Eti maisha ya seminarini yameniharibu...

kaeso · Nov 21, 2011

Heshima wakuu
Nimeishi miaka saba seminarini tangu nilipoanza pre-form one hadi nilipomaliza form six mwaka juzi. Tangu nimemaliza na kurudi rasmi mtaani nimekuwa na wakati mgumu wa kuzoeana na hawa wenzetu wa jinsia ya kike. Nimekuwa sijiamini ninapokuwa mbele ya mabinti, na nimejaribu kuomba ushauri kwa rafiki zangu ambao wamezoea maisha ya mtaani lakini wanaishia kunisanifu kuwa mambo ya mtaani niwaachie wao kwani siyawezi eti kwa sababu seminari imeniharibu, na kuwa ni bora nikarudi huko.
Naombeni ushauri wa namna ya kuweza kujiamini nami nijichanganye mtaani...

kuberwa · Nov 21, 2011

pole jitahidi dogo au urudi kundini uchunge kondoo wa bwana altare mali yako!

Mr Rocky · Nov 21, 2011

Hii kitu wala usihangaike kuomba ushauri mkuu
We ni mwanaume na kama kila kitu kiko salama utazoea tuu wala usihangaike kuomba kwa wenzako wa mtaani
Sana sana watakucheka na kukuona mshamba wakati uwezo unao
Kwanza umri wako mdogo kama ndo umetoka six zingatia kwanza umalize masomo na kama yupo ambaye amekupenda au anakupenda utampata tuu
masuala ya mapenzi siku hizi sio yale ya kujiona wewe ni mjanja
Angalizo tuu tulia dogo maana utajaanguka sehemu ambayo hutarajii na ukajikuta ujnazima ndoto zako zote

Rose1980 · Nov 21, 2011

tumsifu yesu kristu....uo ni wito mdg wangu......bwna mungu anakuita ukachunge kondoo wake...

Memo · Nov 21, 2011

Nenda major seminary wewe...tena Kipalapala naona ndio panakufaa........huku mtaani tuachie sisi magumegume!!

Prishaz · Nov 21, 2011

Wewe unapaswa kuchunga kondoo,achana na sisi kina Prishaz utatuonea altaren,Tumsifu Yesu Kristu fadha

olele · Nov 21, 2011

We unataka uzoeane nao ili ufanye nini

BADILI TABIA · Nov 21, 2011

kaza moyo jichanganye nao kidogo kidogo utazoea

Consigliere · Nov 21, 2011

That's just transphobia very relatively close to Homophobia, and generally has nothing to do with you seminary background, japo yana mchango fulani ambao ni kuwa ulikuwa confident na hisia zako za woga mbele ya wasichana by then kwasababu mazingira yalikuwa yana promote hofu hiyo and hizo hisia zilikusaidia ku run in the right track.
Sasa hivi upo katika mazingira na desire yako ni kutaka kujaribu ulichokuwa ukikiogopa, thats where your heart start to tremble, feelings za nitajibiwa nini? how does it test like? who is stalking me? what if the majority will know of that and etc, let alone the fear of GOD.
I also been there, so I do understand that kind of experience and feelings.
So don't rush in, bali uwe tabia za Mtakatifu Luka, tabia ya Tai. Kumbuka wasichana si maumbile, bali tabia.
Utajikuta kila wakati (viungo) Moyo na akili zako vinaingia katika mgogoro mkubwa baina ya vyenyewe kwa vyenyewe, lakini ukumbuke somo muhimu ni kuwa ni vizuri kutumia Mioyo yetu kwa ajili ya wengine (sympathy) na ni salama kutumia akili (Logic) zetu kwa mambo yatuhusuyo au tunayohisi ni magumu.

Falling in Love is Great But being in Love is disaster.

Evarm · Nov 21, 2011

Consigliere said:
That's just transphobia very relatively close to Homophobia, and generally has nothing to do with you seminary background, japo yana mchango fulani ambao ni kuwa ulikuwa confident na hisia zako za woga mbele ya wasichana by then kwasababu mazingira yalikuwa yana promote hofu hiyo and hizo hisia zilikusaidia ku run in the right track.
Sasa hivi upo katika mazingira na desire yako ni kutaka kujaribu ulichokuwa ukikiogopa, thats where your heart start to tremble, feelings za nitajibiwa nini? how does it test like? who is stalking me? what if the majority will know of that and etc, let alone the fear of GOD.
I also been there, so I do understand that kind of experience and feelings.
So don't rush in, bali uwe tabia za Mtakatifu Luka, tabia ya Tai. Kumbuka wasichana si maumbile, bali tabia.
Utajikuta kila wakati (viungo) Moyo na akili zako vinaingia katika mgogoro mkubwa baina ya vyenyewe kwa vyenyewe, lakini ukumbuke somo muhimu ni kuwa ni vizuri kutumia Mioyo yetu kwa ajili ya wengine (sympathy) na ni salama kutumia akili (Logic) zetu kwa mambo yatuhusuyo au tunayohisi ni magumu.

Falling in Love is Great But being in Love is disaster.

Huu ni ushauri mzuri kwa mtoa mada!

Evarm · Nov 21, 2011

Jaribu kujichanganya na hao wadada baada ya muda utawazoea, hauna tatizo lolote ila ni woga tu ndio unakusumbua!

:A S 465:NB::A S 465::A S 465:
Soma kwanza elimu ni msingi wa kila kitu, ukipata elimu na kazi nzuri hao mademu watajileta wenyewe kwako! Wazuri wanazaliwa kila leo, Naamini ya kuwa Mungu amekuandalia mke mwema kwa ajili yako.

kaeso · Nov 21, 2011

Rose1980 said:
tumsifu yesu kristu....uo ni wito mdg wangu......bwna mungu anakuita ukachunge kondoo wake...

Amina.....

Mpiga Nyoka · Nov 21, 2011

Nenda facebook utajitwalia wengi tu afu unaomba kuonana nao.

kaeso · Nov 21, 2011

Consigliere said:
That's just transphobia very relatively close to Homophobia, and generally has nothing to do with you seminary background, japo yana mchango fulani ambao ni kuwa ulikuwa confident na hisia zako za woga mbele ya wasichana by then kwasababu mazingira yalikuwa yana promote hofu hiyo and hizo hisia zilikusaidia ku run in the right track.
Sasa hivi upo katika mazingira na desire yako ni kutaka kujaribu ulichokuwa ukikiogopa, thats where your heart start to tremble, feelings za nitajibiwa nini? how does it test like? who is stalking me? what if the majority will know of that and etc, let alone the fear of GOD.
I also been there, so I do understand that kind of experience and feelings.
So don't rush in, bali uwe tabia za Mtakatifu Luka, tabia ya Tai. Kumbuka wasichana si maumbile, bali tabia.
Utajikuta kila wakati (viungo) Moyo na akili zako vinaingia katika mgogoro mkubwa baina ya vyenyewe kwa vyenyewe, lakini ukumbuke somo muhimu ni kuwa ni vizuri kutumia Mioyo yetu kwa ajili ya wengine (sympathy) na ni salama kutumia akili (Logic) zetu kwa mambo yatuhusuyo au tunayohisi ni magumu.

Falling in Love is Great But being in Love is disaster.

Asante sana kwa ushauri wako........nimekuelewa vizuri sana...

kaeso · Nov 21, 2011

Mpiga Nyoka said:
Nenda facebook utajitwalia wengi tu afu unaomba kuonana nao.

Ambao hata siwafahamu.......:shock:

KIHENGE · Nov 21, 2011

Mpiga Nyoka said:
Nenda facebook utajitwalia wengi tu afu unaomba kuonana nao.

huko facebook sijui hata inatumikaje duuu mkuu Ingia kanisani jitwalie wako, wala usijali mwenzio nilifanywa hivyo na ninafurahia maisha!

mtoto mpole · Nov 21, 2011

kaeso said:
Heshima wakuu
Nimeishi miaka saba seminarini tangu nilipoanza pre-form one hadi nilipomaliza form six mwaka juzi. Tangu nimemaliza na kurudi rasmi mtaani nimekuwa na wakati mgumu wa kuzoeana na hawa wenzetu wa jinsia ya kike. Nimekuwa sijiamini ninapokuwa mbele ya mabinti, na nimejaribu kuomba ushauri kwa rafiki zangu ambao wamezoea maisha ya mtaani lakini wanaishia kunisanifu kuwa mambo ya mtaani niwaachie wao kwani siyawezi eti kwa sababu seminari imeniharibu, na kuwa ni bora nikarudi huko.
Naombeni ushauri wa namna ya kuweza kujiamini nami nijichanganye mtaani...

malizia wito kijana...mshukuru Mungu kwa hilo wala usitake kuzoeana nao...

mzee wandimu · Nov 21, 2011

mkuu ulikuwa seminari gani?

Mulama · Nov 21, 2011

Wewe ulikuwa seminari ya wapi?! mbona huko wanafukuzwa kwa kukutwa na barua za mapenzi na wengine kufumaniwa?!

Mpiga Nyoka · Nov 21, 2011

kaeso said:
Ambao hata siwafahamu.......:shock:

Sasa utawafahamu vipi wakati ujakutana nao! Hii ndo dunia na hicho kitendo kinaitwa kujamiiana.

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