Am not materialistic but I still can't keep a man

[G3T]

Kumbe tupo wengi,najua ipo siku kilio changu kitafika kwa muumba.

 

[housegirl]

Went through the comments. Too many stereotypes on the sexes.

wanaume hivi! waume vile.

There are different classes of men out there. There is a man who will be so attracted to your charcter.
But the typical Tanzanian man? I dont think so.

Hii mambo ya kusema uwe hivi, uwe vile, hopefully you can hold on to that new persona forever. Otherwise one day you will surely snap out of it.

 

[Mapi]

Mke kakushinda huyo!

Si ndiyo unaona hadi maini yananirukaruka

 

[Atoto]

Si ndiyo unaona hadi maini yananirukaruka

Pole sana mdogo wangu, sasa nikutafutie mwingine au now you ll be able to handle her?

 

[Atoto]

Kumbe tupo wengi,najua ipo siku kilio changu kitafika kwa muumba.

For sure, its aint easy, ila ipo siku.

 

[Leak]

Good evening,

Am in my late 20s about completing my MMED. Ever since I got out of my first relationship with my first and d only man I have ever loved I have not been able to keep other men coming my way.

Am not really a bad person, am not even materialistic because even as an undergraduate I was working. No man I have ever dated that doesn ’ t not wish to settle down with me but one thing will lead to another and there will be change in plan.

In fact am losing hope of ever getting married may be I should just get pregnant for my first love and be a single mother. Right now am single and I have been for more than a year. Please do u have any advice for me?

Thanks

Karibu senene

 

[Leak]

For sure, its aint easy, ila ipo siku.

Mtani habari za masiku?

 

[omurwanga]

Good evening,

Am in my late 20s about completing my MMED. Ever since I got out of my first relationship with my first and d only man I have ever loved I have not been able to keep other men coming my way.

Am not really a bad person, am not even materialistic because even as an undergraduate I was working. No man I have ever dated that doesn ’ t not wish to settle down with me but one thing will lead to another and there will be change in plan.

In fact am losing hope of ever getting married may be I should just get pregnant for my first love and be a single mother. Right now am single and I have been for more than a year. Please do u have any advice for me?

Thanks

My Dear , why don' t you give me the honor to implegnate you that way we can n both be single parents ?

 

[Mo'Anna]

watch your language... Ts not the matter of being complete... don't think if ts a sin to be able to do everything for yourself don't get me twisted... the same way a man can have a good job and everything but still anatafuta mke..... same way am capable to provide the basic needs to myself... I need a man pia so I never understand what is so wrong with a woman being able to support herself?

I've not mentioned kuwa ts wrong for a woman to be able to support herself...tena ni vizuri sana tu.Ila badilisha kauli zako. Kauli zako zimejaa kujikweza sanaa.

Afu nashangaa kitu kimoja iv umekuja kuomba ushauri au kuanzisha malumbano ya hoja?Sababu km kweli unaomba ushauri ilitaliwa ukae tu usome nn watu wanakushauri thn ww mwenyewe utadigest upi wa kuuchukua upi wa kuuacha.

Kwa kifupi tu nilivyokusoma wewe ni mtu wa kujikweza sana. Hupendi kushuka chini na kusikiliza unachoambiwa...unapenda kulumbana "much know". Sasa hiyo hulka si nzuri haswa kwa mtoto wa kike.

Ukifunguliwa ktk hilo..utaweza kukaa na mwanaume.

 

[NDAGLA]

A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.

We zaa,lea wanao siyo lazima uolewe.

Ukiwa too desperate utaishia mikononi mwa ma-Yahaya tu of which most of them hawatakuwa of your standards(ulizojiwekea) kitu kitakachopelekea kwenye ndoa ya mateso.

Wanaume wengi hawapendi kuoa wanawake mnaojielewa sana kiasi cha kuwapa changamoto ndani ya nyumba.

Wanapenda wanaojishusha na kuwaabudu so if you aren't one of them hata kama hauko materialistic kiasi gani they'll end up dumping you.

Ndoa siyo ajira kwamba uwaze utaishije.

 

[wajingawatu]

Haha,is it a crime ukiwa 29+,financially stable and single???
Kuna shida gani hebu niambie mkuu

una miaka mitano ufike menopouse. Hilo ndiyo balaa lenyewe

 

[Lee Cho in]

Usijifanye independent sana, mwanaume anajisikia vizuri anapogharimia hata kidogo na wewe ukiappreciate mchango wake. Pia dont be too nice utamboa maana hapati changamoto. Muoneshe ni wajibu wake kukunulia say lotion hata kama una million mia bank. Nawe mnunulie kitu kingine kama deodorants au boxer in return. Usijifanye kuwa humuhitaji financially au materially as you put it.

umeongea vyema sana aiseee.

 

[Professor of jungle]

Kumbe tupo wengi,najua ipo siku kilio changu kitafika kwa muumba.

kumbe mpo wengi, mnaumia na upweke fanya kuniPM turekeshibe tatizo lako.

 

[Trayvess Daniel]

I've not mentioned kuwa ts wrong for a woman to be able to support herself...tena ni vizuri sana tu.Ila badilisha kauli zako. Kauli zako zimejaa kujikweza sanaa.

Afu nashangaa kitu kimoja iv umekuja kuomba ushauri au kuanzisha malumbano ya hoja?Sababu km kweli unaomba ushauri ilitaliwa ukae tu usome nn watu wanakushauri thn ww mwenyewe utadigest upi wa kuuchukua upi wa kuuacha.

Kwa kifupi tu nilivyokusoma wewe ni mtu wa kujikweza sana. Hupendi kushuka chini na kusikiliza unachoambiwa...unapenda kulumbana "much know". Sasa hiyo hulka si nzuri haswa kwa mtoto wa kike.

Ukifunguliwa ktk hilo..utaweza kukaa na mwanaume.

ainisha kujikweza kumetoka wapi.... and we are not arguing sababu the way umeadress statements zako kwenye quote ya kwanza ts as if being single means incompleteness ts natural to need a partner whether a man or a woman....... N don't confuse me with Brenda we are two different people am in my early 20s

 

[Trayvess Daniel]

A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.

We zaa,lea wanao siyo lazima uolewe.

Ukiwa too desperate utaishia mikononi mwa ma-Yahaya tu of which most of them hawatakuwa of your standards(ulizojiwekea) kitu kitakachopelekea kwenye ndoa ya mateso.

Wanaume wengi hawapendi kuoa wanawake mnaojielewa sana kiasi cha kuwapa changamoto ndani ya nyumba.

Wanapenda wanaojishusha na kuwaabudu so if you aren't one of them hata kama hauko materialistic kiasi gani they'll end up dumping you.

Ndoa siyo ajira kwamba uwaze utaishije.

nakuelewa sana aiseee you sound so damn realistic.... Sasa what's the solution?coz kupretend dumb au kumwabudu too much ni ngumu most of the time

 

[Mo'Anna]

A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.

We zaa,lea wanao siyo lazima uolewe.

Ukiwa too desperate utaishia mikononi mwa ma-Yahaya tu of which most of them hawatakuwa of your standards(ulizojiwekea) kitu kitakachopelekea kwenye ndoa ya mateso.

Wanaume wengi hawapendi kuoa wanawake mnaojielewa sana kiasi cha kuwapa changamoto ndani ya nyumba.

Wanapenda wanaojishusha na kuwaabudu so if you aren't one of them hata kama hauko materialistic kiasi gani they'll end up dumping you.

Ndoa siyo ajira kwamba uwaze utaishije.

Acha kumpotosha mwenzako!

Unachotakiwa kumwambia ni aache kuwa desperate, aendelee kungoja atampata mwenza wake. Lkn sio kumshauri azae bila ndoa.

Afu kwani nani amewaambia muwaabudu wanaume mbona mnaexaggurate vitu??.nyinyi mmeambiwa mtii..au kutii ndo kuabudu mtu? Kwani we unavyowatii wazazi wako ni kwamba unamwabudu?..

 

[Mo'Anna]

ainisha kujikweza kumetoka wapi.... and we are not arguing sababu the way umeadress statements zako kwenye quote ya kwanza ts as if being single means incompleteness ts natural to need a partner whether a man or a woman....... N don't confuse me with Brenda we are two different people am in my early 20s

Ooh kumbe si wewe uliyeomba ushauri...basi ignore them msg. Nilikuwa naziaddress kwa muomba ushauri nadhani yeye ndo angenielewa sababu hata baadhi ya maneno nimequote kutoka kwake.

 

[Mapi]

Pole sana mdogo wangu, sasa nikutafutie mwingine au now you ll be able to handle her?

Mimi na yeye daima, huu ni upepo tu
BTW nani mdogo wako?? ntakupasua ohoooo!!

 

[Freeland]

Kwahiyo humu uwanjani bila kingreza ndio basi tena!! Mweeeeh!!! Ngoja nilewe kwanza.

hio ni shida yake namba moja

no no yes yes...you know i know...siwapendi mademu wa hivi mimi

 

[Atoto]

Mimi na yeye daima, huu ni upepo tu
BTW nani mdogo wako?? ntakupasua ohoooo!!

Aaaah dogo acha hizo bwana, she is too good for you, you cant handle her