Mbona tunafikiria tu maumbile madogo ya kiume? Inawezekana ya kike ndiyo makubwa ndiyo maana jamaa anang'aka!
Sorry for your feeling. but lots of love problems start childishly and look childish on the surface but deep inside lurks a monster driving a wedge between two sincere hearts. Take this case in question for example. The lady complaining about the behaviour of her boyfriend has genuine and valid reasons to label her relationship as being problematic.The man doesn't show any co-operation the lady expects when it comes to going to gymns, the man travels and the lady wants to communicate with him but the man says he should not be called in the mornings and that he would prefer sms to calls etc. These are serious adult issues not nursery stuff. Why detest morning calls from your lover?No reasons were offered only the lazy excuse that mornings are relaxing hours etc. The lady is exasperated and rightly so!Why this behaviour from her man? There is nothing childish about her feelings so far- at least for me! From the lady's post I could see something. The man, to me, appears to be suffering from psychological problems of phallic inadequacy. The lady mentions in Swahili ' ana maumbo madogo' This could be a serious issue to a man making him behave the way he is doing. Thankshii imekaa ki-sekondari zaidi; too childish for my liking..