I need help to control my sexual desires

I need help to control my sexual desires

Ooh God help this woman

And please you have to know your triggers


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Have you sought help?

Or this is [sharing it with us] your way of seeking help?
Yes I am seeking help here.... Someone else could have experienced this and therefore shed some light on how to go about it.
 
* Do you get satisfaction during intimacy?
* How many times do you cum during sex? (Yaani raundi/mzunguko mmoja)
* How often do you have the desire to "meet your man" after the first intercourse?

Oftentimes couples in their mid 30s and 40s are having some of the best sex of their lives—they have more permission and motivation to explore different aspects of sexuality. They are more open to exploring at this age due to sexual confidence, a stronger sense of sexual self, desire to make sex more playful, or feeling deeper emotional bonding for more meaningful and passionate sex.

Kimbembe kinakuja wewe unataka kuchapana sana, mwenzako hana nguvu za kumaliza utamu ulionao. Turning into a whore? Not really!!

Your last paragraph says it all.

I am married. I want to contain my desires. I have no problems with orgasm especially now am getting them in multiples

My husband is quenching my desires but the problem is I want more

I do not want him to feel like he doesn't fulfill my needs and I certainly do not want these hyped desires!
 
Your last paragraph says it all.

I am married. I want to contain my desires. I have no problems with orgasm especially now am getting them in multiples

My husband is quenching my desires but the problem is I want more

I do not want him to feel like he doesn't fulfill my needs and I certainly do not want these hyped desires!

Does he quench? Coz if he quenched your desires, you wouldn't want more, IMO. Ajaribu basi mfanye oral sex zaidi ya pene...!

think you don't really have any problem, ningemshauri tu mume wako aongeze utundu ili uridhike japo anaweza kushindwa kufanya majukumu mengine.

Kama asubuhi vinne, usiku hamlali, mkiwa home unataka tu, the man will be running away from IT.
 
Does he quench? Coz if he quenched your desires, you wouldn't want more, IMO. Ajaribu basi mfanye oral sex zaidi ya pene...! I think you don't really have any problem, ningemshauri tu mume wako aongeze utundu ili uridhike japo anaweza kushindwa kufanya majukumu mengine. Kama asubuhi vinne, usiku hamlali, mkiwa home unataka tu, the man will be running away from IT.

He quenches my desires. I can't complain.

Shida Ni mie naanza kuzidiwa hamu.

And I can't say enough times how I hate it.
 
He quenches my desires. I can't complain.

Shida Ni mie naanza kuzidiwa hamu.

And I can't say enough times how I hate it.
How do you control your urge to have sex when away from home(him)?

Have you tried personal satisfaction? i.e masturbation.
 
Ooh if its a desire is so controllable,
If you eat chocolates sana ACHA,
Exercise sana,..
Oooh I hadn't seen this.

Yes I watch porn once in a while but it is out of curiosity.

Chocolates, no. But coffee, yes.

Masturbation? No. The only business I have with my Vag is cleaning bhass. Not feeling. ( Blush blush)
 
How do you control your urge to have sex when away from home(him)?

Have you tried personal satisfaction? i.e masturbation.
Zamani Sana I tried feeling myself. Let's just say sikurudia Tena. Lol.

So weird. Huko kwa Vag kuna plateaus na hills and volcanoes I didn't know which way to go I just ended up feeling silly.
 
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Was too much for me, i had to work ooh and she wanted sex every time,
I sent her to the therapist, her past was destroying her, she started to take pills to reduce her desire, hope she is fine now.

About my woman yes, we have a beautiful baby boy now, you can see them if you visit my profile.

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I can't see your profile hun.

I really want to see them. I can see a boyish looking pretty girl.
 
Dear Karucee,
Worry not is just normal
Tensy sexual desire is just normal emotional feelings when you are okay both physically and mentally.

Things that diminish sexual desire are:
Acute or chronic disease
Depression
Brokeness
Stress
Busy with work
Hunger and
Being in menopause

Otherwise, sexual drive is sign of health and being satisfied with your life


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Therefore you mean if I go for a hormone test, and one of these hormones is on the high I can get treatment to balance it and these wild desires will be gone?

Is that it?
I am not a doctor, i ve no idea.

BTW you are saying the desire has increased but what if this is what it should have been like?
 
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