8 Mistakes of African Men in Marriage

8 Mistakes of African Men in Marriage

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8 MISTAKES OF MANY AFRICAN MEN IN MARRIAGE

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Lots of African Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many African Men in Marriage:

1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of African Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.

2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES:
Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.

3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of African men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear African men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?

4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of African Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.

5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many African men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of African men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.

6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of African wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.

7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of African men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.

8) CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most African Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no foreplay, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.

African Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and beloving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
 
Umeandika point strong na zinaeleweka kwa kuzisoma. Ila tukifanya reality check naona umefanya marginalization ya wanaume na umefanya generalization kubwa sana ya kitabia.....

Looks like hii kitu unaandika hapa imebase kwenye source za machapisho na maandiko ya Beijing women conference philosophers.....of which most are just biased.....

So next time ukiwa una address issues za kijamii usideal sana na facts.... Deal na logic na truth...
 
In order to open your closed eyes and understand how devious and wicked women are, read the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Villar

I quote,

Women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves,they have pretended to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the oppressors,she explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like courtship and finally marriage, hence the saying "a man chases a woman until SHE catches him"
In her book she explains how the man is tricked to care for the woman all his life and her offspring, he rolls the stone like Sisyphus and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure,we can by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the women uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her
She goes ahead to explain the rivalry of women, how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for her alone,like a slave owner she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman,she uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone
 
Kwa hiyo wasiokuwa wa Afrika ndoa zao zimedumu hakuna talaka na maadili ni mazuri.
Wake up stupid boy...
 
Yukina said:
Jamani huyu mtoa mada amesema kweli na namkubali 100% ndiyo walivyo hakuna Alichoongoopa wanaume badilikeni !! Nimekupenda mwandishi.
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Mimi sio jipya hapa,walio oa wanawake wakiafrika wanajua mziki wao.
 
T Total said:
In order to open your closed eyes and understand how devious and wicked women are, read the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Villar

I quote,

Women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves,they have pretended to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the oppressors,she explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like courtship and finally marriage, hence the saying "a man chases a woman until SHE catches him"
In her book she explains how the man is tricked to care for the woman all his life and her offspring, he rolls the stone like Sisyphus and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure,we can by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the women uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her
She goes ahead to explain the rivalry of women, how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for her alone,like a slave owner she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman,she uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone
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Aise huu ni ukweli mtupu hadi kwa waganga wataenda
Duh wanaume tunakazi sana
 
tinkibiruka mhaya said:
Wanaume watakataa
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Kabisa ila tunakataa kwa hoja.
Logic and argument as follow

Women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves,they have pretended to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the oppressors,she explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like courtship and finally marriage, hence the saying "a man chases a woman until SHE catches him"

In her book she explains how the man is tricked to care for the woman all his life and her offspring, he rolls the stone like Sisyphus and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure,we can by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the women uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her

She goes ahead to explain the rivalry of women, how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for her alone,like a slave owner she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman,she uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone
 
Samcezar said:
Umeandika point strong na zinaeleweka kwa kuzisoma. Ila tukifanya reality check naona umefanya marginalization ya wanaume na umefanya generalization kubwa sana ya kitabia.....

Looks like hii kitu unaandika hapa imebase kwenye source za machapisho na maandiko ya Beijing women conference philosophers.....of which most are just biased.....

So next time ukiwa una address issues za kijamii usideal sana na facts.... Deal na logic na truth...
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Kabisa
 
T Total said:
In order to open your closed eyes and understand how devious and wicked women are, read the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Villar

I quote,

Women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves,they have pretended to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the oppressors,she explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like courtship and finally marriage, hence the saying "a man chases a woman until SHE catches him"
In her book she explains how the man is tricked to care for the woman all his life and her offspring, he rolls the stone like Sisyphus and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure,we can by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the women uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her
She goes ahead to explain the rivalry of women, how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for her alone,like a slave owner she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman,she uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone
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Huu ndio uhalisia wa mambo
 
Mistakes??🤔
What is correct? Who says it is a mistake? Who dictates the right way to behave?
When you say Africans does it mean Other races behave the correct way?
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5 imenichekesha sana na nitabia ya wanaume wengi nyumbani kazi yao kula tu, hata hzo point nyingine kujiona na akili huku ni empty niza kweli kabisa, imagine mtoto akilia habembelezi ana muita mkewe
 
NaddySL said:
Mistakes??[emoji848]
What is correct? Who says it is a mistake? Who dictates the right way to behave?
When you say Africans does it mean Other races behave the correct way?
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I second you , he /she should come with answers on your indispensable questions.
 
MENO YA KUKU said:
Kwa hiyo wasiokuwa wa Afrika ndoa zao zimedumu hakuna talaka na maadili ni mazuri.
Wake up stupid boy...
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Mada imeandikwa kwa ajili ya Sisi wa Africa unataka tujadili ya Wasiokuwa Waafrika Sasa utaona Nani ni STUPID wa kiwango cha lami... 😳...
 
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