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Mkuu
wengi tu wana ndoa na wana give a shot and a few (very few) wanafanikiwa, tuache utopia tuongee ukweli, ni wangapi tunawafahamu wameolewa na ex-husbands wa watu??
Its not a closed system anymore, marriage is an open system depending on the players
Mkuu, i understand you very well.. na kama huwa unanisoma vizuri humu ndani utaelewa nilimaanisha nini, na pia in my first post regarding this thread, i pointed out clearly kwamba hakuna kitu kulia-lia is nothing!!!You are majorly mistaken my dude. This here is not a case of the ex or rather someones ex. For all we know, the guy is still married to his wife. Still is the operative word there. Now tell me, how can MwanajamiiOnes sister go out with a married man? Dont you have a problem with that? Dont you see anything wrong with that?
Unless MwanajamiiOnes sister is also morally bankrupt and is willing to be the guys paramour for some time, then she can go ahead and date him. But it still would be wrong no matter how you slice and dice it if they carry on a love affair while he is still in a marriage.
I am flabbergasted that you actually see nothing wrong with the guys licentious behavior.
basi sijaeleweka, kusema close or open system sina maana ya kucheka siku zoteif that is what you believe kila mkeo akinuna wewe utatoa taraka uoe atakaye cheka siku zote. Sijuhi hiyo openess itafanya watu waoe/waolewe mara ngapi maishani
umemalizaTunachanganya mapenzi na tamaa. Wanaume kwao ku "do" kunatimiza haja zao za mwili. Wakati sisi hilo jambo linahusisha mwili, akili na roho. Utaanza kumuwaza mume wa mtu kumbe yeye akili yake haipo kwako iko kwenye ku "do" tu.
Mkuu, i understand you very well.. na kama huwa unanisoma vizuri humu ndani utaelewa nilimaanisha nini, na pia in my first post regarding this thread, i pointed out clearly kwamba hakuna kitu kulia-lia is nothing!!!
And I am shocked as to why that fact (per MwanajamiiOne) has escaped most of the people who have chimed in.Now back to the topic, if you want us to treat this thread fairly, then we would have reached 11 pages, coz the answer from the beginning would be this one "HOW CAN MJ1, OF ALL THE PEOPLE BRING A THREAD ABOUT HER SISTER DEALING WITH A MARRIED MAN???
No bull, no spin. You are right on the money.Kitendo tu cha dada wa MJ1 ku-flirt na mume wa mtu for all those 13 years and then unakuja kusema umefunguka, to me is a lie and we are all swimming in a deep ocean of lies... now if you want me to be mean to the sis, i am more than happy ...afterall we havent heard to other side of the story
Ndiyo ninayo. Na kila siku ninajitahidi kadri ya uwezo wangu kuyashikilia. Sijawahi kulala wala kuchezacheza na mke wa mtu, kwa kadri nijuavyo.Kama una maadili wewe hongera sana,
That's lame.mimi si mkamilifu
Now you are being phony. Pole ya nini sasa?na i am majorly mistaken and pole sana...
Kwenye kuheshimu ndoa za watu daima nimekuwa mkweli. Wapi wewe umekuwa mkweli na wapi umekuwa muongo unajua mwenyewe.Hivi ni wapi tunakua wakweli na wapi tunakua waongo??
Hahahaaa you already know. I wholeheartedly agree.ALL IN ALL... MIAFRIKA NDIVYO TULIVYO
Binafsi nadhani hii thread ina fumbo tamu sana, na natamani niwe sahihi kwa hili
hapa kuna 13 years flirt (assumed), mume wa mtu, mtu aliyezaa (hatujui kama alizaa na mume wamtu), kulialia, kutamani kufunguka, true love, fake love, mume wa mtu, dada mtu, shemeji, morals, infidelity, etc. kama we want to balance this one, basi tuwe fair kwa huyo mke wa mtu, na huyo dada assuming she ahs been clean for the past 13 year akiwa na huyo dude
To me this thread is deeper and may lead to povu, but if we just want to pretend, assume, massage and butter... then huyo jamaa hafai, huyo dada akae mbali wala asijihangaishe nk. which to me leaves alot to desire about our social networks
Mkuu pamoja...Bottomline hapa ni kwamba, hata kama ndoa ya jamaa iwe mbaya kiasi gani, hali ya yeye kuwa kwenye ndoa inamfanya awe off limit hadi atakapotoka. Au, kama mkewe karidhia yeye kutoka nje basi huo ni mpangilio wao na mimi hapo sitakuwa na la zaidi.
Lakini kama mkewe hajui kuhusu huyu dada wa MwanajamiiOne, basi bado anachofanya ni kosa hata kama ndoa yake ni mbaya.
...ah ahha hhaa! hakuna! hata mimi ningelia (uchungu)
huwezi jua jamaa alikuwa amejiandaa kiasi gani siku hiyo (pamoja na kuwa ameoa!)
Mwj1 alishasema jamaa hajawahi pewa nafasi ya u faragha wawili peke yao.
ha ha ha, FA ushawahi kumfanyia mtu nini? ulivyoielezea mnh? ha ha ha!
Binafsi nadhani hii thread ina fumbo tamu sana, na natamani niwe sahihi kwa hili
hapa kuna 13 years flirt (assumed), mume wa mtu, mtu aliyezaa (hatujui kama alizaa na mume wamtu), kulialia, kutamani kufunguka, true love, fake love, mume wa mtu, dada mtu, shemeji, morals, infidelity, etc. kama we want to balance this one, basi tuwe fair kwa huyo mke wa mtu, na huyo dada assuming she ahs been clean for the past 13 year akiwa na huyo dude
To me this thread is deeper and may lead to povu, but if we just want to pretend, assume, massage and butter... then huyo jamaa hafai, huyo dada akae mbali wala asijihangaishe nk. which to me leaves alot to desire about our social networks
Nimeipenda hii Husninyo,
umeongea ukweli mtupu, on the other hand!!!!!!!
Mungu alitupa uwezo huo, tukililia hiyo kitu,
unaweza sema mwanaume si ndio huyu,
kumbe ni fisi alieona mfupa tu, akishamaliza utamu wake, anatambaa kilaini!
Husninyo aksante hata mie kusema ukweli sikulitilia sana uzito hilo hoja la kulia na kutoa machozi na kamasi.....btu nahisi kilichomchanganya sisy na mimi pia ni kuona kuwa mwanaume huyo amewezaje kustick kwa muda wote huo na bado akaonyesha emossions za hali ya juu?.........si kwamba dada ni msichana kigori bado la hasha ...ameshakula chumvi zake tu za kutosha. Sijui kwa kweli
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teh teh,niwekee ntainywa j2 ya pasaka,ngoja nikomae na saumu kwanza,lol!