Ushauri wenu ni mzuri..ila sidhani kama utamsaidia sana!!!!
Haya mambo hutokea na hupangi ni lini wala wapi yatokee..pole mdogo wangu!
Cha maana ni kujiuliza mwenyewe..honestly, from the depth of your heart..kama that is the kind of guy u want in your life. I know the answer might be hurtful..inaumiza ila ndo ukweli, na ndo huo utakao kuset free. Jibu utakalolipata lifanyie kazi.
On second thought, I think you kind of still having some feelings on your first boyfriend. Coz, though hana uhusiano wowote na story hii mpya...
Again, hebu jichunguze pia mwenyewe ujiulize kama there is anything wrong with you (unajitunza vyema, tabia na maadili, marafiki ulionao, usafi, msimamo wako wa maisha, pamoja na mipango yako ya mbeleni)..These can be things that will chase him later when he gets to know u better. Plus, mazingira ya mlipokutana..as in, kama mlikutana club akakutokea ukakubali..u didnt expect it to be lasting, na anaona unang'angania sana so inabidi akupotezee...
Also, mliuanzaje urafiki wenu..wat promises and plans!??
Seriously, ni vizuri kujiuliza haya mambo-with all honesty-koz sometimes its not always his mistake!
Mwisho, tafadhali dadangu..usiuchezee muda wako huu uwapo shuleni...soma, concentrate on building yourself, being independent (self development) and praying to God..utajipata hata hayo mawazo ya boyfriend yanapungua. Hata wanaume wenyewe watajileta...who doesn't want an independent lady who is focused on her things and self growth!??at least not me..
iblia inasema: Mke mwema mtu hupata kwa Bwana...
(My theology on this):
Kama ambavyo baba hawezi kukubali bintiye aolewe tu na mtu hohehahe..ndivyo ambavyo Mungu hatokubali mwanaye apate mume hohehahe..so its not just abt the man, jiulize "Mimi ni mke mwema?"..only when the answer is an honest YES..thn, can u find a faithful and devoted man for a husband.
All the best my dia..and be blessed.