Kaizer
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This is always something good to hear from a Woman!
I AM WOMAN
. A Woman I am
HAPPY WOMAN's Day to My Fellow Women.
I AM WOMAN . A Woman I am HAPPY WOMAN's Day to My Fellow Women.
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This is always something good to hear from a Woman!
Preta
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Maganga Mkweli
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Kheri ya sikukuu wanabeijingii ...
Safari_ni_Safari
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When God sat down to make a woman
He gave her empathy love and compassion,
By the time he finished with her
He had no more left for the man.
He gave her the ability to be a mother
And nurture and take care of others.
Slowly, on reflecting, it dawned on her
She was being treated like a piece of furniture.
At first she resigned to her fate
Bore the indifference of her progeny and mate.
Slowly she realised she didn't have to be a victim,
And didn't have to be at the mercy or everyone's whims.
She knew it was not going to be an easy battle to be won,
Yet she took on everyone.
She began to firmly express her views
And waited to get her due.
At first it didn't go down well with anyone,
They wondered if she had been possessed by a demon.
Men were not amused,
In fact they were confused.
We give her food, clothes and roof over her head,
But the woman had empowered herself to earn her own bread,
Car, house and thus managed to redeem,
With her hard work her self esteem.
She had made a tough choice,
And finally had a voice
Men tried very hard to keep her in her place
And made sure she got no space.
They were not at par,
This is a question I have to ask the Lord.
So there was a war,
Did man pay a ransom to God?
No matter what a woman achieves,
She rarely receives
The acknowledgement which she deserves.
Yet she is able to preserve
Her sanity and peace.
And learn to live with dis-ease,
Then her inner voice whispered to her,
Don't resign just pamper
His ego, and give him the credit
For all the merit.
Watch how his chest swells with pride
And he might be on your side.
Men actually never grow up,
So from time to time pump
Them up with a hug and a fancy meal.
It will make them feel
Like a king while you smile.
It's not all that difficult to use a little guile.
Silly women you haven't gone about it the right way,
Use your soft, cunning, clever, gentle voice and say
I am so proud to be wearing this wedding band.
Chances are he will be eating out of your hand.
You only stand to gain
Even if you feign.
So go ahead and do your own thing,
Let him feel you owe him your sense of well being.
Women's liberation never went down well with men
So don't chant what women want while you are in your den
While you laze around sipping your wine
Don't be surprised if he sheepishly asks, will you like to go out to dine? '
God you made us smart
Right from the start.
It took us a long time to realise
And become cool, calm and wise,
To use enlightened manipulation
With a subtle passion
While having our own way
So that he may
Feel we were just following his command,
And there was no reason to feel alarmed.
If he says he wants to bond with his male friends,
Smile and say go I have lots of errands
There is no point to sulk and wait,
Till he returns and opens the gate.
Use this time to make sure
You have a good time even if you just go for a pedicure.
Indulge in your famous past times
While sipping soda and lime.
Chances are when you have both had your space,
You won't have to face
Cold vibes and bad temper,
This will only hamper
You from a good night sleep,
While you helplessly weep
While he sleeps and snores by your side,
And you swallow your pride.
Women love yourselves, and put youselves first
But please you must
Not voice it at all
This way I promise you will have a ball.
He gave her empathy love and compassion,
By the time he finished with her
He had no more left for the man.
He gave her the ability to be a mother
And nurture and take care of others.
Slowly, on reflecting, it dawned on her
She was being treated like a piece of furniture.
At first she resigned to her fate
Bore the indifference of her progeny and mate.
Slowly she realised she didn't have to be a victim,
And didn't have to be at the mercy or everyone's whims.
She knew it was not going to be an easy battle to be won,
Yet she took on everyone.
She began to firmly express her views
And waited to get her due.
At first it didn't go down well with anyone,
They wondered if she had been possessed by a demon.
Men were not amused,
In fact they were confused.
We give her food, clothes and roof over her head,
But the woman had empowered herself to earn her own bread,
Car, house and thus managed to redeem,
With her hard work her self esteem.
She had made a tough choice,
And finally had a voice
Men tried very hard to keep her in her place
And made sure she got no space.
They were not at par,
This is a question I have to ask the Lord.
So there was a war,
Did man pay a ransom to God?
No matter what a woman achieves,
She rarely receives
The acknowledgement which she deserves.
Yet she is able to preserve
Her sanity and peace.
And learn to live with dis-ease,
Then her inner voice whispered to her,
Don't resign just pamper
His ego, and give him the credit
For all the merit.
Watch how his chest swells with pride
And he might be on your side.
Men actually never grow up,
So from time to time pump
Them up with a hug and a fancy meal.
It will make them feel
Like a king while you smile.
It's not all that difficult to use a little guile.
Silly women you haven't gone about it the right way,
Use your soft, cunning, clever, gentle voice and say
I am so proud to be wearing this wedding band.
Chances are he will be eating out of your hand.
You only stand to gain
Even if you feign.
So go ahead and do your own thing,
Let him feel you owe him your sense of well being.
Women's liberation never went down well with men
So don't chant what women want while you are in your den
While you laze around sipping your wine
Don't be surprised if he sheepishly asks, will you like to go out to dine? '
God you made us smart
Right from the start.
It took us a long time to realise
And become cool, calm and wise,
To use enlightened manipulation
With a subtle passion
While having our own way
So that he may
Feel we were just following his command,
And there was no reason to feel alarmed.
If he says he wants to bond with his male friends,
Smile and say go I have lots of errands
There is no point to sulk and wait,
Till he returns and opens the gate.
Use this time to make sure
You have a good time even if you just go for a pedicure.
Indulge in your famous past times
While sipping soda and lime.
Chances are when you have both had your space,
You won't have to face
Cold vibes and bad temper,
This will only hamper
You from a good night sleep,
While you helplessly weep
While he sleeps and snores by your side,
And you swallow your pride.
Women love yourselves, and put youselves first
But please you must
Not voice it at all
This way I promise you will have a ball.
Dark City
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Kwa maelezo yako,
You guys are on top of everything!!
Unataka niharibu mbonga kwa kuibatiza (kuwekea maji mengi pasipo lazima)???!!!!
Mubarikiwe sana bandugu zangu bapenzi..ila tumieni hizo karama mlopewa na Mw Mungu kutupa raha, furaha na amani!!!
Babu DC!!
AshaDii
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Asante Pal... Alicia Keys anasema "A real Man can not deny a Woman's Worth" I believe in her eyes kwa post hii it means you do qualify to be acknowledged as one if indeed your words are embedded in your actions... and I believe they are...
Kaunga
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God has to be a woman, ndio maana akaona mwanamke anafaa sana katika kumsaidia kazi kubwa ya creation; angekuwa mwanaume, kina baba ndio mngekuwa mnabeba mimba na kutuzaa!
AshaDii
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Raha, Furha na Amani ipo both ways kaka..... Ninaposema we have that power haina maana kua Daima twasimamia... Sometimes Inachosha and that is when wakuta we are fade up and don't care anymore.... Which is a really really Critical stage, na the only good thing from it ni kua we don't get fade up that easily.....
Pascal Mayalla
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Mkuu Asha Dii, thanks for this wonderful peace!. Nai cut na kuipaste kwenye word nimprintie wife aisome kwa kituo. Umenikumbusha ule wimbo wa "Greatest Love of All" wa Whitney!. Thanks again!. Happy Women's Day!.
Mm
Safari_ni_Safari
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Watakuja wale kina nanihii watasema......MUNGU haoi na wala hazai........:lol::eyebrows::embarassed2:
AshaDii
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Smiles usije ona other women appreciate Men ukadhani kua wao hawajawahi borekeka nao.... Wewe unawachukia sababu you have given them the power to control you completely and for long. Inapokua maamuzi, mtazamo wako na kuharibu furaha na Amani kwa ajili ya Mwanaume... Then hapo ndipo hasa unampa nguvu. Na bahati mbaya unapo umia na kupitia yoote hayo ukute hata habari hana. Ni Kweli akuumize for a while na uchukie lakini usiidumishe.... else unakua umekabidhi maisha yako kwake....
Nimependa sentensi yako ya Mwisho... Kumbuka kujipenda ni pamoja na kutokubali mtu akuharibu inside.... Thank you for sharing...