are you living your words?
Hapana mkuu..., Just I have seen a lot of people who destroy their lives or get demolarised thinking that they cant live without someone.., or their life is incomplete....., am the living proof raised by a single mother (a widow) who struggled to raise us alone, but with always a big smile on her face.., and as far as I can tell she was always happy (you can always adapt)..
Hapana mkuu..., Just I have seen a lot of people who destroy their lives or get demolarised thinking that they cant live without someone.., or their life is incomplete....., am the living proof raised by a single mother (a widow) who struggled to raise us alone, but with always a big smile on her face.., and as far as I can tell she was always happy, human beings are strong and you can always adapt...
the biggest problem that u rarely see people discuss is....
each and everyone of us has been wired different...
one person can be happy being single,the other can suffer a lot for being single......
think of other factors like hormones,age,culture and a lot others factors...
Ni kweli Mkuu lakini siku hizi most partners are not compatible kwahiyo point yangu ni kwamba are you better off alone or with an incompatible partner?the biggest problem that u rarely see people discuss is....
each and everyone of us has been wired different...
one person can be happy being single,the other can suffer a lot for being single......
think of other factors like hormones,age,culture and a lot others factors...
now this is a confusion.....
Ni kweli Mkuu lakini siku hizi most partners are not compatible kwahiyo point yangu ni kwamba are you better off alone or with an incompatible partner?
Pili most people who hate and are afraid of being single.., they become desperate.., matokeo yake they get a wrong guy who takes advantage of them and they end up worse than they were in the beginning
Tatu if its about the having good time you can have a partner with no strings attached.
Now when the children are involved hutaki kuleta mtu ndani ambaye anaweza akadisturb the balance of your kids..., I think in this case you should even sacrifice your happiness for the kids, unless you get someone who is ready to be a father / mother to your kids as well
confusing how?
do you know that some people cant be single because of
high sex drive?they need it everyday almost....
so these type of people once they find a partner who is really good in bed
they put up with whatever abuse or mistreatment they will receive....its a fact..
i find this too advanced for our local women (tanzania)
ha ha ha too advanced?
sex with no strings attached is still a new thing for tz women..
they will say ,wataka nichezea as if they don't enjoy it...lol
i almost woken up my neighbors....l.o.l
Mkuu they say there is a thin line between love and hate..., mi najua wapenzi waliokuwa hawawezi poteza dakika bila kuwa pamoja ila mwisho wa siku walishikiana visu, na sasa wanatumia watoto kama silaha..., mama is turning kids against their father...saying the guy is useless. So be carefull ndugu yangu when that love turns to hate... nyumbani unaweza kupaona ni gerezani.Upweke mbaya....upweke hukondesha tena unaweza kuua...having watoto na chochote mlichopata wakati wa uhai wa penzi lenu haina maana ni tiketi ya kuondoa upendo wa kwanza...kwanza tusijidaganye...upendo wa dhati hua haufi bali unalala na viamsho vya upendo ulolala ni sisi wenyewe....
Upweke mbaya....upweke hukondesha tena unaweza kuua...having watoto na chochote mlichopata wakati wa uhai wa penzi lenu haina maana ni tiketi ya kuondoa upendo wa kwanza...kwanza tusijidaganye...upendo wa dhati hua haufi bali unalala na viamsho vya upendo ulolala ni sisi wenyewe....
i find this too advanced for our local women (tanzania)
Lakini I think this is a perfect solution kwa mtu independent ambaye hataki kuolewa au kuoa..ha ha ha too advanced?
sex with no strings attached is still a new thing for tz women..
i wish love was real.....
Lakini I think this is a perfect solution kwa mtu independent ambaye hataki kuolewa au kuoa..
the tricky is to make sure sex is real....
and let love flow by itself.....lol
kabisa kabisa but wanawake wa kitanzania bado hawajui faida yake..trust me....
they always think sex is about giving men,
brother are you doing private lessons?....i could use your help...l.o.l