Sababu Kuu 7 Zinazowafanya Wanaume Wakimbilie Kuoa - Wanawake Mpo Hapo?

Mwanaume kuoa muhimu na mwanamke kuolewa muhimu. Ndio maana Mungu alivyomuumba Adamu akaona si vyema akae peke yake, akampa msaidizi. Ujue watu siku hizi hawaoni umuhimu wa kuoana, lkn ndoa ni muhimu sana kwa binadamu. Mtu unaweza kusema utakuwa single lakini kuna kipindi kikifika mwenyewe utaona umuhimu wa kuishi wawili, yaani mke na mume.

Allien said:

Marriage is a social obligation as well as something two individuals would like to get into after courtship. Although, many single women prefer to avoid marriage, yet marriage continues to be popular with both men and women.

Women marry for their own reasons, generally for emotional and financial security. Men have other reasons, mostly companionship.

Men prefer to settle down in marriage as quickly as they can. Once they like a woman and get close to her, they prefer to settle down in marriage.

Why do they want to tie the knot so fast?


Why Men Rush Into Marriage?

• Men feel insecure that they may lose out on their woman. An attractive woman is a good catch, but also she can attract other men as well. Naturally, a man would prefer to make her his own as soon as possible.

• Men prefer to settle down in matrimony as they would like to have a home of their own, a wife and kids. It provides them a sense of belonging.

• It is easier for a man to manage his career well if he has someone at home to take care of his needs and look after the house.

• Emotional strength is what a man needs at times. An understanding woman can give all the necessary emotional support to him during his difficult moments. He needs someone with whom he can share his inner most thoughts.

• Men feel lonely returning from work to an empty house. They would like their house bubbling with a lot of noise and appreciate a wife receiving them and kids hugging them affectionately.

• Men like to share their earnings with someone else. They like it when they are earning for someone. It provides a purpose in life for them.

• Social pressure is also a factor why men rush into marriage. Peer pressure is always there, and they do not like to retain their single status far to long.

Marriage is a tradition common to all societies. Men and women fall in love, settle down in marriage and have children. Men are always eager to propose to their woman so that they can settle down early in life.

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Is this a research or just someone giving their views? Na kama ni research imefanyika wapi na ilikuwa na ukubwa kiasi gani. Siyo research imefanyika nchi moja basi watu mfikirie it is the case every where else in the world.

To many marriage is still a social obligation. They grew up seeing a house with a mummy and daddy and of course they want to do the same. Ni muendelezo wa utamaduni tuseme ambayo tuna rithi toka kwa wazazi na kufundishwa tokea utotoni kwamba in due time this is what is expected of you. Ndiyo maana hata sasa mtu wa umri fulani ambaye hajawahi kuoa au kuolewa ata tazamwa kwa mshangao by the society at large.

JF: Enzi za Great Thinkers!

afraid of rival being one of the reasons dragging men to the altar? I have my reservations on that but these two reasons I buy them with my last coin left in my pocket..............

• Men feel lonely returning from work to an empty house. They would like their house bubbling with a lot of noise and appreciate a wife receiving them and kids hugging them affectionately.

• Men like to share their earnings with someone else. They like it when they are earning for someone. It provides a purpose in life for them.

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Allien said:

• Social pressure is also a factor why men rush into marriage. Peer pressure is always there, and they do not like to retain their single status far to long.

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Hii ya peer pressure ndio kubwa sana esp hapa kwetu, coz unajikuta washikaji wote wanaoa weekend kila mtu ukimtafuta anakwambia yupo bize na wife mara huyu anaenda kutembea ukweni sometimes washikaji nao wanakuuliza utaoa lini utaoa lini , wazazi nao wakianza kuku mind unaishia kuboreka eventually na wewe unaamua kulikita.