Am not materialistic but I still can't keep a man

Ze inglish is too big for me pliz changanya hata kidogo bas na lugha ya mama tanzania
 
Hongera yako, mie kupenda kumegoma kabisa, yaani nakuchukulia kama mshkaji tu, ukichoka sepa hataaa sitikisiki unywele, teh teh teh!!
Duuuh haya mambo bwana!! Acha nirudi shule tena.

shem uliumizwa sana eeh???!!
 
men are from mars and women are from venus

Ukikipata hiki kitabu utafurahia mahusiano yako kila siku.I would reccomend u @ brenda18 to find this book.

Wanawake wengi hawajui saikolojia ya mwanaume ktk mahusiano..mwanaume anapenda ile hali ya kujiona kuwa anahitajika kwa mwenzi wake.Yeye ndo awe juu..yeye ndo atatue matatizo ya kifedha...inshort yy ndo awe anatawala.Dont try to fix kila kitu kwny mahusiano yenu. Mwache yeye afanye.

Sasa wadada wa siku wanataka kujifanya nao wanazo..wanaweza. basi shida ndo inaanza hapo. Km unazo ni vizuri, ila fanya kwa kiac usijeukafanya mpaka mwanaume yeye ndo ajione useless kwenye family.

Another thing wanaume wanapenda sana uhuru na kuaminiwa. Sasa wadada siku hiz kila saa unataka kumuwatch mpenzi wako kujua yuko wap,na nani ,wanafanya nn? It doesnt go like that..give ur man a time n space afanye mambo yake. Haimaanishi kwamba husimtafute siku nzima noo..

Utapata mengi if u read that book
 

Nilishakisoma ila sikukimaliza
Nikipata mda ntakisoma tena
 
 

Dada umesema vyema kabisaa...nilifataga huu ushauri ambao mama angu mdogo alinipa na sijuti mpaka leo. Maana nafurahia mahusiano yangu.

Kwa jinc unavyozidi kupendwa ndipo inakuwa rahisi kwako kujishusha na kumthamini mumeo. Yaani maisha yataenda vizuri sanaaa.

Ungekuwa karibu..ungenidai ela yako ya lunch.
 
I think you need spiritual consultation and the kind of. Otherwise, you are too demanding and men will end up taking of you clothes and quit by the near door. I do not suggest the option to a single motherhood unless you are sure that the innocent child will accept that. Be realistic, and remember love is not about finding a perfect person but simple getting to see an imperfect person perfectly!
 
You need spiritual consultation and the kind of. Otherwise, you are too demanding and for that matter men will end up taking off your clothes and quit by the near door. Also, I do not support your choice to single motherhood unless your sure that the coming innocent child will be happy on that. Be realistic and remember love is not about finding a perfect person but simply getting to see an imperfect person perfectly!
 
For what I know kutakuwa na jambo flani ambalo linasababisha hali hii, natamani kama ungeweza uwe rafiki yangu then by talking and exchanging different idea kwa muda mrefu naamini ningeona shida iko wapi....
 
Sijui kwa nini wanawake wengi wakiisha kufikia mwishoni wa 20's ndio ufahamu wao unafunguka,atlesat wengi wao ndio wanaweza kumake right decisions.Ukweli kwamba umeanza kujiuliza hilo swali na kutaka ushauri is sign of maturity.Kama kunamaombi mabinti wanatakiwa kufanya ni kuomba hekima wanayoipata wakikaribia miaka 30 wawenayo wakati wakiwa na miaka 23-26,wanapotezea oppurtunities nyingi sana at this age.I think Kaunga said it all and karuuce decorate it,don't underestimate the power of experince pitia tena hizo post za kaunga ikiwezekana cheki nae pm
 
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mi nakubaliana nae pia
If I knew what I know now ningejiepusha Na maumivu mengi yasio ya lazima
Ila I thank God bado for the experience
 
i dedicate da song "Binti" by Lady Jay dee. You can search and listen to it, will give you energy and open up new and brighter hoped 4 u
 
 
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