In order to open your closed eyes and understand how devious and wicked women are, read the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Villar
I quote,
Women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves,they have pretended to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the oppressors,she explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like courtship and finally marriage, hence the saying "a man chases a woman until SHE catches him"
In her book she explains how the man is tricked to care for the woman all his life and her offspring, he rolls the stone like Sisyphus and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure,we can by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the women uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her
She goes ahead to explain the rivalry of women, how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for her alone,like a slave owner she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman,she uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone