Heart
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To my thinking...Emotional cheating is inevitable but physical cheating can be avoided...someone can escape from it..akiwa tu na msimamo thabiti!
Physical and emotional cheating are inevitable.
To my thinking...Emotional cheating is inevitable but physical cheating can be avoided...someone can escape from it..akiwa tu na msimamo thabiti!
If to your thinking physical is avoidable then why can't emotional be avoidable? Huwezi kuwa na msimamo thabiti wa kukuwezesha kuepuka uzinifu wa kihisia?
Unajua kwanini nimesema hivyo...coz hisia hutoka moyoni yaani naturally( na mwanaume/mwanamke akiipata hii ujue alienae hana chake kabisa),lakini physical cheating hutawaliwa na tamaa..ndio yale mambo ya hit n run yanapozaliwa hapo ila home ana mpenz wake na anampenda haswaa..
Before I go any further let's establish what emotional cheating is. What do you consider to be emotional cheating? What constitutes it?
And does 'hit and run' apply to both men and women?
Weeeel,i think emotional cheating is when someone falls in love with somebody else apart from his/her spouse..including fantasizing being with that person,in his/her arms..and stuffs like that..intimacy feelings involved.
And Ofcos,hit n run applies to both men and women...utakuta mdada amependa tu kifua cha mkaka flani,so anatamani siku amkumbatie na even more than that...halafu basi. Au mkaka kapenda tu shape ya mdada flan anataman tu siku alale nae then basi..
Okay, very good.
Suppose two people are in a romantic relationship and they are dating exclusively. Say the girl starts flirting with other men online e.g. forums like JF, Facebook, Yahoo Messenger, and etc,..
She calls them 'laaziz', 'hun', and whatever else without the knowledge of her man. Occasionally they talk on the phone. They exchange photos thru email.
At this point she hasn't fallen in love yet with this guy who is not her man. She just 'likes' him and maybe it is fair to say she 'likes' him a lot. Do these kind of actions qualify as emotional cheating?
Sure it does qualify...the fact that they often communicate,callin each other names that even the fiance' is being called....halafu the guy doesnt know if those particular friends exist....#bad sign..thats emotional cheating indeed. Coz falling in love beginnings with liking the other person then love starts growing slowly...anything can happen. Mwisho wa siku wata-demand kuonana and then...
HEART,unapofikiri kitendo huwa kinafuata!Yote ni ubatili!
Per yourself, you contend that physical cheating is avoidable and emotional cheating is not. If my enumerated examples do qualify as emotional cheating, do you think those actions are unavoidable?
Nooo..they are avoidable kabisa! If you dont like flirting then you simply dont entertain them full stop!...When somebody calls you sweet names then u simply dont call them back then ataacha tu....do not exchange pictures if its not necessary to do so,then all of that romantik issues will not exist..its a matter of deciding!...I believe hata wewe kama u have your on principles,you cannot allow them to be broken easily...au sivyo??
Sikatai ila unaweza ukayashinda majaribu hayo...ukiamua tu. Ila ukianza kusema "si leo tu..kwani atajua" baaasi,ushapotea...
So then emotional cheating is avoidable! Or is it not?
Hahhahaa....sure it is avoidable..but it depends with the situation between couples. If they are always quarelling balaa tupu ndani ya nyumba..it is unavoidable kwakweli.
Kama ndani balaa si atoke nje?
To my thinking...Emotional cheating is inevitable but physical cheating can be avoided...someone can escape from it..akiwa tu na msimamo thabiti!
Hahhahaa....sure it is avoidable..but it depends with the situation between couples. If they are always quarelling balaa tupu ndani ya nyumba..it is unavoidable kwakweli.
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But with a qualification! Lol
Wapo wanaofanya hivyo..