I am single again...'Honesty' is not the best policy!!

[Kaunga]

Pole but still that innocent kiss is still questionable considering the fact that he was neglecting you at the time, so the kiss popped out of nowhere?
You know i feel for you girl lakini ungebaki tu kimya if that kiss meant nothing

Double like Liz!
l think ni bora amsome Mtambuzi na uzi wake wa emotional cheating!

 

[phina]

are you sound minded?
i said not kissing him was the right thing to do.
Anyone can apologize.
But very few can control themselves and bad enough you aint one of them.

be objective..naona unaanza ku blab around tu!!
what are you saying that is so different from what i am saying??its amazing how you know that some people cant control themselves..you however cant think as well!!what tells you i cant control yourself??your 'hollier than thou' act isnt helping your case..at all.i can bet my life on it that you made some mistakes and were forgiven..not judged

 

[phina]

Double like Liz!
l think ni bora amsome Mtambuzi na uzi wake wa emotional cheating!

nimesoma thread yake..my point is in the end-that was cheating!even if i wasnt emotionally attached to the kisser i did the deed and there has to be consenquences..unfortunately for me it meant loosing my guy.

 

[Kaunga]

nimesoma thread yake..my point is in the end-that was cheating!even if i wasnt emotionally attached to the kisser i did the deed and there has to be consenquences..unfortunately for me it meant loosing my guy.

Good then, but dont blame on the honesty and that one can not handle the truth. Better blame on the weather if you cant blame yourself!

 

[phina]

Waoh some kisses can be electrifying eeh!
Good thing that you knew it was a wrong thing to do. Now the telling part, nafikiri the fact that your BF kinda knew about it, before you told him has a lot to tell as well; na sijui ulionesha kujuta ulivyoungama lakini hata mimi nisingeichukua vizuri.

we were on a rough patch then and i dint have the time to tell him before he found out..
honestly hata mimi nisingeichukulia vizuri..so am not mad at him at all. i am just re-thinking the honesty policy.

 

[phina]

Waoh some kisses can be electrifying eeh!
Good thing that you knew it was a wrong thing to do. Now the telling part, nafikiri the fact that your BF kinda knew about it, before you told him has a lot to tell as well; na sijui ulionesha kujuta ulivyoungama lakini hata mimi nisingeichukua vizuri.

i wish it was..it was a lousy one!!!

 

[ako me maste]

you did a write thing dear mana kama ungeficha au kudanganya ingekutesa for the rest of your life, big up.

 

[Elizabeth Dominic]

he heard about it..i was to either lie and say it never happen or come clean!!it was out of nowhere..i dont even like that guy-never liked him at ol!!

Ala kumbe! Now it make sense, kumbe you had to. I can imagine, anasikia rumors only to confirm its true. Ingekuwa slightly different kama ingetoka straight from horse's mouth

 

[phina]

Good then, but dont blame on the honesty and that one can not handle the truth. Better blame on the weather if you cant blame yourself!

i am blaming myself..but once in a while i think that if i denied the rumors,if i said that 'hayo ni maneno ya watu tu' i would still have him..just saying

 

[Mvaa Tai]

Nahisi kama nataka kutongoza ngoja ni- log off

 

[phina]

Ala kumbe! Now it make sense, kumbe you had to. I can imagine, anasikia rumors only to confirm its true. Ingekuwa slightly different kama ingetoka straight from horse's mouth

its not like i dint want to..we were on a rough patch-imagine the next time i talk to him i tell him 'oh..by the way i kissed a guy while i was mad at you..it didnt mean anything'
i was going to tell him but he asked first-poor timing for me!

 

[Elizabeth Dominic]

Double like Liz!
l think ni bora amsome Mtambuzi na uzi wake wa emotional cheating!

Lakini kumbe jamaa alisikia rumors akamconfront phina ikabidi aje clean, si unaona hiyo mbaya zaidi? Heri angesema mwenyewe kabla guy hajasikia rumors

 

[Kaunga]

i am blaming myself..but once in a while i think that if i denied the rumors,if i said that 'hayo ni maneno ya watu tu' i would still have him..just saying

Kuna mawili, angeweza kuununua huo uongo, au angeweza kuukataa na akakakudharau mwisho wa siku. Mimi nakupongeza kwa kuungama (you did the right thing) lakini tujue kuungama sio ticket ya kurudisha mambo sawa; kukusamehe natumaini kakusamehe lakini doa limeshaingia na to some ni bora kuachana kuliko kuishi na hilo doa.

 

[phina]

Nahisi kama nataka kutongoza ngoja ni- log off

hahahah..duh!!wasalimie huko uendako..

 

[Crucial Man]

I am available and searching... ni-MP please!

hunter hunted

 

[phina]

Kuna mawili, angeweza kuununua huo uongo, au angeweza kuukataa na akakakudharau mwisho wa siku. Mimi nakupongeza kwa kuungama (you did the right thing) lakini tujue kuungama sio ticket ya kurudisha mambo sawa; kukusamehe nina uhakika kakusamehe lakini doa limeshaingia na to some ni bora kuachana kuliko kuishi na hilo doa.

kweli kabisa..i like!

 

[Elizabeth Dominic]

its not like i dint want to..we were on a rough patch-imagine the next time i talk to him i tell him 'oh..by the way i kissed a guy while i was mad at you..it didnt mean anything'
i was going to tell him but he asked first-poor timing for me!

Kweli imekaa vibaya dear, try to move on what you did is brave ulikuwa na uwezo wa kudanganya na ku save your relationship but u came clean

 

[IzeGREAT]

a)tongue to tongue..
b)a friend of a friend
c)angry..at him. not alcohol free but i was fully conscious-i wasnt drunk if that is what you are asking..

...aaah,thank U Phina4ur honesty answers,and Me as ''MAN WITH TESTOSTERONES'',not ''A WOMAN'',I will jst say zis2U friendly and with ze experience of HUMAN NATURE AND EMOTIONAL AS WELL AS HORMONAL diferences btn MEN AND WOMEN,especialy in LOVE FEELINGS;
a)''TONGUE-TONGUE KISS'' for a woman is NEVER un-intentional,especialy4an African woman considerin even our culture that we grow into,so far U said U was NOT DRUNK,and mor U didnt BREAK up yet wiz ur Man(i.e uliza wanaume wangapi walikiss tongue-tongue jst on ze moment na waischana wao wa Kiafrika mara baada ya kukubaliwa,hapa nazungumiza wale wenye mpango wa future na si vinginevyo,wangi mie ilinichukua months2put my tongue into her mouth,I used2end on ze lips).

b)''A FRIEND OF A FRIEND'' to Me I can say He was complete stranger2U Phina,so to ''FRENCH KISS'' Him without U having any elements of ''CRASHH ON HIM'' does not ring well in my head,remember U ar woman with female emotions,and women gives only2guys they like/love.
c)People passes sruu dificulties in relationships,feeling neglected,disrespected,not given much atention,etc,ol ziz staffs makes us angry2our partners,zats OK bkoz its human nature2feel angry,zat shows U care abt somebody,ila isiwe ni reason ya kuluz control over our emotions and do stupid staffs zat We will regret4ze rest of our lives..,TRUST ME,IN RELATIOSHIP2BE CAUGHT FRENCH KISSING ANAZA PERSON IS ONE REASON ENOUGH2END THE RELATIOSHIP,na wote watakoskia story watakuwa agaisnt na aliyetoa ulimi wake kumpa m2wa tatu wakati relatioship ni ya watu wawili tuu,talking sruu wiz Him would have been a gud thing,naamini ungejua why U felt ze way felt for Him.

Ushauri wangu kwako,...HONESTY KILLS MIGHT KILL AND SOMETIMES A LIE IS ZE BEST THING2DO IF U KNEW HOW WRONG WAS U AND MEAN NEVER2REPEAT...

 

[Mkeshahoi]

Some beer?!

 

[Bigirita]

Wenzako hawasemi........hata wakikamatwa wanakana!!
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