Why you cant get over some relationships?

I am wondering, no matter how many relationships you might have in your love life, there is one which you never get over. What is the cause of this? Of course the bad side of it is that it contributes alot in the breakup of other relationships in your string.

That is the problem of having many relationships! Do you know the effect of getting taste from different varieties? Some of the are very good, others moderate, and others poor. You'll forget poor and moderate tastes, but you'll never forget the very good taste!

Every individual is unique and it is rare to get an equal but once you get and
don't get it in your mind that s/he is the one then you've gat caught!

Thank you guys, but you know in most cases the unforgettable ones aren't lasting long, could this be the reason to why its difficult to get over them?

on myside, its different. i am presesently in love and i had dated and played with plenty of bitches, i dont have someone to call unforgettable, no one!! the one i have now, fantastic, sweet and marvelous

Hazole, thats great but you know its not like the unforgettable must be the first. Wel maybe the one you are in now could be the one.

hii thread ni nzuri mno
naona tatizo lugha watu wameiogopa...

Musimo jr said:

I am wondering, no matter how many relationships you might have in your love life, there is one which you never get over. What is the cause of this? Of course the bad side of it is that it contributes alot in the breakup of other relationships in your string.

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Musimo jr
I cant speak for others, but my reason for getting hung on one of my past relationship i.e my ex, has a lot to do with age and/or him being my first love. Unbeknownst to me, at the beginning love used to be a matter of heart and not my head!??.................... Ila unlike you, this encounter made me much stronger and wiser, and thus plays/played no part in break of my subsequent relationships

The Boss said:

hii thread ni nzuri mnonaona tatizo lugha watu wameiogopa...

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hahahaha! Na tumeiogopa kweli. Ngoja nitafte dictionary.

Husninyo said:

hahahaha! Na tumeiogopa kweli. Ngoja nitafte dictionary.

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na google iwe karibu lol

Okay guys i wil "Dictionary" it to kiswahili then:
Kwanini inakuwa vigumu kusahau baadhi ya mahusiano tuliyowahi kuwa nayo hata baada ya kuwa na mahusiano mengine baada yake.
Hope i did wel huh!

HAZOLE said:

on myside, its different. i am presesently in love and i had dated and played with plenty of bitches, i dont have someone to call unforgettable, no one!! the one i have now, fantastic, sweet and marvelous

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Hujakutana na ubavu wako!

weeh chapia tu, mbona kuna michapio kibao! unakuwa kama mzungu anayeongea kiswahili,lol!

Husninyo said:

hahahaha! Na tumeiogopa kweli. Ngoja nitafte dictionary.

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yaani umei-kamusi,lol!tatizo letu we just follow our hearts, we dont lead them! na vitabu vya dini vinasema 'chunga sana moyo wako'

Musimo jr said:

Okay guys i wil "Dictionary" it to kiswahili then:Kwanini inakuwa vigumu kusahau baadhi ya mahusiano tuliyowahi kuwa nayo hata baada ya kuwa na mahusiano mengine baada yake.Hope i did wel huh!

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I am wondering, no matter how many relationships you might have in your love life, there is one which you never get over. What is the cause of this? Of course the bad side of it is that it contributes alot in the breakup of other relationships in your string.

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Ukiona uko hivyo basi ujue ya kuwa umeelemewa................n a unajaribu kulinganisha............................ni dalili ya kuwa unaishi kwa kusadikika au kufikirika...............................delusional may be the right banter..............................

let bygones be bygones........................usikubali uwe mtumwa wa mambo za kale.............

Musimo jr
I cant speak for others, but my reason for getting hung on one of my past relationship i.e my ex, has a lot to do with age and/or him being my first love. Unbeknownst to me, at the beginning love used to be a matter of heart and not my head!??.................... Ila unlike you, this encounter made me much stronger and wiser, and thus plays/played no part in break of my subsequent relationships

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when you are strong you are weak and vice versa.....................................unafikiri you got stronger but the reality is you got weaker..............but possibly less judgmental................

Thank you guys, but you know in most cases the unforgettable ones aren't lasting long, could this be the reason to why its difficult to get over them?

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mahusiano ya muda mfupi ni rahisi kuyapa heko kwa sababu hayana kero......na hivyo ni rahisi kuyapa maksi nyingi.....................kumbe haya hayo mahusiano yangelikuwa ya muda merfu ungeliyakinai..............

Hahahahahaaa thats why i cant be an interpreter kazi za watu hizo jamani LOL!

Nimekusoma hapa but the prob is there others which accept to be bygone, but theres one which no matter how dark color you use to paint over it haifutiki ndo inazidi kung'aaaaaaa

Mh; I have forgotten all of them; Unfortunately they still chase me-and for some girls its more than 10+years-what is wrong with them?