TGIF - This is it..I mean, this is what life is all about?

QM
I feel your pain i go through the same thoughts every evening when it's just me and myself and my 4 walls...same ol' routine that does not change it just looks bleak... I tell myself one thing though... If i know my reason for being here then life would cease to be mundane. Ask God if you believe and He will show you your purpose in life and that will change your outlook.
I'm starting to believe that we have a higher purpose for being here. Do Volunteer work that is rewarding.

TanzanianFemale said:

Just from reading your recent posts it seems you are not content with life.

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Ha ha haa....you are so cute!!

TanzanianFemale said:

The way I see it, you have two choices. Do something to change it or learn to live with it. Hamna njia nyingine. But I'm sure you are not sailing alone there. Others might be thinking the same thing but have decided to settle for what is rather than what could be. What a world hey.. c'est la vie.

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TZFemale,
Now you are talking.....I'd love to change the routine. But to do that, I may have to reshuffle my overall life... See, I've crossed 'oceans' and 'rivers' (just like everyone else) to get to where I am now. And in the process, I picked up some things and beings with me. So before I pick a piece of paper and pen, and write down how my new route should be, I need to think and rethink deeply......

All in all, learning to live with it, is not and never will be an option.

QM said:

TZFemale,
Now you are talking.....I'd love to change the routine. But to do that, I may have to reshuffle my overall life... See, I've crossed 'oceans' and 'rivers' (just like everyone else) to get to where I am now. And in the process, I picked up some things and beings with me. So before I pick a piece of paper and pen, and write down how my new route should be, I need to think and rethink deeply......

All in all, learning to live with it, is not and never will be an option.

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Now YOU are talking. Dont settle for mudane if it bothers you. They say life is not a dress rehearsal. As long as you are not planning something drastic like becoming a monk and going to live in China (not that there is anything wrong with that), pole pole utafika.

mchongoma said:

...la kukuepusha na huo mfadhaiko na mkandamizo wa mawazo ni kupanda pipa kwenda Bongo for few days ku refresh mind! Ukifika kule unakuta washkaji weshaoa na wana nyumba, gari na shughuli zao za hapa na pale almuradi maisha mazuri tu,...

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Good idea Mchongoma, dawa ni kuchukua kalikizo na kuzamia bongo kwenda kujiachia. Unajua huwa nikiendaga bongo, nashuhudia washikaji wanavyojiachia utafikiri hakuna kesho. Kiboko ni pale unapokuta mshikaji yuko bwi kinoma katikati ya wiki mida mikali, halafu anategemea kwenda job kesho yake kama kawaida.

Aliyesema "no hurry in Africa" hakuwa mbali na ukweli.

mchongoma said:

...The choice is yours, kubakia ughaibuni na bills zinazodondoka mlangoni kila kukicha 🙂)zangu huwa nazitia kwenye fridge zipoe mpaka mwisho wa mwezi mambo yakikaa sawa), au ukubali kushindwa, meaning, urudi Bongo ukajiajiri/uajiriwe na kusahau maraha ya Macdonalds, Starbucks, KFC, Nandos etc...

Raha ya Bongo hakuna Bills, ila adha tu ndogo ndogo kama vile michango ya harusi, besidei nk na madhahma kibao ya kukuweka busy i.e Misiba, Vikao vya harusi, Mikutano ya Kampeni za Udiwani, Ubunge, na Urais etc etc

pole bro...! 🙁

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Uzuri wa hizi constant bills za ughaibuni zinatufanya tuwe na discipline na life (whatever that is). Lakini kwa upande mwingine, midundo ya kibongo bila ya kuhofia bills yanatuliza mizuka ya maisha.

Mh sasa sijui 'niteme' au 'nimeze'...!!!!

TanzanianFemale said:

Now YOU are talking. Dont settle for mudane if it bothers you. They say life is not a dress rehearsal. As long as you are not planning something drastic like becoming a monk and going to live in China (not that there is anything wrong with that), pole pole utafika.

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Thanks!

However, my main concern is, I'm "extremely out of shape." Sasa sijui kama nitaweza vishindo vya kubadilisha miondoko ya maisha yangu. "Flexibility" is a foreign term in my world at the moment🙂

Pundit said:

If anybody told you life has meaning, they lied to you big time. Life has no meaning period, except for the futile and fruitless attempt to look for the meaning of life.

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Mjomba unalikoroga.

"Futile and fruitless" maana yake pointless, meaningless. Kwa hiyo yote ni kazi bure, hakuna "except." Lakini kama "except" ipo, basi hakuna "period." Na kama kuna "period" basi "period" na "except" hayawezi kufuatana.

Kuhani said:

Mjomba unalikoroga.

"Futile and fruitless" maana yake pointless, meaningless. Kwa hiyo yote ni kazi bure, hakuna "except." Lakini kama "except" ipo, basi hakuna "period." Na kama kuna "period" basi "period" na "except" hayawezi kufuatana.

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Vipi Kuhusu "investigation" ya dokta Masau wee Pimbi?

QM said:

Thanks!

However, my main concern is, I'm "extremely out of shape." Sasa sijui kama nitaweza vishindo vya kubadilisha miondoko ya maisha yangu. "Flexibility" is a foreign term in my world at the moment🙂

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Kwahiyo "Start exercising" now flexibility itakuja taratibu taratibu. It takes a solid plan, a good strategy and enough time to be able to execute. Waulize olympic gymnastics team watakwambia.

Binafsi upenda sana kuuliza swali hili hasa ninapogundua mtu aliye mbele yangu is a good thinking person;Swali ni hili,"Kwako wewe maisha ni nini" Kwani uwa ninaamini maana ya maisha utofautiana kutoka mtu mmoja mpaka mwingine.Pia ninaamini,hakuna tunachotafuta maishani zaidi ya furaha na ni hili suala la kutafuta furaha ndilo linalosababisha maana ya maisha itofautiane kwa sie wanadamu kwani what makes us differs from one person to another.

Ulishawahi kwenda vijijini au ulishawahi kusafiri na njiani ukakuta kuna nyumba zipo katikati ya pori.Ukijaribu kulinganisha maisha ya sehemu hizi mbili na maisha unayoishi wewe uku mjini utahisi maisha ya sehemu hizo yatakuwa yanaboa;Naomba nikuhakikishie kuwa hata watu wa sehemu hizo nao uona maisha matamu sana kuzidi hata unavyofikiri.It's happiness we are looking after just ask yourself,are happy with the kind of life you are living