BAK
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- Feb 11, 2007
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Mchongoma,
Mnajisikiaje wanaume mnapoenda nyumba ndogo na kugeuzwa akili mpaka mnafanya vitu vya hovyo hovyo - mwanaume mtu mzima? Ndio mnadai mapenzi?
Ila twende mbele na kurudi nyuma, jamani kuna wakinababa wanakera na wakinamama hali kadhalika, nyumbani hakukaliki, unajitafutia vi trip vya hapa na pale na mtu akisafiri inakuwa eeuuh!
once beaten twice shy .... wahalalishe tu ndoa ya mkataba jamani .. haya mambo for life ni kama kufungana kamba tu
Mkuu wangu Kitila,Duh! Kwani kuna mtu amekushikia bango uendelee kubaki huko. Wewe ukishachoka anza. Live your life man, not other people's! Haya mambo ya kuishi kwa kujaribu kuwaridhisha watu wengine hata kama wewe huridhika ndio yanazaa nyumba ndogo kwenye jamii yetu-and consequently, it is partly the reason why HIV/AIDS has remained with us for so long!
Duh! Kwani kuna mtu amekushikia bango uendelee kubaki huko. Wewe ukishachoka anza. Live your life man, not other people's! Haya mambo ya kuishi kwa kujaribu kuwaridhisha watu wengine hata kama wewe huridhika ndio yanazaa nyumba ndogo kwenye jamii yetu-and consequently, it is partly the reason why HIV/AIDS has remained with us for so long!
Naomba ufafanue vitu vya hovyo hovyo 🙂 ni vipi?
BAK, vitu vya hovyohovyo ni vile vyote ambavyo huwezi kumfanyia nyumbani mke wako, kuanzia sitting room hadi chumbani. Na benki pia..... Pia vile ambavyo wanao wakikuona unafanya watakucheka.
i often ask,....who is this bazazi lying next to me?????????
it makes me sick
A professor once said that the reason why women rejoice greatly during their weddings while the men keep a straight faces was because, the woman feels like:"oh, at last I have nailed him!" and the man laments:"Oh, what a fool I have been; trouble was on its own and I went to buy it for myself, now I'm no longer going to be free!"
The question is:
Do you sometimes wish you weren't married or that your marital status could be suspended even for just a few hours? Please sincere answers will be appreciated.
In most cases you don't regret marrying but the person you have married to. Hypothetically, if all married men could be given a chance to re-marry, I can bet, less than 5% would re-marry their current wives. Nadhani sababu kubwa ni kwamba binaadamu is so dynamic. Tastes zinabadilika haraka sana. Criteria zilizokuwa muhimu at the time you were making a decision to get married (by then may be you were probably only around 30) are now no longer important. Pengine sura ilikuwa kigezo kikubwa lakini once you grow up you find other factors are probably more important than the face (which definetely get worse as the woman ages)!
Lakini yote kwa yote, kukaa ndani ya ndoa kunahitaji uvumilivu, ustahilimilivu and busara ya hali ya juu. La sivyo mwanaume utaishia kuwa na nyumba ndogo lukuki!
This is interesting!ha ha ha!
What if women were to re-marry? Probably 0% would even think of marrying their current! kidn!On a serious note... married life is like a rollercoaster..if not dramma.at times you are so happy and you feel like this is what life should be.There are times when you feel like " i wish i wasnt married"...Suala la nyumba ndogo au vivuli n.k whatever name you can give them ni personal choice kutegemeana na mtu unataka nini katika maisha.Cha msingi ni kuwa na awareness kwamba married life is like a plant that needs to be taken care of constantly...nyweshea, palilia, prune,spray insecticides and enjoy the beauty!
This is interesting!ha ha ha!
What if women were to re-marry? Probably 0% would even think of marrying their current! kidn!
On a serious note... married life is like a rollercoaster..if not dramma.at times you are so happy and you feel like this is what life should be.There are times when you feel like " i wish i wasnt married"...Suala la nyumba ndogo au vivuli n.k whatever name you can give them ni personal choice kutegemeana na mtu unataka nini katika maisha.Cha msingi ni kuwa na awareness kwamba married life is like a plant that needs to be taken care of constantly...nyweshea, palilia, prune,spray insecticides and enjoy the beauty!
Jibu la swali hili ni rahisi sana. Maisha ya binadamu yanabadilika kutegemeana na muda na mahali alipo kwa wakati huo. Kwa hiyo kujiuliza swali kama hilo si kosa. Ila jambo la msingi ni kitu gani kitafuata baada ya kujiuliza...! Majibu ya hilo ndo kama walivyosema wachangiaji na mengine mengi bado yatakuja!
Bottom line: Nasikia kuna mwanafalsafa wa zamani aliulizwa atoe jibu la swali lifuatalo; "Kipi bora, kuoa au kutooa"? Jibu lake lilikuwa rahisi sana; "Kwa vyovyote vile atakavyochagua mtu, lazima atajuta siku moja".
The question is:
Do you sometimes wish you weren't married or that your marital status could be suspended even for just a few hours? Please sincere answers will be appreciated.