki au sio marafiki??
Je inawezekana mtu unafanya nae kazi kila siku ofisi moja usiwe na urafiki nae (kama uliamua kumkwepa) ???
Marafiki ni sehemu muhimu sana kwenye maisha ya kila mmoja wetu.Kila siku tunashauriana ishu za mapenzi..tunapeana tahadhari na kushauriana pia kufarijiana ila nadhani swala la urafiki hatulipi uzito ipasavyo!!!
Kama tunavyolipa umuhimu swala la kuchagua nani anafaa kua mpenzi wako ndivyo ilivyo muhimu kuchagua marafiki pia.Kuna aina za marafiki ambao wakati mwingine inabidi tukae mbali nao....marafiki wagomvi, waongo,wafitini, wachonganishi,wambea,wenye wivu kiasi cha kutopenda maendeleo yako, wasio na heshima n.k
Ndani ya wiki mbili nimeshuhudia
.....wasichana wawili wanaoitana marafiki, wanaochekeana wakiwa pamoja wameharibiana mambo yao vibaya sana.
.....Mwingine alikua na tatizo na mwenzake kama watu wazima badala ya kuyamaliza wenyewe akafikisha mpaka taarifa ambazo hazikupaswa kwa mzazi wa mwenzake.Hao ni watu wazima ila bado wanakua kama watoto!!!
.....Mwingine amembeza mwenzake kwamba hana busara.
Kwenye makundi yote hayo matatu hamna heshima ya kweli, urafiki uliojaa mapenzi ya ukweli wala ukomavu wa akili.Siku zote sio vizuri kua rafiki na mtu ambae hajakomaa kiakili sawa na wewe kwasababu ni rahisi sana kutokuelewana nayo inaweza kupelekea chuki inayoweza kuharibu kabisa utu wa mtu....mkaishia kuchukiana maisha!!
Kitu kingine ni kwamba mara nyingi watu unaoonekana nao wanakudefine ulivyo...inawezekana kabisa sivyo ila kama mtu hakufahamu anachukulia kile anachoona au kusikia kuhusu kundi lile la wadada/wakaka kama tabia yako binafsi...kwahiyo kaa mbali na watu usiopenda kuhusishwa nao!
Nwyz nimeona tu tukumbushane umuhimu wa kuchagua marafiki.Kua rafiki na mtu unaeelewana nae lugha...heshimianeni na mpendane.Ukishamwita mtu rafiki yako then unakua na jukumu la kulinda hadhi/sifa ya mwenzako badala ya kuiharibu, kumpa moyo badala ya kumvunja, kumpa faraja badala ya kumpa wakati mgumu, kumheshimu badala ya kumdaharau, kumtunzia siri badala ya kuivujisha n.k.
Tupendane!!
Nawakilisha!!!
Will be back na majimu ijumaa!!
Missed you hubby!!
Oooh my Baby
Where are u goin now?
I need you here
Plse go with me
Pleaseeeeee
Know that I love you and our love is still growing
Plse honey
Dont make me cry
Lizzy umezungumzia jambo muhimu sana. Friendship is truly essential to the human spirit kama maji na chakula kwenye miili yetu. Whether wewe ni tajiri au maskili, wote tunahitaji marafiki who will pull us through thick and thin. Marafiki ndio chanzo cha furaha zetu, n.k. Ushauri na mawazo mengi tunayapata toka kwa marafiki zetu. Friends wipe away all our tears when sorrow and loneliness struck as with the game called twist of fate. They are our solid anchor when we need stability when troubles lurks. They are our defensive sentinels when a foe's slugs are all over the place.
Tunakoelekea inaonekana kama tutakuwa karibu zaidi na marafiki kuliko ndugu. Maisha yamefanya ndugu wawe mbali (it is a shame) kutokana na sababu za kazi, n.k. Kwa hiyo unakuta tunawategemea zaidi marafiki zetu katika kutatua matatizo yetu mbalimbali. Also, modern day living spreads our time and energy thin. Mobility from one place to another and the presence of IT stuffs like TV, DVD, computer, internet and more are affecting our getting acquainted with our friends well. Everyone seems busy at almost all the time. But still, young and old, we need happy and meaningful friendship.
Wapo waliobahatika kupata marafiki wazuri, I mean marafiki ambao they will always be there whenever you need them. Pia wapo ambao hawajabahatika kupata marafiki wa kweli. Now ni jinsi gani ya kupata marafiki ambao they will always be there whenever you need them? This will depend on you and what sort of friends you want. It will depend on how you live with people and how you treat them. Depending on how you treat other people, you may end up with having superficial friends, true friends, real friends, or just friends who want to hang out with you.
To have a friend, be a friend. To have real friends or to be an unselfish, giving friend yourself, in short, be a sincere friend. Friendship must be filled with more of giving than about getting. Authentic happiness comes from giving. The one that receives is happy but the one that gives is even happier.
Stay Blessed.
Hehehehe....babu kama unaona uwezekano wa mimi kua nao basi nnao!!!