Acha ubinafsi wewe, think of what is good for the kid and not for you!!!! Think of children's rights, right to know, right to be loved by both parents, rights to be raised with mtu mwenye maadili, maana sasa kama wewe uko tu tayari kuzalishwa tu LI MRADI rangi ni nyeupe, oh, my friend, kama hiyo rangi ya juu imeficha addiction kama drugs, alcoholism, etc...hiyo wewe hujali kama ina effect kwa mwanao? Duh, watoto si property yetu, they are their own people' so I advice you to repent and relent with what you want to do. Plus kwangu mimi ni kejeli kutaka tu rangi ya mtu; you are ashamed of your own colour? HIvi ushajiuliza what is beneath the skin, and if there are any differences between black and white people in terms of what lies inside? Kwanza hakuna mtu mweupe wala mzungu, colour is a racist creation to put one race down....white is like ream paper na hakuna bunadamu mwenye rangi hiyo, and of black I reserve my comments....black was given to Africans because it was associated with evil, barbarism, backwardness etc.....so be careful