A serious Woman to join in marriage!!!

A serious Woman to join in marriage!!!

Kaunga said:
I bet,
Aiweke wazi ili tujue misimamo yake, isije ikawa ni mtetea tigo au anayeamini mwanamke mmoja hamtoshelezi mwanaume.

Ka vipi asubiri nasi tufungue ID Mpya halafu tuje na story kuwa mimi ni virgin au nimekuwa na mwanaume mmoja tu akanitenda! LOL
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Over my dead body!!!!
 
Sasa huu ubonge wangu mmh... Umeniponza..!
 
Smile unaleta utani kwenye maisha...hapa sio jukwa la joke,onyesha hekima yako hata kidogo..amesha sema MP..acha mbwembwe..
 
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Bakulutu said:
Smile unaleta utani kwenye maisha...hapa sio jukwa la joke,onyesha hekima yako hata kidogo..amesha sema MP..acha mbwembwe..
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kwani nimefanyeje? si nimejieleza hapa imeshindikana? mimi sipendi mambo ya sirisiri
 
Smile said:
kwani nimefanyeje? si nimejieleza hapa imeshindikana? mimi sipendi mambo ya sirisiri
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nyie ndio mkilazwa njaa mtaa wote utajua, mambo ya ndani yanazungumziwa ndani smile.
 
Sasa kama we ulishawahi kuwa na mke then ukamtaliki, what makes the second one safe from divorce?
My take is, explain the reason for the failure of the first marriage so the coming can try to have a warning signals to help her in the second.
However, our good books (The Bible to be specific) does not promote divorce in case you did not know. The only stand Jesus gave out with regard to divorce is when and only when one is involved in marital unfaithfulness such as adultery. Kwa kiswahili wanasema kuiba ruti aka kwenda nje ya ndoa. Sasa kama this is not the case and you divorced, biblically you have no right to re-marry cause you will be committing adultery yourself.

Mat 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

Be informed and advised accordingly. For more assistance PM me and I will give you an in-depth counselling.
 
hekimatele said:
Sasa kama we ulishawahi kuwa na mke then ukamtaliki, what makes the second one safe from divorce?
My take is, explain the reason for the failure of the first marriage so the coming can try to have a warning signals to help her in the second.
However, our good books (The Bible to be specific) does not promote divorce in case you did not know. The only stand Jesus gave out with regard to divorce is when and only when one is involved in marital unfaithfulness such as adultery. Kwa kiswahili wanasema kuiba ruti aka kwenda nje ya ndoa. Sasa kama this is not the case and you divorced, biblically you have no right to re-marry cause you will be committing adultery yourself.

Mat 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

Be informed and advised accordingly. For more assistance PM me and I will give you an in-depth counselling.
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Bible allows for divorce and remarriage on one ground-sexual relations outside the marriage. (Matthew 19:9) Therefore, if you learn that your mate has been unfaithful, you have the right to terminate the marriage.

In short its not easy to divorce and re-marry, i have gone through a very difficult time, i consulted well qualified counsellers, religious leaders and the decision that i took to divorce was a very difficult one, but i had to so that my life and the life of kids can be saved, i can't put the details here but have u ever been exposed to infidelity, if not you can't understand how it hurts and what am talking about.

The reason you gave (also according to the holy bible) that allows for divorce is the one that dissolved my marriage, otherwise i couldn't do it for any other reason.

The second wife will never be divorced if she will stay away from adultery
 
grand-mal said:
Mimi ni mwanaume, 37 years of age, ni baba wa watoto wawili, wote wa kike, nimezaa na mwanamke mmoja, watoto wote, aliyekuwa mke wangu kabla ndoa yetu haijavunjika (sababu baadae). Nina masters degree ya udaktari , nafanya kazi katika hospitali moja ya mkoa. Natafuta mtu wa kumaliza nae maisha.

Napenda mwanamke mwenye angalau first degree, a teacher, banker, economist. Mwanamke mwenye lifestyle ya wastani, umbo la wastani, si mnene si mwembamba sana, mrefu wa wastani, mcha mungu, mpenda watoto, she is going to be a mother of my daughters (ingawa kwa sasa watoto wako kwa mama yao).

Asiwe medical personnel or soldier or lawyer (from friends' and my own past experince with women of these carriers - mtazamo wangu lakini si kwamba ni wanawake wasiofaa).

I promise to be the best husband one can be proud of, of course for the best wife.

Interested? PM me.

Update 23/02/2013
Wanachungulia wanasepa, so far bila bila, sijui nitoe deadline, anyway ngoja niendelee kuvumilia.
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Tatizo ushajilimit sana
 
mhh, wadada wabaya humu mpaka mtu anataka kutoa deadline? labda tu niwaambie wengi wenu mnakosa wachumba kwa vigezo vyenu vingiiii, kuna wadada wanachakariika kutafuta pesa huku mijini na form 4 zao na ni wake wazuri tu watarajiwa lakini watu kama nyie ndio hivyo tena,kwani hamuwezi kuwachukua mkawafanya wawe mnavyotaka? (muwarudishe shule) hapo umeshapunguza hao watatu, hahaha kazi kweli kweli, jokes aside, hivi humu ndani kuna mtu alishapata mke/mume kabisa?
 
Nyamayao said:
mhh, wadada wabaya humu mpaka mtu anataka kutoa deadline? labda tu niwaambie wengi wenu mnakosa wachumba kwa vigezo vyenu vingiiii, kuna wadada wanachakariika kutafuta pesa huku mijini na form 4 zao na ni wake wazuri tu watarajiwa lakini watu kama nyie ndio hivyo tena,kwani hamuwezi kuwachukua mkawafanya wawe mnavyotaka? (muwarudishe shule) hapo umeshapunguza hao watatu, hahaha kazi kweli kweli, jokes aside, hivi humu ndani kuna mtu alishapata mke/mume kabisa?
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Nyamayao vigezo ni muhimu, vipo ambavyo sio strict vingine ni strict, na mwanamke kuwa mtafutaji sio kigezo cha kuwa mke bora, masuala ya elimu ni kuhakikisha unakuwa na mtu mnaeongea lugha moja.

Humu ndani kuna confession ya watu waliofanikiwa kama ni kweli. Am just trying my lucky, who knows!!!
 
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