How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support?

[Wasomba]

There is this girl I met at my working place in the mid last year, we exchanged contact that day, and one thing led to the other and we started dating. We are really into each other and I can sense how much she care about me compared to other relationships I have been in the past.

But when my mum got to know about her, she said she's not in support with our relationship and she has never said such in my past relationship.

Please I want to seek advice from my fellow JF members here on how I can peacefully end the relationship without hurting her feelings.

And how can I justify myself so that she won't have a bad impression about me (and men in general) that I just use her and dump her.

 

[new generation]

Why yo mother doesn't support yo relationship?

 

[Lone _Wolf]

Do you thinking ending the relationship won't hurt her? And is it your life or your mother's? Is it you or your mom knows what you want or are you an amateur or teenager?
Listen i will just advice you smoothly that follow your heart but take your brains with you, how? I will answer that also , it is you that knows whats best for you since your a grown up,to avoid misunderstanding and conflicts ask your mom to give you justifiable reasons to why she does not support that relationship and as a real man then look for a way to talk to your mother and make her understand that all is required of her is her support nothing else , unless you never loved the lady or you were just testing yourself to her

 

[Tansy]

Did your mother give out any reason for not approving your relationship , there must be something ,

 

[themanhimself176]

I don't think there will be any way for you ending your relationship with her.....without hurting her

I don't think for sure

But my advice is you have to tell her the reality so that she can know what's going on without any preconditions and any circumstances which may force you to hide anything from

Just tell her the truth

 

[roja24]

Simple !!! Very VERY SIMPLE

 

[roja24]

NATUMAINI UMEKUWA NAE NA UNATEMBEA NAE/ NAMAANISHA KUSEX NAE . MI KWA UPANDE WANGU KAMA DEM SIMTAK NAMUOMBA MARINDA TUU NA AKIKOMAA NAKUWA NAPIGA MARINDA TUUUU MWENYEWE ATAKUACHA!

 

[Wasomba]

NATUMAINI UMEKUWA NAE NA UNATEMBEA NAE/ NAMAANISHA KUSEX NAE . MI KWA UPANDE WANGU KAMA DEM SIMTAK NAMUOMBA MARINDA TUU NA AKIKOMAA NAKUWA NAPIGA MARINDA TUUUU MWENYEWE ATAKUACHA!

Sawa ILA tambua na mwanao ipo siku atakuwa anatoa hayo Malinda huku analia baba baaaaabaaaaas! HAHAAAAAA. MALIPO NI HAPA HAPA DUNIANI. ATAKAYEUA KWA UPANGA NAYE ATAUWAWA KWA UPANGA.

 

[Mwaiwao]

Do you thinking ending the relationship won't hurt her? And is it your life or your mother's? Is it you or your mom knows what you want or are you an amateur or teenager?
Listen i will just advice you smoothly that follow your heart but take your brains with you, how? I will answer that also , it is you that knows whats best for you since your a grown up,to avoid misunderstanding and conflicts ask your mom to give you justifiable reasons to why she does not support that relationship and as a real man then look for a way to talk to your mother and make her understand that all is required of her is her support nothing else , unless you never loved the lady or you were just testing yourself to her

Your a coward asking advice?why breaking a heart of an innocent woman?at first you never loved her you just played with her feelings may the Lord punish you.