Wanaume Madaktari bingwa wa kinamama

AshaDii · Jun 21, 2011

MwanajamiiOne said:
We Bidada natamani nikuone live tudiscuss hii mambo. Aksante sana umenifumbua macho katika mengi........... Ni mangi yako under culture hata sijui niframe vipi.... kuna swala la dini ( amballo pia ni elelment ya culture).........Tanzania kama sikosei elimu au uelewa wa umuhimu wa maternal health mwanamke anaupata pale anapokuwa mjamzito!! yaani anapokwenda antenatal clinic kwa mara ya kwanza ndo huanza ku'hubiriwa' umuhimu wake kwa yeye na mwanae,,,,,,,tunasahau kuwa kuna circumstances nyingine ambazo hiyo'mara ya kwanza' inakuwa hindered....mano binti ambaye amepata ujauzito katika umri mdogo..jamii inamcondemn.........anaona aibu anajificha mwisho wa siku 'mara yake ya kwanza' inakuwa siku ya kujifungua ...sasa kama kuna tatizo litachelewa kuwa dictected during early times!Not only that lakini pia kuna zile sehemu (hasa vijijini) ambako wazee i.e. wamama watu wazima ndio wanaaminika kuwa na 'elimu' juu ya uzazi, mama anapata shida anaambiwa ni kawaida, au mimba si ugonjwa jikaze......hadi hali inapokuwa mbaya ndio anakiri kuwa kashindwa....na hawa haijalishi kama zahanati iko jirani au lah! Inasikitisha kusema ukweli..........

Nakumbuka nilikuwa naongea na mdada mmoja wa kihaya akanambia kuwa kimila mama mjamzito akiumwa na uchungu kama ndani ya nyumba kabaki na Baba mker hawezimwambia!! au akimwambia Baba mkwe hawezimsaidia..........sasa hali kama hii inawezaleta maafa!

Dearest hamu ya kukuona ni mutual... post yako in maternal health na related issues has intensified that! Napenda discussions na mtu muelewa ili niongeze knowledge na kupata a new perspective thus i do than you too... Uelewa wako wa lini mtu anapata elimu kuhusu mambo yahusuyo mimba ni sawa kabisa... mpaka upate mimba - what a laugh! but saddening... Mambo mengi yanafanya wanawake kupata mimba umri mdogo; kushawishiwa na watu wazima/walimu/marafiki and in most cases kubakwa.. some hata na baba zao... (wanaume wengine mabedhuri!!!! was** kabisaa!!)... Huyu binti mdogo anapopata mimba anaona aibu, anahukumiwa na kusimangwa sometimes hata na immediate families.... Dah! sometimes i hate this topic! But all in all nakubali yoote uloongea..

Mimi nafikiri hio ya wahaya ni in most cases dear... katika kabila langu (sorry sitataja...) mwanamke harusiwi kuonana face to face na baba mkwe kabisa... ukimuona anakuja geuza njia na kimbia... kama ni chocho unachuchumaa kuface ukuta alafu unajigubika na kitenge mwili mzima... Khaaa!

AshaDii · Jun 21, 2011

Mbu said:
...hivi nyieee?!....mmefungua semina hapa? lol!

ha ha ha... wewe click tu save for future reference....

MwanajamiiOne · Jun 21, 2011

Mbu said:
...hivi nyieee?!....mmefungua semina hapa? lol!

Mbu we acha tu mie hii makitu inaniumiza sana natamani nijue, na kujua zaidi...............

Gagurito · Jun 21, 2011

Aisha Adam said:
Heheeee! hayo mambo yapo sanaMadoctor wana mambo kuna dada yangu mimba iliharibika kaenda kusafishwa hospital doctor wakumsafisha alikuwa ni wa kiume alivyomaliza kumsafisha akamwambia kuwa ana k nzuri, je huyo doctor alikuwa na maana gani kusema hivyo?

Huyo dr. Alikuwa anamwomba mchezo indirectly, so dada alimpa mchezo au? wanawake sometimes wanatia huruma, kimzaha dr anapewa mzigo!

Gagurito · Jun 21, 2011

Ashadii said:
ha ha ha... wewe click tu save for future reference....

Teh! MBU anadhan twacheza baikoko!

MwanajamiiOne · Jun 21, 2011

Ashadii said:
Dearest hamu ya kukuona ni mutual... post yako in maternal health na related issues has intensified that! Napenda discussions na mtu muelewa ili niongeze knowledge na kupata a new perspective thus i do than you too... Uelewa wako wa lini mtu anapata elimu kuhusu mambo yahusuyo mimba ni sawa kabisa... mpaka upate mimba - what a laugh! but saddening... Mambo mengi yanafanya wanawake kupata mimba umri mdogo; kushawishiwa na watu wazima/walimu/marafiki and in most cases kubakwa.. some hata na baba zao... (wanaume wengine mabedhuri!!!! was** kabisaa!!)... Huyu binti mdogo anapopata mimba anaona aibu, anahukumiwa na kusimangwa sometimes hata na immediate families.... Dah! sometimes i hate this topic! But all in all nakubali yoote uloongea..

Mimi nafikiri hio ya wahaya ni in most cases dear... katika kabila langu (sorry sitataja...) mwanamke harusiwi kuonana face to face na baba mkwe kabisa... ukimuona anakuja geuza njia na kimbia... kama ni chocho unachuchumaa kuface ukuta alafu unajigubika na kitenge mwili mzima... Khaaa!

Hahahaha Aishadii loh ile ya ukikutana naye barabarani vuka barabara uende upande wa pili ndo usalimie!! sasa hapo assume mko naye nyumbani nawe uchungu umekukamata (Ingawa siujui unaumaje but naamini unauma) inakuwaje?..........anyway mydia aksante kwa kunipa 'food for thought' in case of any thing naomba usinichoke maana ntakuja tena na tena................king'ang'anizi mie!

Gagurito · Jun 21, 2011

Mbu said:
...utani mbali,....kiukweli kuna madaktari wachache sana Gynecologist wakike nchini, naamini hata nje ya nchi.Unapo i frame akili yako kwamba mjamzito ni sawa na ugonjwa, nadhani haitokuwa busara kuchagua mganga.Kwenye ujauzito kuna mengi, ...complications wakati wa kujifungua nazo ni nyingi...kuna breech, kuna kifafa cha mimba,na mengine mengi...Kwahili la ujauzito hakuna jinsi, nitapanga foleni tu kwa Doctor Shaffiq pale Aga Khan, amalize ujuzi wake apendavyo.Upande wa pili wa shilingi,....kina baba siku hizi prostate cancer ni mojawapo ya gonjwa lililoshika kasi!Ili dakitari aweze kupima enlargement ya hiyo prostate, inabidi aingize kidole kwenye nanihii....mnh!...Kwakweli yataka moyo jamani, mungu atuepushilie mbali!

Mkuu kuna madaktari bongo wapuuzi kweli, wao kuwa madaktari bingwa wa hao wanawake na watoto wameishajiona kuwa wanakila sababu ya kudhalilisha wake za watu, sio watunza siri kabisa! hayo mambo ya kuingiza vidole na kupima ndio sitaku kuyasikia. I wish ningekua daktari wa magonjwa sugu ya wanawake nifaidi..

AshaDii · Jun 21, 2011

MwanajamiiOne said:
Hahahaha Aishadii loh ile ya ukikutana naye barabarani vuka barabara uende upande wa pili ndo usalimie!! sasa hapo assume mko naye nyumbani nawe uchungu umekukamata (Ingawa siujui unaumaje but naamini unauma) inakuwaje?..........anyway mydia aksante kwa kunipa 'food for thought' in case of any thing naomba usinichoke maana ntakuja tena na tena................king'ang'anizi mie!

ha ha ha... imagination tu peke yake is killing me na ni kabila langu! Ndo maana naona wanang'ang'ania binti ukajifungue kwenu kuepuka hizi problems ambazo ukiangalia hazina hata misingi... ingawa wengine wamerahisha... MJ1 Ushawahi sikia lile kabila ambalo baba unamuonja kwanza mwali ndo anakabidhiwa kwa kijana....lol.. Hizi cultures hizi!

The bolded purple MJ1... 100% My thot hivyo nimefurahi ni wazi hatutochokana....lol

AshaDii · Jun 21, 2011

Gagurito said:
Teh! MBU anadhan twacheza baikoko!

Gagurito acha ukorofi na endelea kuruka ruka hapo katika Avatar yako...lol

Mbu · Jun 21, 2011

Gagurito said:
Mkuu kuna madaktari bongo wapuuzi kweli, wao kuwa madaktari bingwa wa hao wanawake na watoto wameishajiona kuwa wanakila sababu ya kudhalilisha wake za watu, sio watunza siri kabisa! hayo mambo ya kuingiza vidole na kupima ndio sitaku kuyasikia. I wish ningekua daktari wa magonjwa sugu ya wanawake nifaidi..

excitement ni miezi ya mwanzo darasani, ukishaingia kwenye field hata nyama utasamehe kwanza.
Kumbuka, utaokuwa unakutana nao ni wagonjwa...wenye mimba ni sehemu tu ya wagonjwa wake.

Ashadii said:
ha ha ha... imagination tu peke yake is killing me na ni kabila langu! Ndo maana naona wanang'ang'ania binti ukajifungue kwenu kuepuka hizi problems ambazo ukiangalia hazina hata misingi... ingawa wengine wamerahisha... MJ1 Ushawahi sikia lile kabila ambalo baba unamuonja kwanza mwali ndo anakabidhiwa kwa kijana....lol.. Hizi cultures hizi!

The bolded purple MJ1... 100% My thot hivyo nimefurahi ni wazi hatutochokana....lol

Tanzania hii hii? hebu acha maskhara bana...nilidhani Aspirin anatania!
kabila gani hilo?

AshaDii · Jun 21, 2011

Mbu said:
Tanzania hii hii? hebu acha maskhara bana...nilidhani Aspirin anatania!
kabila gani hilo?

Mbu am telling you kuna vituko vya makabila hapa Tz mpaka waweza kataa...
Sema sababu hua nina interest na hizo issues na have done some studies
iko so revealing.... naomba tu umuone Asprin akutajie....lol

nyumba kubwa · Jun 21, 2011

Dr.Shaffiq kasoma na sister yangu na aliwahi kumzalisha mtoto mmoja. Kazi kweli kweli. Anasema alivyoenda hospital hakujua kuwa atakutana na Dr. anayemjua. Those days Shaffiq ndio alikuwa anaanza anza kazi. Ningekuwa mimi ningegeuza...class mate!

Mbu said:
...utani mbali,....kiukweli kuna madaktari wachache sana Gynecologist wakike nchini, naamini hata nje ya nchi.
Unapo i frame akili yako kwamba mjamzito ni sawa na ugonjwa, nadhani haitokuwa busara kuchagua mganga.
Kwenye ujauzito kuna mengi, ...complications wakati wa kujifungua nazo ni nyingi...kuna breech, kuna kifafa cha mimba,
na mengine mengi...

Kwahili la ujauzito hakuna jinsi, nitapanga foleni tu kwa Doctor Shaffiq pale Aga Khan, amalize ujuzi wake apendavyo.
Upande wa pili wa shilingi,....kina baba siku hizi prostate cancer ni mojawapo ya gonjwa lililoshika kasi!
Ili dakitari aweze kupima enlargement ya hiyo prostate, inabidi aingize kidole kwenye nanihii....mnh!...

Kwakweli yataka moyo jamani, mungu atuepushilie mbali!

Gagurito · Jun 21, 2011

Ashadii said:
Mbu am telling you kuna vituko vya makabila hapa Tz mpaka waweza kataa...Sema sababu hua nina interest na hizo issues na have done some studiesiko so revealing.... naomba tu umuone Asprin akutajie....lol

Vituko gani bhaaana vya hayo makabila? Mwenzio MBU washaanza ning'ata, ngoja niweke neti! Madaktari noumer!

Gagurito · Jun 21, 2011

nyumba kubwa said:
Dr.Shaffiq kasoma na sister yangu na aliwahi kumzalisha mtoto mmoja. Kazi kweli kweli. Anasema alivyoenda hospital hakujua kuwa atakutana na Dr. anayemjua. Those days Shaffiq ndio alikuwa anaanza anza kazi. Ningekuwa mimi ningegeuza...class mate!

Duh! Noma ipo hapa aisee duh!

Mbu · Jun 21, 2011

Ashadii said:
Mbu am telling you kuna vituko vya makabila hapa Tz mpaka waweza kataa...
Sema sababu hua nina interest na hizo issues na have done some studies
iko so revealing.... naomba tu umuone Asprin akutajie....lol

lol!...Aspirin anamuita Mwj1 ni mjuukuu wake...ngoja tu niishie hapo na maswali yangu.

nyumba kubwa said:
Dr.Shaffiq kasoma na sister yangu na aliwahi kumzalisha mtoto mmoja. Kazi kweli kweli. Anasema alivyoenda hospital hakujua kuwa atakutana na Dr. anayemjua. Those days Shaffiq ndio alikuwa anaanza anza kazi. Ningekuwa mimi ningegeuza...class mate!

...loh,...haya sasa!...kuna mama mmoja alikuwa na specialist wake hayo mambo ya kina mama, siku ya siku kaja kugundua
huyo dakitari ni mkwewe mtarajiwa. Sijui nani afiche sura yake hapo, ....baba mkwe mnh!

AshaDii · Jun 21, 2011

Gagurito said:
Vituko gani bhaaana vya hayo makabila? Mwenzio MBU washaanza ning'ata, ngoja niweke neti! Madaktari noumer!

Umeona kua uko kuruka ruka eeeh....lol

AshaDii · Jun 21, 2011

Mbu said:
lol!...Aspirin anamuita Mwj1 ni mjuukuu wake...ngoja tu niishie hapo na maswali yangu.

Siamini kua we are to have a lot of things in common na MJ1... Kumbe ni mjukuu wa Asprin...
Mimi nime apply ujukuu bado nipo katika interview stage (via mjukuu wake of coz) lol

MwanajamiiOne · Jun 21, 2011

Mbu said:
...utani mbali,....kiukweli kuna madaktari wachache sana Gynecologist wakike nchini, naamini hata nje ya nchi.
Unapo i frame akili yako kwamba mjamzito ni sawa na ugonjwa, nadhani haitokuwa busara kuchagua mganga.
Kwenye ujauzito kuna mengi, ...complications wakati wa kujifungua nazo ni nyingi...kuna breech, kuna kifafa cha mimba,
na mengine mengi...

Kwahili la ujauzito hakuna jinsi, nitapanga foleni tu kwa Doctor Shaffiq pale Aga Khan, amalize ujuzi wake apendavyo.
Upande wa pili wa shilingi,....kina baba siku hizi prostate cancer ni mojawapo ya gonjwa lililoshika kasi!
Ili dakitari aweze kupima enlargement ya hiyo prostate, inabidi aingize kidole kwenye nanihii....mnh!...

Kwakweli yataka moyo jamani, mungu atuepushilie mbali!

Tatizo liko hapo mydia...kila ukicha tunaimbiwa kuwa ujauzito/mimba si ugonjwa..... sie tu wa mjini twaambiwa hivyo sembuse wa vijijini? Sasa unapojisikia'ndivyo sivyo' na unajua ukienda hospital wewe uta'ingizwa' mkono na daktari wa kiume ndio kwanzaaaaa unazidi kuamini kuwa mimba si ugonjwa.unavumilia kumbe tatizo linazidi kukomaa na mwisho linakuwa kubwa....

Mimi wakati wangu sio siri nilikuwa najiuliza .hivi huyu Shaffiq ni vije, mbona han'pimi'?? na si kuwa nlikuwa naogopa la hasha nilihisi somethong is not right mbona zile 'hadithi' nlizokuwa nasimuliwa sizioni?? na nilikuwa namtwanga ,mawali mpaka akawa ananifukuza ofisini kwake....... na ninashukuru MUNGU kuwa maswali yangu yaklinisaidia kwani bila kwayo nahisi ningekuwa naongea mengine hapa..........so mpaka leo nashangaa kwa nini sikuwahi ku'pimwa'.

MwanajamiiOne · Jun 21, 2011

Mbu said:
lol!...Aspirin anamuita Mwj1 ni mjuukuu wake...ngoja tu niishie hapo na maswali yangu.

...loh,...haya sasa!...kuna mama mmoja alikuwa na specialist wake hayo mambo ya kina mama, siku ya siku kaja kugundua
huyo dakitari ni mkwewe mtarajiwa. Sijui nani afiche sura yake hapo, ....baba mkwe mnh!

Hapana bana Babu yangu si wa hivyo.....ah!! Amestaarabika siku zile alikuwa tu akurusha roho aone mwanaume umesimamaje!!

Ashadii said:
Siamini kua we are to have a lot of things in common na MJ1... Kumbe ni mjukuu wa Asprin...
Mimi nime apply ujukuu bado nipo katika interview stage (via mjukuu wake of coz) lol

Ahahahahah Ashadii wewee.........eti umeomba ujukuu, mie mwenzio nmenyeng'wanywa (hapa tuongee kwa sauti ya chini mwaya wachumba wasijesikia) Babu anataifisha lol......anakaba huyoo anataka wajukuu zake waolewe na kizinda na tena akikague yeye kuwa kipo!!

Mbu · Jun 21, 2011

MwanajamiiOne said:
Tatizo liko hapo mydia...kila ukicha tunaimbiwa kuwa ujauzito/mimba si ugonjwa..... sie tu wa mjini twaambiwa hivyo sembuse wa vijijini? Sasa unapojisikia'ndivyo sivyo' na unajua ukienda hospital wewe uta'ingizwa' mkono na daktari wa kiume ndio kwanzaaaaa unazidi kuamini kuwa mimba si ugonjwa.unavumilia kumbe tatizo linazidi kukomaa na mwisho linakuwa kubwa....

Mimi wakati wangu sio siri nilikuwa najiuliza .hivi huyu Shaffiq ni vije, mbona han'pimi'?? na si kuwa nlikuwa naogopa la hasha nilihisi somethong is not right mbona zile 'hadithi' nlizokuwa nasimuliwa sizioni?? na nilikuwa namtwanga ,mawali mpaka akawa ananifukuza ofisini kwake....... na ninashukuru MUNGU kuwa maswali yangu yaklinisaidia kwani bila kwayo nahisi ningekuwa naongea mengine hapa..........so mpaka leo nashangaa kwa nini sikuwahi ku'pimwa'.

....ha ha ha, eti han'pimi?...kuna wengine raha yao waende kwa Gynecologist 'wakapimwe tu' japo hawaumwi...
waume wasinune kwanini?

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