Mbinu za Kumnasa msaliti

Jamani naomba mnisaidie, nawezaje kugundua kama mke wangu ama mpenzi wangu ametoka kufanya mapenzi leo leo kabla mimi sijakutana naye. Hebu nipeni mbinu waungwana nitagunduaje jambo hilo? Mfano kama katoka kufanya na mwanaume mwingine mchana, then jioni amekuja kwangu

Acha kujipa pressure wewe.... Vipi kwani humridhishi ndani??

AshaDii said:

Acha kujipa pressure wewe.... Vipi kwani humridhishi ndani??

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Jibu kilichoulizwa basi, ndo maana mnafeli mitihani

mwana mpotevu said:

Jibu kilichoulizwa basi, ndo maana mnafeli mitihani

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Genuinely..... Jibu langu sio mzaha, unapalia makaa na kufupisha maisha yako kwa mawazo ambayo mwisho yatakufanya uwe depressed.

Anatakuwa anaona aibu.

AshaDii said:

Genuinely..... Jibu langu sio mzaha, unapalia makaa na kufupisha maisha yako kwa mawazo ambayo mwisho yatakufanya uwe depressed.

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Hebu soma signature yako tafadhali, then tafakari

Kama unategemea kuna dalili za mwilini basi fahamu huwezi kujua kabisaaaaaa hata kama alienda kufanya mapenzi chooni we ukawa sebuleni. Ila kuna dalili zingine kama vile uchovu, hana interest na wewe etc. Na hapo ndipo AshaDii atakua na point: kwa nini aende nje kama unamtimizia yote ndani?
I don't mean mwnamke asipotimiziwa anaruhusiwa kwenda nje ila ni fact ya maisha, wengi wanaenda nje kwa sababu hiyo.

AshaDii said:

Acha kujipa pressure wewe.... Vipi kwani humridhishi ndani??

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Si kweli kuwa wote watokao nje, awe mwanamke au mwanaume eti hawaridhishwi na wandani wao. Toa msaada kwa mhitaji kama hujui ni bora kunyamaza, hujui kuwa mpaka mtu kuomba msaada kwa wanajamvi. Subiri nawe yakukute!

mwana mpotevu said:

Hebu soma signature yako tafadhali, then tafakari

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"Never get angry.
Believe me I am not angry.... But nahisi maybe wee umechukia;

Never make a Threat.
Sijakutisha ndio maana nikakwambia katika post yangu
ya pili kua mchango wangu ulikua genuine... na sio mzaha..

Reason with People"
Sig yangu huniongoza mara nying... Ndio maana nikauliza kua
humridhishi (sio kwa nia mbaya) Mpaka wee umeweka swala lako
hapa ina maana unataka Utatuzi... na utatuzi mzuri utapata tu ukiwa
wazi. Sijaelewa kabisa kwamba wee waishi na Mkeo then uanze kutaka
jua kama katoka nje, hio itakuchukua a lot of your energy na kukufanya
kila unapokua nae faragha ujiulize kama kuna mtu kapita hapo... Believe
me you yaweza hata punguza nguzu yako... itakukosesha raha... na
kukufanya hata uanze mchukia mkeo hali kumbe hata hafanyi....

Wabogojo said:

Si kweli kuwa wote watokao nje, awe mwanamke au mwanaume eti hawaridhishwi na wandani wao. Toa msaada kwa mhitaji kama hujui ni bora kunyamaza, hujui kuwa mpaka mtu kuomba msaada kwa wanajamvi. Subiri nawe yakukute!

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Hivi wewe unaona ni sawa tu kuanza fikiria Mke/Mme anatoka nje out of nowhere... Sijasema hamridhishi... Nimemuuliza kama hamridhishi?? For why the wasiwasi....

Na ofcoz nakubaliana na wewe kua sio kila anaetoka haridhishwi.... Sababu ni nyingi mno!

AshaDii said:

"Never get angry.
Believe me I am not angry.... But nahisi maybe wee umechukia;

Never make a Threat.
Sijakutisha ndio maana nikakwambia katika post yangu
ya pili kua mchango wangu ulikua genuine... na sio mzaha..

Reason with People"
Sig yangu huniongoza mara nying... Ndio maana nikauliza kua
humridhishi (sio kwa nia mbaya) Mpaka wee umeweka swala lako
hapa ina maana unataka Utatuzi... na utatuzi mzuri utapata tu ukiwa
wazi. Sijaelewa kabisa kwamba wee waishi na Mkeo then uanze kutaka
jua kama katoka nje, hio itakuchukua a lot of your energy na kukufanya
kila unapokua nae faragha ujiulize kama kuna mtu kapita hapo... Believe
me you yaweza hata punguza nguzu yako... itakukosesha raha... na
kukufanya hata uanze mchukia mkeo hali kumbe hata hafanyi....

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Soma post #8

AshaDii said:

Hivi wewe unaona ni sawa tu kuanza fikiria Mke/Mme anatoka nje out of nowhere... Sijasema hamridhishi... Nimemuuliza kama hamridhishi?? For why the wasiwasi....

Na ofcoz nakubaliana na wewe kua sio kila anaetoka haridhishwi.... Sababu ni nyingi mno!

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so kama namridhisha na bado anatoka nje, how could I know?

The Finest said:

Boyz II Men - End Of The Road - YouTube

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She real belongs to me but I just want to know in case!

mwana mpotevu said:

Jamani naomba mnisaidie, nawezaje kugundua kama mke wangu ama mpenzi wangu ametoka kufanya mapenzi leo leo kabla mimi sijakutana naye. Hebu nipeni mbinu waungwana nitagunduaje jambo hilo? Mfano kama katoka kufanya na mwanaume mwingine mchana, then jioni amekuja kwangu

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Unatoa mfano au ni ndio hali ilivyo???

The Finest said:

Unatoa mfano au ni ndio hali ilivyo???

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Mfano na najua wanawake wengi wanafanya hivyo lakini sie wanaume hatujui na ndio maana AshaDii anatetea ili tusijue namna ya kujua

mwana mpotevu said:

Soma post #8

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Naona ushakua clouded na the fact kua hukukubali my First two posts.... Whether because you are sensitive or hukunipata sijatambua... Post namba 8 nimeisoma... that means umesoma pia nilivo mjibu.... Thus Mwana Mpotevu NAOMBA MSAMAHA saana kwa kukuchafulia Thread yako kwa comments ambazo sio za Msingi kwako.... Best of Luck katika tatizo lako.

BTW... Mwanamke ambae hutoka nje hutamtambua kwa kuangalia maeneo yake... Bali kwa kumuona ama kufumania... ndo kwanza anaweza toka alikotoka huko na ukapata chumvi na usinotice the difference.

AshaDii said:

Acha kujipa pressure wewe.... Vipi kwani humridhishi ndani??

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hili nalo neno, bata ukimchunguza sana humli

interest is -ve
aibu nyingi
hana ujasiri wa kukutazama usoni

AshaDii said:

BTW... Mwanamke ambae hutoka nje hutamtambua kwa kuangalia maeneo yake... Bali kwa kumuona ama kufumania... ndo kwanza anaweza toka alikotoka huko na ukapata chumvi na usinotice the difference.

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