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HI, I am a guy, there is this mentality that girls are always after money when a guy approaches them, but i can honestly say that i have been lucky enough to be in three different relationships with women who completely like me for who i am and not what i have. I think the major problem is that we are too busy trying to date people for different reasons than those that are important ie love companionship and partnership. From the way we approach these ladies to how we open ourselves to them, we put out ourselves in a manner that they can depend on us but we do not need to depend on them, that in itself is a problem. Of course there are some ladies that JUST WANT MONEY, but these are not the ones that am talking about because if a woman has reached that level then she is un-dateable. So in my personal experience, i can say that is is possible to date a guy without a need for money, just depends on how you present yourself to her.Can you date a guy without asking him for money? Most girls will be laughing at this question,but am sure the guys would really want to know.
As long as I can remember and as many relationships I can remember, the ladies always ask for money.It might not be direct because ladies are smart.
They might not ask you directly but by the time you realize it, you have given them 100k.
I am not sure most ladies can do without asking their guys for money. It's in the blood, you are their helper the moment you ask them out. You just have to provide for anything they want because they are now your responsibility.
Have you been in a relationship where all the girl knows is to ask you for this or that, whenever they see anything then they want it.
Sometimes I would say its the guy's fault because at first some guys when they approach a girl for the first time, they approach from the angle that they have money, that they can provide for their every need.
So when the guys approach them this way, what do you expect from the girls. Let's discuss this. What's your opinion?
Sio kwamba hatupendi mtuombe nop, ila mmezidi kuomba yani kuna vile vitu vidogo vidogo mnaweza kuvimanage wenyewe bt stl hamuwez mpaka muombe dah. Sisi tunataka ile mizinga mikubwa lyk kulipa kodi za appartements na bills mbali mbali hahaUnaona sasa unakuja kule kule huo ni ukweli ninaona kabisa akiwa amenipa baadae message zake.
Au ile mfano kahisi kuna kamtu kanamendea ule mkwara wake sasa mostly anakuwa pride na alivyotoa na anavyotoa.
AMENDah kuna wanaume wanabahati just imagine kuna baharia anamiliki mtoto kama huyu mwenye hekima kama hizi dah, wewe dada kama bado hujaingia kwenye serious relationship Mungu akusaidie upate mume bora mwenye positive mind kama ulokuepo nayo, wote tuseme “AMEN”
Nasoma haya majibu hadi nafurahi sana. Mapema sana umeipendeza siku yangu Sis.Pengine ni makubaliano..
Kuomba hela si dhambi,kutokuomba si dhambi pia.
Inategemea makubaliano na mazoea waliyojiwekea watu.
😁😁 dahHuo ndo ukweli.
Hata sikutishi.
Kwenye mapenzi sisi tunaprovide vingi sana hasa hisia na mambo mengi mengiiiiii.
Wao jukumu lao ni kututunza.
Yes hata kama si kwa kila kitu lakini kwa kiasi fulani unaona kaonyesha uanaume wake.
Siyo uanaume kuvaa taulo na kuning'iniza mapumbu.
Halafu wenzetu wote hawapo na sisi wametusaliti [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
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Wapambane tu, ila mie siachiiiiii.
I think asking ur partner for money can be a very slippery slope.Warembo let's be honest here...Huyo anaekupa hela siku mkiachana lazima utalazimika kuwa na mwingine mwenye hela ili uendelee kuwa na life style unayotaka....sasa inatofauti gani na kujiuza??? (Samahanini kama nitawakwaza)
Halafu mahusiano ya kupewa hela hayakupi uhuru; utashindwa kuwa na maamuzi , atakutumia anavyopenda mbaya zaidi atakunyanyasa au kukudhalilisha kwasabu amekununua.
Raha ya mahusiano in my opinion ni kupanda zawadi akupe na wewe umpe.Suala la hela ni pale ukikwama akusaidie na wewe akwama mpe.
Maybe I'm too old school ila siwezi kukubali mwanaume ninae mpenda anipe hela ili kununua upendo wangu.
Mimi even if we go for a date we'll split the bill if we have to!
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[emoji3526][emoji120]Nasoma haya majibu hadi nafurahi sana. Mapema sana umeipendeza siku yangu Sis.
Amu, sio mbaya kumuomba mwenzako pesa ila my personal advice: Don't do it unless u're desperate tu.Unaona sasa unakuja kule kule huo ni ukweli ninaona kabisa akiwa amenipa baadae message zake.
Au ile mfano kahisi kuna kamtu kanamendea ule mkwara wake sasa mostly anakuwa pride na alivyotoa na anavyotoa.
Dah kweli kati ya 10:100000 basi nawe mmoja wao,ubarikiwe madam.Warembo let's be honest here...Huyo anaekupa hela siku mkiachana lazima utalazimika kuwa na mwingine mwenye hela ili uendelee kuwa na life style unayotaka....sasa inatofauti gani na kujiuza??? (Samahanini kama nitawakwaza)
Halafu mahusiano ya kupewa hela hayakupi uhuru; utashindwa kuwa na maamuzi , atakutumia anavyopenda mbaya zaidi atakunyanyasa au kukudhalilisha kwasabu amekununua.
Raha ya mahusiano in my opinion ni kupanda zawadi akupe na wewe umpe.Suala la hela ni pale ukikwama akusaidie na wewe akwama mpe.
Maybe I'm too old school ila siwezi kukubali mwanaume ninae mpenda anipe hela ili kununua upendo wangu.
Mimi even if we go for a date we'll split the bill if we have to!
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Safi.Sio kwamba hatupendi mtuombe nop, ila mmezidi kuomba yani kuna vile vitu vidogo vidogo mnaweza kuvimanage wenyewe bt stl hamuwez mpaka muombe dah. Sisi tunataka ile mizinga mikubwa lyk kulipa kodi za appartements na bills mbali mbali haha
Kumbe wenye akili timamu mpo eeeh!! Haya ndio mambo sasa.Sio kwamba hatupendi mtuombe nop, ila mmezidi kuomba yani kuna vile vitu vidogo vidogo mnaweza kuvimanage wenyewe bt stl hamuwez mpaka muombe dah. Sisi tunataka ile mizinga mikubwa lyk kulipa kodi za appartements na bills mbali mbali haha
Keni boi deti wisi gelo withouti askingi seksi?
Safi kabisa.Huo ndo ukweli.
Hata sikutishi.
Kwenye mapenzi sisi tunaprovide vingi sana hasa hisia na mambo mengi mengiiiiii.
Wao jukumu lao ni kututunza.
Yes hata kama si kwa kila kitu lakini kwa kiasi fulani unaona kaonyesha uanaume wake.
Siyo uanaume kuvaa taulo na kuning'iniza mapumbu.
Kuna sehemu nimekosea?[emoji16][emoji16] dah
Yaani nilipe kodi halafu ujilete kabisa bila hata aibu[emoji134][emoji134][emoji134][emoji134]Safi.
Mwanzo nilikuwa na mentality mbaya eti nikitaka kutoka kula raha au bill ya maziwa nasema.
Nikaona sijibiwi.
Lakini nikisema nataka hiki kikubwa napewa tena kiwango kikubwa tu.
Nilichogundua ni kitu kimoja mwanaume anapenda kutoa ili kuweka alama kwenye maisha yaani kukutoa point a kwenda point b.
Hakuna mwanaume mwenye akili timu anayeenjoy kwenda kwa mwanamke anayelipa kodi au amepanga anafenicha ana kila kitu atawale.
Hakuna.
Wanaume wote ni ni providers by nature.
Msiwaharibu jamani.
Katulia tuli mshtue kidogo na kitu achangamke.
Tuombe mitaji tukafate mizigo china Uturuki.Safi kabisa.
Umeongea point aiseeInategemea dating yenu ipoje..
Kwa wale wanaofocus kwenye ndoa sidhani kama hizi tabia zitakuwepo..
Kwa wale wenye kupotezeana muda hizi tabia ni kawaida.
Mimi nadhani mwanaume ana akili timamu na ana uelewa kabisa...sehemu yenye ulazima wa kutoa (mf kwenye matatizo)atatoa bila kuambiwa.