The Finest
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- Jul 14, 2010
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You met an incredible woman, and you really hit it off at the beginning. But the more time you spent with her, the less interested she became...but the MORE interested you became.You could feel the balance of power shifting, but there was nothing you could do about it. Eventually she just stopped seeing you, but she never explained why in a way that made any sense...
You were seeing a woman for several months, maybe even a year or so. Everything seemed fine. But then one day she came to you and said, "I don't know how i feel anymore, and I just need sometime ALONE... sometime to 'find myself'... it's not YOU, it's ME"...but, her time "alone" turned into her seeing some other guy that didn't treat her half as well as you did.
THE PROBLEM ISN'T WHAT YOU THINK
Most guys naturally assume that the woman is leaving them because he's not being "nice" enough, or he's not giving her what she wants, or he's not being a good boyfriend..etc
WHY ATTRACTION IS SO IMPORTANT
A woman will say and do all kinds of things OTHER than telling you that this is the problem. Women have all these ideas in their heads, like "I can't tell him how I REALLY feel because I don't want to hurt his feelings" and "I can't tell him what's going on because I don't want to emasculate him" and "It's just easier if I just go away"
The absolute most important prevention method is an understanding of female psychology and ATTRACTION.
1.Women are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES. Women don't feel ATTRACTION to weak men sure if you chase a woman for long enough, and buy her enough things, she may "fall" for you. But in that case it's not because she feels ATTRACTION for you it's because she feels AFFECTION for you, and she confuses it with ATTRACTION.
2.Don't be PREDICTABLE. If a woman can guess what you're going to do or say, you're being predictable, if she can't guess what you're going to do or say, she'll always be wondering, women are much better at predicting behavior than men
3.Don't be BORING, when you are so predictable that NOTHING is new or different, then you are officially BORING, boring is also lack of adventure, passion, energy, humor and ATTRACTION.
Have a blessed weekend.
TF.
You were seeing a woman for several months, maybe even a year or so. Everything seemed fine. But then one day she came to you and said, "I don't know how i feel anymore, and I just need sometime ALONE... sometime to 'find myself'... it's not YOU, it's ME"...but, her time "alone" turned into her seeing some other guy that didn't treat her half as well as you did.
THE PROBLEM ISN'T WHAT YOU THINK
Most guys naturally assume that the woman is leaving them because he's not being "nice" enough, or he's not giving her what she wants, or he's not being a good boyfriend..etc
WHY ATTRACTION IS SO IMPORTANT
A woman will say and do all kinds of things OTHER than telling you that this is the problem. Women have all these ideas in their heads, like "I can't tell him how I REALLY feel because I don't want to hurt his feelings" and "I can't tell him what's going on because I don't want to emasculate him" and "It's just easier if I just go away"
The absolute most important prevention method is an understanding of female psychology and ATTRACTION.
1.Women are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES. Women don't feel ATTRACTION to weak men sure if you chase a woman for long enough, and buy her enough things, she may "fall" for you. But in that case it's not because she feels ATTRACTION for you it's because she feels AFFECTION for you, and she confuses it with ATTRACTION.
2.Don't be PREDICTABLE. If a woman can guess what you're going to do or say, you're being predictable, if she can't guess what you're going to do or say, she'll always be wondering, women are much better at predicting behavior than men
3.Don't be BORING, when you are so predictable that NOTHING is new or different, then you are officially BORING, boring is also lack of adventure, passion, energy, humor and ATTRACTION.
Have a blessed weekend.
TF.