Am not materialistic but I still can't keep a man

Am not materialistic but I still can't keep a man

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Teh teh! Paulo niambie!! Naona mnaungana kuendeleza unyanyapaa
 
Ze inglish is too big for me pliz changanya hata kidogo bas na lugha ya mama tanzania
 
Hongera yako, mie kupenda kumegoma kabisa, yaani nakuchukulia kama mshkaji tu, ukichoka sepa hataaa sitikisiki unywele, teh teh teh!!
Duuuh haya mambo bwana!! Acha nirudi shule tena.

shem uliumizwa sana eeh???!!
 
men are from mars and women are from venus

Ukikipata hiki kitabu utafurahia mahusiano yako kila siku.I would reccomend u @ brenda18 to find this book.

Wanawake wengi hawajui saikolojia ya mwanaume ktk mahusiano..mwanaume anapenda ile hali ya kujiona kuwa anahitajika kwa mwenzi wake.Yeye ndo awe juu..yeye ndo atatue matatizo ya kifedha...inshort yy ndo awe anatawala.Dont try to fix kila kitu kwny mahusiano yenu. Mwache yeye afanye.

Sasa wadada wa siku wanataka kujifanya nao wanazo..wanaweza. basi shida ndo inaanza hapo. Km unazo ni vizuri, ila fanya kwa kiac usijeukafanya mpaka mwanaume yeye ndo ajione useless kwenye family.

Another thing wanaume wanapenda sana uhuru na kuaminiwa. Sasa wadada siku hiz kila saa unataka kumuwatch mpenzi wako kujua yuko wap,na nani ,wanafanya nn? It doesnt go like that..give ur man a time n space afanye mambo yake. Haimaanishi kwamba husimtafute siku nzima noo..

Utapata mengi if u read that book
 
Ukikipata hiki kitabu utafurahia mahusiano yako kila siku.I would reccomend u @ brenda18 to find this book.

Wanawake wengi hawajui saikolojia ya mwanaume ktk mahusiano..mwanaume anapenda ile hali ya kujiona kuwa anahitajika kwa mwenzi wake.Yeye ndo awe juu..yeye ndo atatue matatizo ya kifedha...inshort yy ndo awe anatawala.Dont try to fix kila kitu kwny mahusiano yenu. Mwache yeye afanye.

Sasa wadada wa siku wanataka kujifanya nao wanazo..wanaweza. basi shida ndo inaanza hapo. Km unazo ni vizuri, ila fanya kwa kiac usijeukafanya mpaka mwanaume yeye ndo ajione useless kwenye family.

Another thing wanaume wanapenda sana uhuru na kuaminiwa. Sasa wadada siku hiz kila saa unataka kumuwatch mpenzi wako kujua yuko wap,na nani ,wanafanya nn? It doesnt go like that..give ur man a time n space afanye mambo yake. Haimaanishi kwamba husimtafute siku nzima noo..

Utapata mengi if u read that book

Nilishakisoma ila sikukimaliza
Nikipata mda ntakisoma tena
 
Too weak to handle you?

Acha attitude hizo.We ni mwanamke u cnt say eti wanaume wote uliopata they are weak to handle you / your stuff..From that statement it shows ww ni wale wanawake ambao mnazile idea za "I cn do everything by myself"

Sasa f u think that u'r complete on ur own why are u lukin for a man?.Sababu kitendo cha kufind a man t shows that u'r not complete.

Kukusaidia tu..km kweli unatama mume work on ur attitudes. Too much ego n arrogance wont bring u anywhere.
 
Wanawake hatujaumbwa kupenda tumeumbwa kuaccept love.If you can not love back ni shedaa.Hujajiweka katika mazingira ya kupendeka unajipenda mwenyewe.Ushauri wangu kwako na kwa wanawake wengine please mpende mwanaume anaekupenda sana.Unaempenda wewe atakutesa coz mwanaume akikupenda utamshukuru utamsifia utamjali na kumheshimu.If you are too independent utataka wewe ndo usifiwe.Mwanamke anasifiwa tabia njema na heshima ukijiheshimu hata ukiwa na 40 years utaolewa tuu.Cha msingi wanawake tuache kuhangaikia wanaume tunaoona tunawapenda wakati hao hawatujali tuwasikilize wanaotupenda ndoa zote zitakuwa na amani.Nimeshuhudia mwanamke anahangaika asipopendwa kule anakopendwa anachuna mwisho wa siku anakosa kote.

Dada umesema vyema kabisaa...nilifataga huu ushauri ambao mama angu mdogo alinipa na sijuti mpaka leo. Maana nafurahia mahusiano yangu.

Kwa jinc unavyozidi kupendwa ndipo inakuwa rahisi kwako kujishusha na kumthamini mumeo. Yaani maisha yataenda vizuri sanaaa.

Ungekuwa karibu..ungenidai ela yako ya lunch.
 
Good evening,

Am in my late 20s about completing my MMED. Ever since I got out of my first relationship with my first and d only man I have ever loved I have not been able to keep other men coming my way.

Am not really a bad person, am not even materialistic because even as an undergraduate I was working. No man I have ever dated that doesn ’ t not wish to settle down with me but one thing will lead to another and there will be change in plan.

In fact am losing hope of ever getting married may be I should just get pregnant for my first love and be a single mother. Right now am single and I have been for more than a year. Please do u have any advice for me?

Thanks
I think you need spiritual consultation and the kind of. Otherwise, you are too demanding and men will end up taking of you clothes and quit by the near door. I do not suggest the option to a single motherhood unless you are sure that the innocent child will accept that. Be realistic, and remember love is not about finding a perfect person but simple getting to see an imperfect person perfectly!
 
You need spiritual consultation and the kind of. Otherwise, you are too demanding and for that matter men will end up taking off your clothes and quit by the near door. Also, I do not support your choice to single motherhood unless your sure that the coming innocent child will be happy on that. Be realistic and remember love is not about finding a perfect person but simply getting to see an imperfect person perfectly!
 
For what I know kutakuwa na jambo flani ambalo linasababisha hali hii, natamani kama ungeweza uwe rafiki yangu then by talking and exchanging different idea kwa muda mrefu naamini ningeona shida iko wapi....
 
Sijui kwa nini wanawake wengi wakiisha kufikia mwishoni wa 20's ndio ufahamu wao unafunguka,atlesat wengi wao ndio wanaweza kumake right decisions.Ukweli kwamba umeanza kujiuliza hilo swali na kutaka ushauri is sign of maturity.Kama kunamaombi mabinti wanatakiwa kufanya ni kuomba hekima wanayoipata wakikaribia miaka 30 wawenayo wakati wakiwa na miaka 23-26,wanapotezea oppurtunities nyingi sana at this age.I think Kaunga said it all and karuuce decorate it,don't underestimate the power of experince pitia tena hizo post za kaunga ikiwezekana cheki nae pm
 
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Dada umesema vyema kabisaa...nilifataga huu ushauri ambao mama angu mdogo alinipa na sijuti mpaka leo. Maana nafurahia mahusiano yangu.

Kwa jinc unavyozidi kupendwa ndipo inakuwa rahisi kwako kujishusha na kumthamini mumeo. Yaani maisha yataenda vizuri sanaaa.

Ungekuwa karibu..ungenidai ela yako ya lunch.

mi nakubaliana nae pia
If I knew what I know now ningejiepusha Na maumivu mengi yasio ya lazima
Ila I thank God bado for the experience
 
Good evening,

Am in my late 20s about completing my MMED. Ever since I got out of my first relationship with my first and d only man I have ever loved I have not been able to keep other men coming my way.

Am not really a bad person, am not even materialistic because even as an undergraduate I was working. No man I have ever dated that doesn ’ t not wish to settle down with me but one thing will lead to another and there will be change in plan.

In fact am losing hope of ever getting married may be I should just get pregnant for my first love and be a single mother. Right now am single and I have been for more than a year. Please do u have any advice for me?

Thanks
i dedicate da song "Binti" by Lady Jay dee. You can search and listen to it, will give you energy and open up new and brighter hoped 4 u
 
Too weak to handle you?

Acha attitude hizo.We ni mwanamke u cnt say eti wanaume wote uliopata they are weak to handle you / your stuff..From that statement it shows ww ni wale wanawake ambao mnazile idea za "I cn do everything by myself"

Sasa f u think that u'r complete on ur own why are u lukin for a man?.Sababu kitendo cha kufind a man t shows that u'r not complete.

Kukusaidia tu..km kweli unatama mume work on ur attitudes. Too much ego n arrogance wont bring u anywhere.
watch your language... Ts not the matter of being complete... don't think if ts a sin to be able to do everything for yourself don't get me twisted... the same way a man can have a good job and everything but still anatafuta mke..... same way am capable to provide the basic needs to myself... I need a man pia so I never understand what is so wrong with a woman being able to support herself?
 
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