Topic za kugeneralize na kudhalilisha wanawake

Nonda · Jan 14, 2011

Tracy,
Pole na poleni...kwa bahati mbaya wanaume wengi tunaendeleza tabia mbovu ya wanaume wa kiafrika "halisi". Mwanamke kuonekana ni tambara bovu, zulia.
Lakini jamii zinabadilika, usichoke kuelimisha. Hata kama itachukua muda, watu watabadilika.

Lakini pia kuna msemo unaoendana na uhuru wa mawazo na kusema mtu akitakacho...unasema hivi...ukifungua mlango, sio hewa nzuri tu pekee iingiayo, bali pia mbu na nzi.

kwa hiyo wengine hawapimi kuwa wamezaliwa na mwanamke au ana mke,dada au binti. wanafyatua tu.
thread yeyote ikiandikwa vizuri, kwa mpangilio wa maneno ya staha na hoja basi kila mtu atajisikia kuchangia bila kuhisi kudhalilishwa.

geophysics · Jan 14, 2011

Ni kweli dada mawazo yako ni mazuri ila ukiandika maoni yako tumia lugha moja ili tusiojua kiingereza tuweze kukuelewa....Swangilish sisi walizaliwa tandale kwa mtogole kinatupiga chenga...ASANTE

Nyani Ngabu · Jan 14, 2011

Nyi wenyewe ndo mko mstari wa mbele kuendeleza hizo mada! Acheni kuzichangia muone kama hazitadoda. Lakini kila ziwekwapo hapa lazima mshiriki kikamilifu kuzichangia. Sasa hamuoni kama na nyinyi mnaendeleza na kuendekeza huo udhalilishaji?

Jitazameni kwanza kabla hamjarusha lawama...

Rose1980 · Jan 14, 2011

The Hunter said:
Zinakuwa hazijamlenga mtu specifical ila ukiona kama kilichosemwa kina kugusa, ukubali ukweli na pa kujirekebisha jirekebishe, pa kuignore ignore.
Wakati mwingine ukweli ni mchungu, sema hauna budi kusemwa.
Hata sisi tungependa kujua nyie mnatufikiria vipi sisi ili kusudi itusaidie tunapokuwa na nyie.

apana ..mtoa mada hajasema km znamgusa wala nini...pbm ni kudhalilisha.kumfanya mwanamke aonekane mbaya....
ptia post nying utaona ivyo ama sivyo akili yako utakuwa umeifunga kutooona ktu....
mnaboa ten sana...KUNA NYNGNE ZA KUELIMISHA,KUONYA LAKIN MAJORITY NI ZILE ZA KUDHALILISHA....kuwen na adbu kdg jaman

Rose1980 · Jan 14, 2011

Nonda said:
Tracy,
Pole na poleni...kwa bahati mbaya wanaume wengi tunaendeleza tabia mbovu ya wanaume wa kiafrika "halisi". Mwanamke kuonekana ni tambara bovu, zulia.
Lakini jamii zinabadilika, usichoke kuelimisha. Hata kama itachukua muda, watu watabadilika.

Lakini pia kuna msemo unaoendana na uhuru wa mawazo na kusema mtu akitakacho...unasema hivi...ukifungua mlango, sio hewa nzuri tu pekee iingiayo, bali pia mbu na nzi.

kwa hiyo wengine hawapimi kuwa wamezaliwa na mwanamke au ana mke,dada au binti. wanafyatua tu.
thread yeyote ikiandikwa vizuri, kwa mpangilio wa maneno ya staha na hoja basi kila mtu atajisikia kuchangia bila kuhisi kudhalilishwa.

asante

tracy · Jan 14, 2011

CPU said:
Sio usawa tu, nadhani hata wangepata usawa wangeubomoa wenyewe. Kuna topic imeanzishwa na mtu anaejiita MwanaMtama, inasomeka NTAMPATAJE BA MKWE WANGU??? Ndo utagundua wanawake bado wanajidhalilisha wenyewe sometimes

This is what i call generalization,akifanya kitu usiseme wote kaka!

Rose1980 · Jan 14, 2011

hashycool said:
wanawake bana....

wamefanyaje?

klorokwini · Jan 14, 2011

Rose1980 · Jan 14, 2011

yan tracy awa bnadamu uwa wanaboa sana na matusi yao..
si poa ata kdg....sjui wanakuwa wanafkiria nini..yaan akipigwa kibut uko basi kesho anakuja na thread yake yenye mapembe makubwa lakin theme ni katika kumdhalilisha mwanamke....
sjui wana matatizo awa bnadamu..

hashycool · Jan 14, 2011

klorokwini said:
duh!

kaka usigune tu hapo.....

Rose1980 · Jan 14, 2011

hashycool said:
mnapenda usawa halafu mnashindwa ku handle challenges

usawa wa matusi?
usawa wa dharau?
hapana .wanawake hatupo agressive kiivo kimaneno wala kimatendo...

tracy · Jan 14, 2011

Via Mobile said:
Nyi wenyewe ndo mko mstari wa mbele kuendeleza hizo mada! Acheni kuzichangia muone kama hazitadoda. Lakini kila ziwekwapo hapa lazima mshiriki kikamilifu kuzichangia. Sasa hamuoni kama na nyinyi mnaendeleza na kuendekeza huo udhalilishaji?

Jitazameni kwanza kabla hamjarusha lawama...

kaka,.katika kuchangia,je anasema akikipenda hicho kitu au?maana kuchangia sio tatizo..

klorokwini · Jan 14, 2011

hashycool said:
kaka usigune tu hapo.....

tunamsubiri rose1980 amalize chaji ndo tuanze kuchangia sredi.

Kimbweka · Jan 14, 2011

Rose1980 said:
yani tracy awa bnadamu uwa wanaboa sana na matusi yao..
si poa ata kdg....sjui wanakuwa wanafkiria nini..yaan akipigwa kibut uko basi kesho anakuja na thread yake yenye mapembe makubwa lakin theme ni katika kumdhalilisha mwanamke....
sjui wana matatizo awa bnadamu..

Hv wanawake ni watakatifu sana? Mbona wanatupigaga na madongo sana na kutudhalilisha na tupo poa tu.
Na wewe rose unasema hivyo?

Rose1980 · Jan 14, 2011

CPU said:
Sio usawa tu, nadhani hata wangepata usawa wangeubomoa wenyewe. Kuna topic imeanzishwa na mtu anaejiita MwanaMtama, inasomeka NTAMPATAJE BA MKWE WANGU??? Ndo utagundua wanawake bado wanajidhalilisha wenyewe sometimes

kaka usione mtu kajiiita maria basi ukajua ni mkike ...wengine ni wanaume.
uyo mwanamtama ni mkike kweli?

Rose1980 · Jan 14, 2011

Kimbweka said:
Hv wanawake ni watakatifu sana? Mbona wanatupigaga na madongo sana na kutudhalilisha na tupo poa tu.
Na wewe rose unasema hivyo?

nasema sana tu .tena nipo mstar wa mbele kupinga dharau izi.
umechokozwa na mwajuma basi kamchambe mwajuma wako na sai kuja apa jf na kuwachamba wanawake wooooooooooote dunian

tracy · Jan 14, 2011

Nonda said:
Tracy,
Pole na poleni...kwa bahati mbaya wanaume wengi tunaendeleza tabia mbovu ya wanaume wa kiafrika "halisi". Mwanamke kuonekana ni tambara bovu, zulia.
Lakini jamii zinabadilika, usichoke kuelimisha. Hata kama itachukua muda, watu watabadilika.

Lakini pia kuna msemo unaoendana na uhuru wa mawazo na kusema mtu akitakacho...unasema hivi...ukifungua mlango, sio hewa nzuri tu pekee iingiayo, bali pia mbu na nzi.

kwa hiyo wengine hawapimi kuwa wamezaliwa na mwanamke au ana mke,dada au binti. wanafyatua tu.
thread yeyote ikiandikwa vizuri, kwa mpangilio wa maneno ya staha na hoja basi kila mtu atajisikia kuchangia bila kuhisi kudhalilishwa.

Yani i better give you a:grouphug: bkoz all i meant ni mtu kua na hekima katika kutoa thread yake na kuacha kugeneralize maana unaeza kujikuta unamtukana ur mum bila kupenda!

Rose1980 · Jan 14, 2011

klorokwini said:
tunamsubiri rose1980 amalize chaji ndo tuanze kuchangia sredi.

😛out:😛out:
uchokoz tu umekujaaa ..

Nyani Ngabu · Jan 14, 2011

tracy said:
kaka,.katika kuchangia,je anasema akikipenda hicho kitu au?maana kuchangia sio tatizo..

Kuchangia mada uonayo ni ya kudhalilisha ni kuipa baraka. Tatizo linakuja kwenye ladha. Uonacho wewe ni cha kumdhalilisha mwanamke, mwanamke mwingine anaweza asione hivyo. Ndo ugumu wa jambo zima unapokuja. Maadili yanatofautiana baina ya mtu na mtu.

tracy · Jan 14, 2011

Rose1980 said:
yan tracy awa bnadamu uwa wanaboa sana na matusi yao..
si poa ata kdg....sjui wanakuwa wanafkiria nini..yaan akipigwa kibut uko basi kesho anakuja na thread yake yenye mapembe makubwa lakin theme ni katika kumdhalilisha mwanamke....
sjui wana matatizo awa bnadamu..

Asante Rose mi kinanikera kweli and some cross the limits za ethics kabysa!

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