Inapendeza zaidi kama...

[Kinnega]

Itapendeza zaidi kama tukipitia upya mila na sheria zetu.

Mzizi wa fitina wa tatizo la tegemezi la kiuchumi la mwanamke kwa mwanamme umechimbiwa kwenye sheria:

It shall be the duty of every husband to maintain his wife or wives and to provide them with such accommodation, clothing and food as may be reasonable having regard to his means and station in life! (Section 63 (a), Law of Marriage Act, No. 5/1971, Chapter 29 of Laws of Tanzania, R.E. 2002)

Sasa kwa nini nisianze kujifunza na kuzoea kuchunwa vocha za Tigo kama siku za usoni nitategemewa kisheria nije kununua mavazi yake, chakula, malazi, usafiri, vipodozi na viyoyozi?

Na kabla sijamtwaa kumfanya wangu mwenyewe, italazimu kwa sheria za kimila nimnunue kwa “bride price” ya mbuzi, sungura, ngo’mbe, laki kadhaa, bata na kanga ndege na kanga nguo kwa wakwe. Ndio mila, ndio sheria.

Potofu, za kale; Zinazofanya wanaume wengine walazimishe baadae kulipwa tigo zao! Si kamnunua? Ukinunua nyumba kuna chumba unaambiwa usende si chako?

Na wanasema, wakungwi na manyakanga wasema, ukishamnunua kwa “bride price,” haruhusiwi kulala amejisitiri!

 

[Akili Kichwani]

Uko sahihi kabisa.. mambo ya wanawake yamewekwa bayana sana na kwa kiasi kikubwa yanajulika... mikakati mbalimbali imewekwa kuyashughulikia... ya wanaume yapo mengi mno lakini hayajulikani kwa undani... na kwa vile hayajulikani basi huishia kulaumiwa zaidi badala ya kusaidiwa. stay tuned nitakuleteeni ishu hii ..huenda tukavunja ukimywa.

yah, sasa tuko pamoja........................ hebu leta haraka hiyo ishu tuidadavue hapa labda tutaanza kupiga hatua halisi kuelekea tunakokusudia ................ kwenye fursa sawa katika jamii.........

 

[WomanOfSubstance]

Itapendeza zaidi kama tukipitia upya mila na sheria zetu.

Mzizi wa fitina wa tatizo la tegemezi la kiuchumi la mwanamke kwa mwanamme umechimbiwa kwenye sheria:

It shall be the duty of every husband to maintain his wife or wives and to provide them with such accommodation, clothing and food as may be reasonable having regard to his means and station in life! (Section 63 (a), Law of Marriage Act, No. 5/1971, Chapter 29 of Laws of Tanzania, R.E. 2002)

Sasa kwa nini nisianze kujifunza na kuzoea kuchunwa vocha za Tigo kama siku za usoni nitategemewa kisheria nije kununua mavazi yake, chakula, malazi, usafiri, vipodozi na viyoyozi?

Na kabla sijamtwaa kumfanya wangu mwenyewe, italazimu kwa sheria za kimila nimnunue kwa “bride price” ya mbuzi, sungura, ngo’mbe, laki kadhaa, bata na kanga ndege na kanga nguo kwa wakwe. Ndio mila, ndio sheria.

Potofu, za kale; Zinazofanya wanaume wengine walazimishe baadae kulipwa tigo zao! Si kamnunua? Ukinunua nyumba kuna chumba unaambiwa usende si chako?

Na wanasema, wakungwi na manyakanga wasema, ukishamnunua kwa “bride price,” haruhusiwi kulala amejisitiri!

absolutely!
These are some of the pertinent issues to be discussed.
Hiyo LMA 1971 ambayo ilichukua miaka 10 kuitengeneza since 1961 - ilijaribu ku accomodate kila kitu - mila, dini na kupata cocktail kama unavyoiona ukiichunguza sasa.... kwa sasa hivi kuna juhudi za kuireview iendane na mazingira halisi... kweli kuna mambo yanayotendeka ya kimila ambayo kwa usasa yasingestahili yafanyike tena.
Halfu pamoja na kuwepo na kifungu hicho cha 63 ni wanaume wangapi kweli hutegemewa na wake zao? Tunajua na im sure kuna hata wenzetu hapa watatoa ushuhuda ni vipi mama zao wamechangia kufanikisha maisha yao kuliko hata baba zao.Methali ya kichina iliyosema ukimsomesha mwanamke umesomesha familia ina maana kubwa sana.

 

[Pretty]

......Itapendeza zaidi kwa mdada kujua kujiheshimu mwenyewe maana ukijua kujiheshimu mwenyewe kwanza basi wengine wote watakupa heshima.

 

[WomanOfSubstance]

......Itapendeza zaidi kwa mdada kujua kujiheshimu mwenyewe maana ukijua kujiheshimu mwenyewe kwanza basi wengine wote watakupa heshima.

Well said Mrembo ( Pretty)

 

[FOE]

......Itapendeza zaidi kwa mdada kujua kujiheshimu mwenyewe maana ukijua kujiheshimu mwenyewe kwanza basi wengine wote watakupa heshima.

Hiyo naikubali, kama dada unajiheshimu jianaume litakujaje tu na kuanza kukupa buku 10? Lazima jamaa aliona hao madada wamekaa mkao wa kupokeapokea hela za wanaume ndio maana akawapa,nao bila aibu wanachukua tu. I'm afraid wakiwa broke hudiriki hata kumbip kumwomba hela. Tupo bongo bana,twayajua haya!

 

[The Boss]

itapendeza zaidi kama wadada unampenda mwanaume mkaacha ku beep
na nyie kujifunza kupiga simu....

 

[TIMING]

I like this thread; its all about the predator and the prey!!! sisi wanaume tumekuzwa tofauti sana kutokana na jamii iliyotuzunguka hasa wakati wa balehe... kuna group inayoamini kwamba bila kitu hupati kitu (kikwete alisema huwezi kula bila kuliwa.... that says alot about where he stands!!). Kuna group nyingine ambayo hufuata yale yaliyo genuine na kuamini true love is priceless na si ya kununua!!

eniwei, mimi naona

---ingependeza zaidi kama wanawake wanaamka na kuacha kuweka mazingira kwamba wao ni "preys"... ningependa kuona wanachagua watakacho bila strings attached
.....ningependa zaidi na zaidi kama wanaume nao wanaanza kujiamini jinsi walivyo na kuacha kutumia accessories kama pesa na magari kupata wanawake wanaowapenda...

KUMBUKA! MWANAUME ANAYEHONGA SI MWANAUME TIMILIFU

 

[FirstLady1]

Itapendeza pia hawa wanaume waache tabia za kutongozatongoza ovyo..... kila wanaemuona wana-test zali...kama atakubali au lah..
Heshima kwa kila mtu tujiheshimu tuheshimike ..

 

[TIMING]

Itapendeza zaidi kama tukipitia upya mila na sheria zetu.

Mzizi wa fitina wa tatizo la tegemezi la kiuchumi la mwanamke kwa mwanamme umechimbiwa kwenye sheria:

It shall be the duty of every husband to maintain his wife or wives and to provide them with such accommodation, clothing and food as may be reasonable having regard to his means and station in life! (Section 63 (a), Law of Marriage Act, No. 5/1971, Chapter 29 of Laws of Tanzania, R.E. 2002)

Sasa kwa nini nisianze kujifunza na kuzoea kuchunwa vocha za Tigo kama siku za usoni nitategemewa kisheria nije kununua mavazi yake, chakula, malazi, usafiri, vipodozi na viyoyozi?

Na kabla sijamtwaa kumfanya wangu mwenyewe, italazimu kwa sheria za kimila nimnunue kwa “bride price” ya mbuzi, sungura, ngo’mbe, laki kadhaa, bata na kanga ndege na kanga nguo kwa wakwe. Ndio mila, ndio sheria.

Potofu, za kale; Zinazofanya wanaume wengine walazimishe baadae kulipwa tigo zao! Si kamnunua? Ukinunua nyumba kuna chumba unaambiwa usende si chako?

Na wanasema, wakungwi na manyakanga wasema, ukishamnunua kwa “bride price,” haruhusiwi kulala amejisitiri!

That is why we read JF everyday!! mkuu umeiweka mahali yake aisee.... Problem/challenge iko hata kwenye vitabu, but that being said, bado itapendeza zaidi kama huu usawa unaohitajika utaanza kuangalia na ku-challenge vitu kama hivi

 

[TIMING]

Itapendeza pia hawa wanaume waache tabia za kutongozatongoza ovyo..... kila wanaemuona wana-test zali...kama atakubali au lah..
Heshima kwa kila mtu tujiheshimu tuheshimike ..

Duh... skweli wewe firstlady1... Yaani hutaki watu watest zali?

 

[Teamo]

itapendeza zaidi kama watu wakaacha unafiki.
unajua kuna watu WANAPRETEND WANAKUPENDA/MPO PAMOJA!wanakuita mpwa,au binamu KUMBE.................

 

[Mentor]

Itapendeza zaidi kama wanajamii wote tutafanya yote tuyafanyayo huku tukijua kwamba tutalipa one day:either kwa huyo unayemchuna au mwingine atakaye kuchuna mpaka ushangae kwani What goes around comes back around!
To bring it closer home: Itapendeza zaidi kama wote tutafanya yote tuyafanyayo with the golden rule in our mind:
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Bahá'í Faith: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Ascribe not to any soul that which thou wouldst not have ascribed to thee, and say not that which thou doest not." "Blessed is he who preferreth his brother before himself." Baha'u'llah[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"And if thine eyes be turned towards justice, choose thou for thy neighbour that which thou choosest for thyself." Epistle to the Son of the Wolf
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Brahmanism: "This is the sum of Dharma [duty]: Do naught unto others which would cause you pain if done to you". Mahabharata, 5:1517 "
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Buddhism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "...a state that is not pleasing or delightful to me, how could I inflict that upon another?" Samyutta NIkaya v. 353 [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful." Udana-Varga 5:18
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Christianity: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets." Matthew 7:12, King James Version.[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise." Luke 6:31, King James Version.[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"...and don't do what you hate...", Gospel of Thomas 6. The Gospel of Thomas is one of about 40 gospels that circulated among the early Christian movement, but which never made it into the Christian Scriptures (New Testament).
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Confucianism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "Do not do to others what you do not want them to do to you" Analects 15:23[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Tse-kung asked, 'Is there one word that can serve as a principle of conduct for life?' Confucius replied, 'It is the word 'shu' -- reciprocity. Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire.'" Doctrine of the Mean 13.3[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Try your best to treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself, and you will find that this is the shortest way to benevolence." Mencius VII.A.4
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Ancient Egyptian:[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Do for one who may do for you, that you may cause him thus to do." The Tale of the Eloquent Peasant, 109 - 110 Translated by R.B. Parkinson. The original dates to circa 1800 BCE and may be the earliest version of the Epic of Reciprocity ever written. 3
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Hinduism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]This is the sum of duty: do not do to others what would cause pain if done to you. Mahabharata 5:1517
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Humanism:[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"(5) Humanists acknowledge human interdependence, the need for mutual respect and the kinship of all humanity."[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"(11) Humanists affirm that individual and social problems can only be resolved by means of human reason, intelligent effort, critical thinking joined with compassion and a spirit of empathy for all living beings. " 4[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Don't do things you wouldn't want to have done to you, British Humanist Society. 3
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Islam: "None of you [truly] believes until he wishes for his brother what he wishes for himself." Number 13 of Imam "Al-Nawawi's Forty Hadiths." 5
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Jainism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "Therefore, neither does he [a sage] cause violence to others nor does he make others do so." Acarangasutra 5.101-2. [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"In happiness and suffering, in joy and grief, we should regard all creatures as we regard our own self." Lord Mahavira, 24th Tirthankara[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"A man should wander about treating all creatures as he himself would be treated. "Sutrakritanga 1.11.33
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Judaism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "...thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.", Leviticus 19:18 [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "What is hateful to you, do not to your fellow man. This is the law: all the rest is commentary." Talmud, Shabbat 31a.[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"And what you hate, do not do to any one." Tobit 4:15 6
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Native American Spirituality: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Respect for all life is the foundation." The Great Law of Peace.[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"All things are our relatives; what we do to everything, we do to ourselves. All is really One." Black Elk[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Do not wrong or hate your neighbor. For it is not he who you wrong, but yourself." Pima proverb.
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Roman Pagan Religion: "The law imprinted on the hearts of all men is to love the members of society as themselves."
[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Shinto: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"The heart of the person before you is a mirror. See there your own form" Munetada Kurozumi[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Be charitable to all beings, love is the representative of God." Ko-ji-ki Hachiman Kasuga
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Sikhism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Compassion-mercy and religion are the support of the entire world". Japji Sahib [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Don't create enmity with anyone as God is within everyone." Guru Arjan Devji 259[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"No one is my enemy, none a stranger and everyone is my friend." Guru Arjan Dev : AG 1299
[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Sufism: "The basis of Sufism is consideration of the hearts and feelings of others. If you haven't the will to gladden someone's heart, then at least beware lest you hurt someone's heart, for on our path, no sin exists but this." Dr. Javad Nurbakhsh, Master of the Nimatullahi Sufi Order.
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Taoism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "Regard your neighbor's gain as your own gain, and your neighbor's loss as your own loss." T'ai Shang Kan Ying P'ien. [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"The sage has no interest of his own, but takes the interests of the people as his own. He is kind to the kind; he is also kind to the unkind: for Virtue is kind. He is faithful to the faithful; he is also faithful to the unfaithful: for Virtue is faithful." Tao Teh Ching, Chapter 49
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Unitarian Universalism: [/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]

"The inherent worth and dignity of every person;"
"Justice, equity and compassion in human relations.... "
"The goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all;"
"We affirm and promote respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part." Unitarian principles. 7,8
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Wicca: "An it harm no one, do what thou wilt" (i.e. do what ever you will, as long as it harms nobody, including yourself). One's will is to be carefully thought out in advance of action. This is called the Wiccan Rede
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Yoruba: (Nigeria): "One going to take a pointed stick to pinch a baby bird should first try it on himself to feel how it hurts."
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Zoroastrianism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "That nature alone is good which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself". Dadistan-i-dinik 94:5[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Whatever is disagreeable to yourself do not do unto others." Shayast-na-Shayast 13:29[/FONT]ref: http://www.religioustolerance.org/reciproc.htm

 

[WomanOfSubstance]

Itapendeza zaidi kama wanajamii wote tutafanya yote tuyafanyayo huku tukijua kwamba tutalipa one day:either kwa huyo unayemchuna au mwingine atakaye kuchuna mpaka ushangae kwani What goes around comes back around!
To bring it closer home: Itapendeza zaidi kama wote tutafanya yote tuyafanyayo with the golden rule in our mind:
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Bahá'í Faith: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Ascribe not to any soul that which thou wouldst not have ascribed to thee, and say not that which thou doest not." "Blessed is he who preferreth his brother before himself." Baha'u'llah[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"And if thine eyes be turned towards justice, choose thou for thy neighbour that which thou choosest for thyself." Epistle to the Son of the Wolf[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Brahmanism: "This is the sum of Dharma [duty]: Do naught unto others which would cause you pain if done to you". Mahabharata, 5:1517 "[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Buddhism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "...a state that is not pleasing or delightful to me, how could I inflict that upon another?" Samyutta NIkaya v. 353 [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful." Udana-Varga 5:18[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Christianity: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets." Matthew 7:12, King James Version.[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise." Luke 6:31, King James Version.[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"...and don't do what you hate...", Gospel of Thomas 6. The Gospel of Thomas is one of about 40 gospels that circulated among the early Christian movement, but which never made it into the Christian Scriptures (New Testament). [/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Confucianism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "Do not do to others what you do not want them to do to you" Analects 15:23[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Tse-kung asked, 'Is there one word that can serve as a principle of conduct for life?' Confucius replied, 'It is the word 'shu' -- reciprocity. Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire.'" Doctrine of the Mean 13.3[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Try your best to treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself, and you will find that this is the shortest way to benevolence." Mencius VII.A.4[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Ancient Egyptian:[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Do for one who may do for you, that you may cause him thus to do." The Tale of the Eloquent Peasant, 109 - 110 Translated by R.B. Parkinson. The original dates to circa 1800 BCE and may be the earliest version of the Epic of Reciprocity ever written. 3[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Hinduism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]This is the sum of duty: do not do to others what would cause pain if done to you. Mahabharata 5:1517[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Humanism:[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"(5) Humanists acknowledge human interdependence, the need for mutual respect and the kinship of all humanity."[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"(11) Humanists affirm that individual and social problems can only be resolved by means of human reason, intelligent effort, critical thinking joined with compassion and a spirit of empathy for all living beings. " 4[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Don't do things you wouldn't want to have done to you, British Humanist Society. 3[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Islam: "None of you [truly] believes until he wishes for his brother what he wishes for himself." Number 13 of Imam "Al-Nawawi's Forty Hadiths." 5[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Jainism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "Therefore, neither does he [a sage] cause violence to others nor does he make others do so." Acarangasutra 5.101-2. [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"In happiness and suffering, in joy and grief, we should regard all creatures as we regard our own self." Lord Mahavira, 24th Tirthankara[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"A man should wander about treating all creatures as he himself would be treated. "Sutrakritanga 1.11.33[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Judaism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "...thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.", Leviticus 19:18 [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "What is hateful to you, do not to your fellow man. This is the law: all the rest is commentary." Talmud, Shabbat 31a.[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"And what you hate, do not do to any one." Tobit 4:15 6[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Native American Spirituality: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Respect for all life is the foundation." The Great Law of Peace.[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"All things are our relatives; what we do to everything, we do to ourselves. All is really One." Black Elk[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Do not wrong or hate your neighbor. For it is not he who you wrong, but yourself." Pima proverb.[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Roman Pagan Religion: "The law imprinted on the hearts of all men is to love the members of society as themselves."[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Shinto: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"The heart of the person before you is a mirror. See there your own form" Munetada Kurozumi[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Be charitable to all beings, love is the representative of God." Ko-ji-ki Hachiman Kasuga[/FONT]
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Sikhism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Compassion-mercy and religion are the support of the entire world". Japji Sahib [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Don't create enmity with anyone as God is within everyone." Guru Arjan Devji 259[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"No one is my enemy, none a stranger and everyone is my friend." Guru Arjan Dev : AG 1299[/FONT]
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Sufism: "The basis of Sufism is consideration of the hearts and feelings of others. If you haven't the will to gladden someone's heart, then at least beware lest you hurt someone's heart, for on our path, no sin exists but this." Dr. Javad Nurbakhsh, Master of the Nimatullahi Sufi Order.[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Taoism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "Regard your neighbor's gain as your own gain, and your neighbor's loss as your own loss." T'ai Shang Kan Ying P'ien. [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"The sage has no interest of his own, but takes the interests of the people as his own. He is kind to the kind; he is also kind to the unkind: for Virtue is kind. He is faithful to the faithful; he is also faithful to the unfaithful: for Virtue is faithful." Tao Teh Ching, Chapter 49 [/FONT]
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Unitarian Universalism: [/FONT][FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]

"The inherent worth and dignity of every person;"
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Justice, equity and compassion in human relations.... "[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"The goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all[/FONT][FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica];"[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"We affirm and promote respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part." Unitarian principles. 7,8
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[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Wicca: "An it harm no one, do what thou wilt" (i.e. do what ever you will, as long as it harms nobody, including yourself). One's will is to be carefully thought out in advance of action. This is called the Wiccan Rede[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Yoruba: (Nigeria): "One going to take a pointed stick to pinch a baby bird should first try it on himself to feel how it hurts."[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]Zoroastrianism: [/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica] "That nature alone is good which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself". Dadistan-i-dinik 94:5[/FONT]

[FONT=trebuchet ms, arial, helvetica]"Whatever is disagreeable to yourself do not do unto others." Shayast-na-Shayast 13:29[/FONT]ref: http://www.religioustolerance.org/reciproc.htm

I like this philosophy! Thanks.
Ya kiswahili....Mkuki kwa nguruwe..kwa binadamu???/

 

[Jayfour_King]

Itapendeza pia hawa wanaume waache tabia za kutongozatongoza ovyo..... kila wanaemuona wana-test zali...kama atakubali au lah..
Heshima kwa kila mtu tujiheshimu tuheshimike ..

Umeongea vizuri mpaka basi, lakini wapaswa kukumbuka kwamba hakuna mafanikio bila majaribio. Cha msingi hapa ni kujiamini kwa wanawake ili akija ambaye sio upepo wako uwe wazi usibanwa na economical factors.

Officially kutongoza sio kubaya ni tool moja muhimu sana katika maisha ila inategemea yule anaye tongozwa ana msimamo gani na ni mkweli kiasi gani. Kwa kuwa kuomba sio kubaya ubaya ni pale unapoahidi kutoa ambacho hakipo kwa matumaini ya kupata chochote ndipo hapo mtu huitwa dada powa.