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I recently sent a post "NATAFUTA MCHUMBA" and i got a few ''interested'' ladies, some were above the age limit, others were a match. Of course i expected to get a good number of ladies but i noticed something:

: Even those who are seriously looking for partners, really get scared to 'PM' coz they see how 'crooked' most 'JF men' can be.
:I was surprised to read from one lady, telling me to meet her coz she was ''MISSING" me, how on earth do you miss me, you don't even know me.....Are you in for a serious searching or you are looking for a ''kick n rush'', ''one night stand''

Again, i am looking for a decent woman.
Let's use this forum for the best

Thanx in advance

I think the reason people are afraid is because people like you disclose whats suppose to be private in public its a Private Message myfriend not public (what happens in private should stay private)..,

About the missing part maybe the person liked the time you spent chatting and wanted to take it to another level, or maybe the word miss nowdays has no meaning..... whatever the case it seems you are the one wasting peoples time

You got what you deserve!

Your were not serious thats why you don know how serious people are!

i miss you...
now go hang yourself lol :shut-mouth:

wewe ni who are you kwani...

Job true true ...sosi BADILI TABIA

Mmmh... Malalamiko mbona mengi jamani?

Mnatukatisha tamaa ambao tulikuwa tunataka kutoa mabandiko yetu ya kutafuta wenza..!!

You are missing the point and presumably your reasoning is below par!

:The reason i disclosed PM to the public (and you should know that i didn't specify the person) was to alert the public on how a few of us see "online dating" as an awkward way of looking for a spouse, instead they use it as a platform to humiliate themselves

: I can't even imagine how you'd grant consent with the so called missing ''thing''. You never exchange a few messages with someone and later you tell them "i miss you" that shows how insensitive and ''probably' desperate you are!
Get your facts right before you challenge me

C'mon....
try to be a little constructive next time

imaney said:

i miss you...
now go hang yourself lol :shut-mouth:

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Wewe usikate tamaa, wapo watu wako serious, tena sana tu..ni bahati ya mtu

Neylu said:

Mmmh... Malalamiko mbona mengi jamani?

Mnatukatisha tamaa ambao tulikuwa tunataka kutoa mabandiko yetu ya kutafuta wenza..!!

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sun wu said:

I think the reason people are afraid is because people like you disclose whats suppose to be private in public its a Private Message myfriend not public (what happens in private should stay private)..,

About the missing part maybe the person liked the time you spent chatting and wanted to take it to another level, or maybe the word miss nowdays has no meaning..... whatever the case it seems you are the one wasting peoples time

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You are missing the point and presumably your reasoning is below par!

:The reason i disclosed PM to the public (and you should know that i didn't specify the person) was to alert the public on how a few of us see "online dating" as an awkward way of looking for a spouse, instead they use it as a platform to humiliate themselves

: I can't even imagine how you'd grant consent with the so called missing ''thing''. You never exchange a few messages with someone and later you tell them "i miss you" that shows how insensitive and ''probably' desperate you are!
Get your facts right before you challenge me

tatizo lenu vijana ni kwamba mnaingia kwenye mitandao ya jamii and u expect to find only like minded people...huo ni ujinga...wapo watu wenye mitazamo tofauti

Perils of looking for a 'wife' to be on line is as common as u didnt expect, the 'missing' issue here is neither physical nor known rather pschological. so dont go churching while u are secular. This is profoundly obvious! i learnt something 'u r looking for PRETENDERS.

gakato said:

Perils of looking for a 'wife' to be on line is as common as u didnt expect, the 'missing' issue here is neither physical nor known rather pschological. so dont go churching while u are secular. This is profoundly obvious! i learnt something 'u r looking for PRETENDERS.

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Oh, here we go again))
I still disagree with missing smb juz coz of 2-3 exchanged msg. U are guys who go around telling women "nakupenda" on the first time, how do you love smb when you've seen them once or twice, or perhaps ''nakupenda doesn't mean to love"

Try again next time.

Eli79 said:

Oh, here we go again))
I still disagree with missing smb juz coz of 2-3 exchanged msg. U are guys who go around telling women "nakupenda" on the first time, how do you love smb when you've seen them once or twice, or perhaps ''nakupenda doesn't mean to love"

Try again next time.

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the problem is that you want a decent woman just 'online'! that's not easy my friend! since you were at the age of starting knowing women up to now you were supposed to have ear-marked a woman who would become your wife! another thing is that, women now are digital that's why some of them send you a msg 'miss you'! but you are still analogical to cope with digital women!

Eli79 said:

I recently sent a post "NATAFUTA MCHUMBA" and i got a few ''interested'' ladies, some were above the age limit, others were a match. Of course i expected to get a good number of ladies but i noticed something:

: Even those who are seriously looking for partners, really get scared to 'PM' coz they see how 'crooked' most 'JF men' can be.
:I was surprised to read from one lady, telling me to meet her coz she was ''MISSING" me, how on earth do you miss me, you don't even know me.....Are you in for a serious searching or you are looking for a ''kick n rush'', ''one night stand''

Again, i am looking for a decent woman.
Let's use this forum for the best

Thanx in advance

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How can the ladies take you serious if you yourself is not?

You are not decent, why do you want a decent lady?
And the first thread was a research? You want the real thing no?
Get serious basi. Watu hawapo hapa kupoteza muda!

Eli79 said:

Of course i expected to get a good number of ladies but i noticed something:


Again, i am looking for a decent woman.
Let's use this forum for the best

Thanx in advance

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wagaba said:

Kiswahili jamani mbona mnatuacha mbali na hili gumzo!

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Kumbe tuko wengi..!! Mi ngoja nikatafute mkalimani.

Eli79 said:

You are missing the point and presumably your reasoning is below par!

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Well I might have missed the point, but then again maybe the point wasn't there..., not that it was missed

My reasoning being below par, maybe and remember this is a public forum you meet with different people if your reasoning is far beyond most us maybe your in the wrong forum, and you need to use logic which most can follow (unless you want to intermingle with yourself)

:The reason i disclosed PM to the public (and you should know that i didn't specify the person) was to alert the public on how a few of us see "online dating" as an awkward way of looking for a spouse, instead they use it as a platform to humiliate themselves

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The few of you who find online dating awkward should not spoil it for the many/few or find it acceptable.., you don't need to disclose the name but the mere issue of saying what happened there might hinder the tomorrow daters to be afraid to say what they might say for the fear of being humiliated of what they said to be disclosed.

: I can't even imagine how you'd grant consent with the so called missing ''thing''. You never exchange a few messages with someone and later you tell them "i miss you" that shows how insensitive and ''probably' desperate you are!
Get your facts right before you challenge me

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What does a word miss mean ?, can't you exchange a few messages and clicked and want to have some more exchanging and hence miss someone ?, Do people always say something to mean it literally ?, If that someone wants you to feel better can't he/she say something just to cheer you up ?, If she/he calls you Baby or Mine (does it literally mean you are a baby)?

She/He might be insensitive and might be desperate.., but does it mean he/she should not find a partner