Painfull truth men should agree

Bramo said:

If you listen to women talk about men, you'll often hear them use the word "ANNOYING" to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO.

Here are some of the things that many women
consider to be "annoying":

- Calling her too often
- Telling her that you have "feelings" for her too early
- Giving away your power to her and making her the boss
- Always asking a woman what she wants instead of leading
- Acting submissive and weak
- Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests
- Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside

THE MAN DOING THEM IS A BONAFIDE, 100%
CERTIFIABLE WUSSY!

AND WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES. EVER.
This is the Fact, we Men have to change our mind/ attitude/Behaviour towards our Women, am nat saying we should be Jerk or Bad boys To Them, no But we should Realize How we are supposed to act as Men

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Bramo said:

If you're buying a woman dinner twice a
week, giving her flowers, calling her every day,
and basically "chasing" her, then you can be about
80% sure that there's another guy in the
picture... but guess what? He's the one who SHE
calls, and he's the one who says "Come over later,
I'm busy now"... no dates required.

Women don't like men who are
FOLLOWERS.
Women aren't ATTRACTED to men who are
FOLLOWERS.
But guess what? Most men FOLLOW anyway.
we need to LEAD.
Leading creates ATTRACTION. Following creates the curious dry feeling

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...Dah! kumbe ndio maana?...haya bana. Najivua gamba kuanzia leo.

MTM said:

aBSOLUTELY AISEE.... AS A MAN, UKIONA UNAZUNGUSHWA MARA TATU, JUA UKO KWENYE FILTRATION PROCESS TU!!! WA UKWELI HUPEWA AU HATA KUFUATWA MWENYEWE

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Bramo said:

If you listen to women talk about men, you'll often hear them use the word "ANNOYING" to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO.

Here are some of the things that many women
consider to be "annoying":


- Calling her too often
- Telling her that you have "feelings" for her too early
- Giving away your power to her and making her the boss
- Always asking a woman what she wants instead of leading
- Acting submissive and weak
- Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests
- Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside



THE MAN DOING THEM IS A BONAFIDE, 100%
CERTIFIABLE WUSSY!

AND WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES. EVER.
This is the Fact, we Men have to change our mind/ attitude/Behaviour towards our Women, am nat saying we should be Jerk or Bad boys To Them, no But we should Realize How we are supposed to act as Men

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This is absolutely true na wala hakuna ukweli mwingine kokote utashinda semi hizi.
Lakini je ni kwa sababu sisi wanaume tunapenda vitu vizuri vyote, tuwe juu ya akina dada bila kuteswa kama tunavyowatesa? I guess tuko biased with the following confession: Mara ngapi tunawapanga akina dada katika ahadi, hata watatu kwa siku kama dose ya paracetamol (kila mtu na muda wake) kutegemeana na weakness ya mwanaume psychologically? Mara ngapi akina dada zaidi ya wawili wanatupigia simu za mapenzi na tunawachunia au kuwa ignore wakati tuko busy na wengine? kumbe mkuki kwa nguruwe....!!!!!!!!! Tukubali kuwa in both ways (reciprocally) hii kitu inabore maana the core reason ni mtu (gents and ladies) kuwa na mahusiano kwa mpenzi zaidi ya mmoja na hivyo kujaribu kuwatumia wote at his/her own convenience. Lakini kama tungekuwa wakweli tu tangu mwanzo, kusingekuwa na malalamiko toka pande zote coz mtu angetongozwa (me/ke) akasema yuko na mtu na huyu mtongozaji asingepoteza resource zake bure kumfuatilia. LESSON: TUWE WAKWELI NA WAAMINIFU KWA MPENZI MMOJA TU NDO HUU UPUUZI UTAPUNGUA!!

mkwegi said:

This is absolutely true na wala hakuna ukweli mwingine kokote utashinda semi hizi.
Lakini je ni kwa sababu sisi wanaume tunapenda vitu vizuri vyote, tuwe juu ya akina dada bila kuteswa kama tunavyowatesa? I guess tuko biased with the following confession: Mara ngapi tunawapanga akina dada katika ahadi, hata watatu kwa siku kama dose ya paracetamol (kila mtu na muda wake) kutegemeana na weakness ya mwanaume psychologically? Mara ngapi akina dada zaidi ya wawili wanatupigia simu za mapenzi na tunawachunia au kuwa ignore wakati tuko busy na wengine? kumbe mkuki kwa nguruwe....!!!!!!!!! Tukubali kuwa in both ways (reciprocally) hii kitu inabore maana the core reason ni mtu (gents and ladies) kuwa na mahusiano kwa mpenzi zaidi ya mmoja na hivyo kujaribu kuwatumia wote at his/her own convenience. Lakini kama tungekuwa wakweli tu tangu mwanzo, kusingekuwa na malalamiko toka pande zote coz mtu angetongozwa (me/ke) akasema yuko na mtu na huyu mtongozaji asingepoteza resource zake bure kumfuatilia. LESSON: TUWE WAKWELI NA WAAMINIFU KWA MPENZI MMOJA TU NDO HUU UPUUZI UTAPUNGUA!!

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Hahahaaaaa.... Mkuu umefungua mlango wa pili wa diskasheni

Ngoja nipumzike kigodo na hangover then ntarudi:nerd:

I am not sure, I am different. What I have noted is that although women have similarities on what they want and desire, they also differ significantly......

This mapenzi things is too complicated.

Africana Jr. said:

This mapenzi things is too complicated.

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Yeah, and sometimes such generalizations may not apply..