I am still in love with my first love.

Wana MMU, naanzisha hii thread with tears almost dropping off my eyes. Its all about my first love, its long since we talked to each other, our relationship wasn't possible 4 years ago because of the distance thing, then another prince charming came in her life. The thing is this, I have been trying to be in love again bt I find it so hard na nakuta I dont mean it most of times which as a reasonable man I thnk its unfair. The point of getting back to her seems impossible coz she seems very comfortable where she is.
Nisaidieni jamani, this thing is eating every part of me.

2 give up doesn't mean u weak...but it show how strong enough ur to let it go,live ur past behaind...follow present.

Don Mangi said:

Wana MMU, naanzisha hii thread with tears almost dropping off my eyes. Its all about my first love, its long since we talked to each other, our relationship wasn't possible 4 years ago because of the distance thing, then another prince charming came in her life. The thing is this, I have been trying to be in love again bt I find it so hard na nakuta I dont mean it most of times which as a reasonable man I thnk its unfair. The point of getting back to her seems impossible coz she seems very comfortable where she is.
Nisaidieni jamani, this thing is eating every part of me.

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It is necessary to guard the mouth than the chest!

pole.endelea kujikaza,laa si hivyo,utaendelea kujiumiza.mwenzako ame move on,kwa nini wewe ushindwe?ipo siku utapenda tena,jipe muda.ji keep busy.mie wangu namjua alipo,lakini hanipi presha,nimuone hapo,wala sishituki,kila mtu ame move on.na mimi nikimpenda mtu,nampenda,ila nikisha move on,na move on.

B'REAL said:

2 give up doesn't mean u weak...but it show how strong enough ur to let it go,live ur past behaind...follow present.

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Thanx, but I am still trying in all these 4 years. . .

Iselamagazi said:

It is necessary to guard the mouth than the chest!

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Maybe because I turn too emotional when I think of her.

Tell your heart that you need a freedom and also tell your head that you need to start your life again.

kisukari said:

pole.endelea kujikaza,laa si hivyo,utaendelea kujiumiza.mwenzako ame move on,kwa nini wewe ushindwe?ipo siku utapenda tena,jipe muda.ji keep busy.mie wangu namjua alipo,lakini hanipi presha,nimuone hapo,wala sishituki,kila mtu ame move on.na mimi nikimpenda mtu,nampenda,ila nikisha move on,na move on.

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Sante Kisukari, najitahidi but naona kama kila substitute haifuti makovu vile, yani. . . .

Mangi stop trying. . .
Unajilazimisha kupenda wakati hauko tayari, hiyo haikusaidii. We tulia, tumia muda wako kujipenda mpaka utakapokutana na mtu ambae utagundua umempenda bila kupanga. Sasa hivi unazidi kujichanganya tu.

platozoom said:

Tell your heart that you need a freedom and tell your head that you need to start your life again.

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I've tried that, even to a point of psychoengineering lakini wapi, thats why I thnk I need a nice advice of what to do to get me through this.

Pole, muombe Mungu akusaidie.

Lizzy said:

Mangi stop trying. . .
Unajilazimisha kupenda wakati hauko tayari, hiyo haikusaidii. We tulia, tumia muda wako kujipenda mpaka utakapokutana na mtu ambae utagundua umempenda bila kupanga. Sasa hivi unazidi kujichanganya tu.

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Thanx Lizzy, I will try, but how long does it take to forget someone? Eternity?

Pole sana ndugu,amini tu kwamba uta mpata utakae mpenda nae atakupenda vile
vile.Jitahidi kumsahau.

platozoom said:

Tell your heart that you need a freedom and also tell your head that you need to start your life again.

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Teh!teh!teh!is it?

Kbd said:

Pole, muombe Mungu akusaidie.

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Thanx, I am, i do meditate spiritually a lot.

Albina said:

Pole sana ndugu,amini tu kwamba uta mpata utakae mpenda nae atakupenda vile
vile.Jitahidi kumsahau.

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Asante, najitahidi miaka yote hii mi 4

Mkuu for 4 years bado una shindwa kukubaliana na matokeo. come on man!!...let it go bhanaa....forget it and move on. no more chance to win her as you said, ameridhika na mpenzi wake mpya baada ya kukutema. Be a gentleman...mpotezee tafuta maisha mengine.

Vinci said:

Mkuu for 4 years bado una shindwa kukubaliana na matokeo. come on man!!...let it go bhanaa....forget it and move on. no more chance to win her as you said, ameridhika na mpenzi wake mpya baada ya kukutema. Be a gentleman...mpotezee tafuta maisha mengine.

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Mkuu. . .hapo katikati nimeshakua na relations mbili hivi but naona I do still love her yan.

Don Mangi said:

Thanx Lizzy, I will try, but how long does it take to forget someone? Eternity?

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At takes another great woman to make you forget. . . time doesn't really matter. Kwahiyo acha kufikiria muda, fikiria kupata mtu mwingine ambae ataukosha moyo wako.

time heals all wounds